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☁️ what is age regression? ☁️

(long post); a TLDR at the bottom

Hey anon! Thank you so much for stopping by to ask your question. I'll be answering it for you today -🧸 Hawks.

first of all, I'd like to say that yes, you did type it right! English isn't our first language either, so we understand! People also may spell "age regression" as "agere" which is just a shorter version of it. So when someone spells it that way, they're the same thing./information

-Now, what is age regression? What's it used for? :

age regression is, in short, a coping mechanism where people may mentally regress to a younger age than themselves physically. Example, let's say person A is an age regressor. They are 20 years old. But regress to a much younger age. Like 3-6 years old. Age regression is very different with every person who does it, so that doesn't mean a single person has to regress the same age. Someone could regress to be a newborn, another can regress to be a middle (which is around 10-teenager age) if I'm not wrong. Anyone can regress to any age, depending the person. Age regression is a healthy way to cope. Age regression is a professional therapist recommended coping mechanism, and it does not hurt the user who does it, or anyone around them. Age regression can also be for fun. Some, if not, majority regressors do regress due to trauma. To restore their childhood that they never had. Or to relive a childhood they wish they had. Whiles others who may do it for fun, doesn't have to use their regression as a coping mechanism. Hey can age regression because hey, it's fun to do! And so it's isn't something that you can only do if you have trauma. Everyone can do it. Trauma related or not

- is age regression harmful/bad?

⚠️ Tw/CW: ageplay talk ⚠️

Not at all! People whom may tell you that "regression is bad because ___!" Is usually the ones who don't do research. Age regression is a safe-for-work coping mechanism. Which means it's never sexual, or a kink. Alot of people who aren't in the community will assume age regression is just a kink thing, and that is untrue! Many people will get "ageplay/ddlg" mixed with age regression. While age regression is never inappropriate, and is appropriate for all ages to do, ageplay is a kink to.. hopefully just something adults do. Ageplay, is a BDSM kink where someone will pretend to be a younger child while their partner, whom they'd usually call: daddy/mommy/whatever title, they will do inappropriate things with them.

Meanwhile, age regression is a lot different. Like I said, agere is a safe for work coping mechanism. And NO little, (which is whom we call someone who age regresses) will pretend to be a child for sexual reasons. When someone age regresses, they mentally revert back to a much younger age and sometimes can't even do things they'd normally do when big (which is what we call them when they aren't in a regressed state anymore). They physically (mentally physically,) regress to an age of a child. And the difference between that and ageplay, someone who participates in ageplay will never mentally regress to a younger age. They pretend to be, for sexual desires and kinks. They do it on purpose for sexual pleasure, while people who age regress can't consent at all when they're little. Since they actually do regress mentally to mostly 10 and under. (But even if they regressed around being in their teens), they still can't consent.

-some popular titles (that you may want to know)

What is a caregiver?: A caregiver, is someone who will take care of the little when they're regressed. A caregiver can take on a father role, mother role, sister, brother, etc. (Solely depending how the little sees them/and how the cg would like to be called)

What is a little?: A little is someone who age regresses

What is a flip?: A flip, is someone who regresses, AND is a caregiver.

what is a pet?: While I'm not saying pets are the same as age regression, it does exist. An age regressor may regress, but may also be a pet regressor (or) someone isn't a little but be a pet regressor instead. pet regressors has very similar concept with age regression. While age regressors regress to a younger age mentally, pet regressors will regress to an animal. (Ex; cat, dog, bird, deer, dragon, fawn, list goes on) and just like age regression, is SFW

TLDR; Age regression is a SFW coping mechanism that is therapist recommended and is not at all harmful to them, or others. Age regression can also be used for fun and doesn't have to be trauma based to regress. All ages, genders, sexualities, races can regress. Age regress is for everyone and isn't something only feminine, petite or hot pink lovers can enjoy. Everyone can regress no matter what anyone says about it.

I don't know alot of resources to direct you to, but I wouldn't really recommend google either. Google is a "trust me bro" and "he said she said" deal. It'll tell you false things and it'll mix age regression with something completely different. But I find # agere resources tag a very helpful place to scroll in. So I'd recommend checking there if anything answers anymore questions you have. Hope this answers your question, anon. Feedback is amazing so if you have any more questions or anything, let me know

You are not less important as an neurodivergent regressor

It's okay if you can't control when you age regress

It's okay to be overwhelmed sometimes

It's okay if you do "weird" stims while age regressing

It's okay if you don't like the texture of your clothes or your blanky

It's okay if you can't figure out how to talk, be as quiet as you want

It's okay to age regress if you are feeling overstimulated by loudness or bright lights

It's okay to be an involuntary regressor.

As an involuntary age regressor with diagnosed ADHD, I feel as if this isn't spoken about enough. People tend to talk about age regression itself and not what the difference is between voluntary and involuntary. I want to be able to be seen as someone who can not control when I age regress.

What is the difference between the two?

voluntary and involuntary is basically if you can have control or not.

Involuntary:

You have less control

It can be triggered (being stressed, overwhelmed, trauma)

Difficult to stop regressing once you fall into it

Feels as if it is a reaction rather than a choice

In need of comfort

You look for safety

Voluntary:

You can control when it happens

It's a choice

You use it for fun, relaxation, or even self-care

Ability to step out of regression when needed or wanted

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regression refers to a defense mechanism that individuals may unconsciously employ when faced with stress, anxiety, or trauma. It involves reverting to earlier, typically less mature, or less adapted behavior patterns characteristic of earlier stage of development.

Here are some examples of how psychological regression can interfere with a person's normal life.

• Emotional outbursts:

Under pressure, someone might have tantrums or emotional outbursts that are more typical of a child, making it different to maintain relationships

• avoidance of responsibility:

An adult facing stress at work may start avoiding responsibilities. Acting more like a junior employee, who replies heavily on others for guidance and support

• dependency:

In stressful situations an individual may become overally dependent on their partner, seeking constant reassurance and care. Similar to how a child would depend on a parent.

• neglect of self care:

Someone regressing may neglect self care activities like grooming, eating properly or maintaining their living space. Mirroring a child like dependency on others to manage these tasks

• difficulty with decision making:

they might struggle to make decisions, looking to others for guidance on minor choices as a child would seek direction from an adult

• social anxiety:

they may also develop social anxiety. Feeling overwhelmed in social situations, and unable to engage with peers on an adult level

• increased anxiety and depression:

With feelings being stuck or unable to cope with adult responsibilities, can lead to an increase of anxiety and depression. Further impetuous the cycle of regression

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