Ok so lately Iâve noticed thereâs a big influx in trans acceptance to sapphic spaces, and I love that, but with that influx is coming a lot of poorly informed fetishism, so Iâm going to do my best to deal some of the issues there.
This post is in no way saying âno trans women fit these attributesâ, but simply outlining the way it feels like our acceptance is almost entirely predicated on our willingness to conform to a societal view of âinherentâ masculinity.
Almost every post I see about trans bodies lately, especially those posts written by cis women, describes us almost exclusively in one way. Thick cocked, full of cum, ready to breed and top a pretty femme (often as a butch). SO Iâm gonna dispel some myths.
Most trans people experience a degree of dysphoria; this means that for many (probably a majority) being assumed to be âbutchâ or âmascâ based on our genitals, kinda fucking sucks. Itâs something that people have called me since I came out, no matter how many times I told people it didnât seem to fit; and it took my current partner to realise that itâs something I only accepted because I thought âyeah I donât like this label, but at least Iâm includedâ.
This dysphoria also affects how we fuck, a majority of us do that âdifferentlyâ, we use different words for our bodies, penetrating somebody might not feel like an option, the way we enjoy oral and being stimulated changes. We donât want to just âfeel like the girlâ in the relationship, we are the girl, and often thanks to societal pressures, that means wanting to bottom, to be babied, cared for, to feel like âthe princessâ. These differences arenât just emotional, theyâre physical as well because thatâs what hormones do.
On that topic: hormones. Most trans women who are out are either on them or want to be on them. And hormones have a lot of affects that you know, softer skin and hair, titties, cry lots, but a common misconception seems to fall around our genitals.
Oestrogen shrinks your junk, it stops you producing cum, your doctors ask you dozens of times if youâre willing to become infertile and potentially never get hard again.
And to a lot of us, thatâs a fucking good thing, itâs a relief, tucking becomes easier, erections arenât going to spiral us into dysphoric panics at random and inconvenient times.
But now there seems to be a bit of a shift that is hitting people in a way I am only used to experiencing from men.
Yâall are accepting us not just âwith our bodiesâ but in a lot of cases, because of your own perceptions of our bodies. The acceptance is now in the form of âhell yeah thick cock girls are so hot and should pump me full of cumâ posts that remind the vast majority of out and transitioning women that theyâre actively losing the thing people are fetishising us over, the thing that is giving us the acceptance we need.
SO,  this is a reminder to think about your trans followers, mutuals and friends, and just consider the difference between accepting them, understanding them and loving them; and fetishising them for their porn category attributes.
You can love girls with thick cocks dripping with cum all you like, just donât forget how similar that feels to being fetishised when trans girls are treated as fake or strange for NOT being comfortable with being seen as âthe hot top with a built-in strapâÂ
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