the dating advice blog

Everybody learns game eventually. You either get it through your head, or you get it up your ass. It's best to get it through your head.

The neg is based in science, but its execution is an art. If you’re getting a lot of “That was rude!” comments to your negs, you are probably doing something wrong.

The days of waiting for your extended family to set you up with a girl who works at your mom’s friend’s cousin’s office are over. Indirect game minimizes the stress of the random approach, but won’t eliminate it. You shy guys will just have to grit your teeth and learn to handle a bit of discomfort.

Ask a girl about the last guy she fell in love with. I guarantee you he was not chasing after her, and chances are he probably treated her like shit.

A girl who is sweet and nice and cordial with you is a girl who doesn’t find you charismatic enough to sleep with.

Listening is the most important thing a man can do with a woman. She basically tells you everything you need to know about where you stand with her. In fact I would say that women are not that great of liars. The reason why they dupe guys all the time is because guys don’t listen.

You don’t have to be an asshole, but if you have no choice, being an inconsiderate asshole beats being a polite beta, every time.

There will never be a time in human history when girls will offer the average man access to their pussies without at least putting up a figurative fight.