i have a lot of respect for people who keep their opinions about not wanting kids to themselves. especially men. logically .. regardless if they believe they'll make good parents or not. it's a biological choice.. right ? for some. but. realistically ...without a woman.. a man technically can't have kids... unless he adopts or finds a surrogate... which statistically doesn't happen often... so he really doesn't have that choice until it presents itself in whatever relationship dynamic he's in ? (topic for another discussion)
i think the challenge for some men is finding a woman/women that actually cares enough about him to sacrifice her body to bring new life into this world?
in my opinion.. for a man in this world. its not about if you want kids or not.. the real question is what do you have to offer ? morally, physically, or mentally to a woman.. to the point that she decides that you are her choice to create a generation with. regardless if she decides to stay with you or not... because that is her choice too
yeah there are some exceptions. a few.. and i might be a little biased but for the most part we all end up in many positions in life as we grow old that require us to grow up. some of us .
just because you don't have kids doesn't mean you're not a parent. it takes a village
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