some of you need to realize that your faves would be having unsafe bdsm sex because they don’t actually know what bdsm sex is, they just want to fuck and also kill each other. you must understand this.
#gabi mosely is the funniest blorbo in the world because she definitely knows what bdsm sex is#and she has correct and nuanced and thoughtful opinions on how to do it safely#she has read dossie easton. she has read screw the roses. she follows multiple podcasts#she thinks that bdsm is a beautiful and layered subculture that she respects and protects while being clear-eyed about its pitfalls#if lacey ever wants to go to a munch‚ gabi will accompany her#if dhan ever asks for insights into his dynamic with ethan‚ gabi has done the reading so she can respond without judgment#she will‚ however‚ keep it strictly theoretical#she is an ally. kink is not her kink and that's okay.#... the fact that she keeps a guy chained in her basement and he responds so beautifully to her beating him up#well! that's some other unrelated thing
