I just read what you posted about how you came to keep Tom locked permanently and how you told that other guy about how you like that your husband is masculine and you don't want a man like he describes he is . I love these posts and what you say about the life you and Tom have . I am a very masculine man I am not a sissy and I dont want to be humiated . I just like being locked up by my wife and the feelings I have not being in control and straining against the confines of the cage .
I know that there are men like you and my husband out there, but if all you read is Tumblr then it seems like only sissy men get locked. The way I think about it, I wouldn't want anything to do with my husband sexually if he were sissy or unmanly or talked about how worthless he is.
And obviously... if someone has a fetish for that and their wife shares it, then that's great. I prefer to focus on the kind of relationship my husband and I have because it is working out very well.
