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demisexuality can be so hard to explain because itās misconstrued as you just wanting to trust the other person before you have sex with them. and I get why the misconception happens. But demisexuality differs in that there isnāt sexual attraction at all before that bond forms.
I think what people have difficulty with is the idea that there are people out there who arenāt experiencing sexual attraction at all until a certain point, if ever, because weāre taught that sex, libido, and sexual attraction are all the same, both in and out of queer spaces.
And when youāre learning about asexuality and demisexuality, you may learn that people have romantic and aesthetic attraction separately from sexual attraction, and that sexual and romantic attraction arenāt necessarily intertwined, and that may challenge your worldview on sex.
But āI trust you enough to have sex with youā isnāt the same as āIām not sexually attracted to anyone but you, and the reason Iām sexually attracted to you now after weāve established this close bond is literally because of the bond of trust weāve been able to formā.
Itās easy to see how those can get conflated. On the surface, if youāre unfamiliar with asexuality, they may sound the same. But itās important to acknowledge the difference between āno sex until I trust youā and āno sexual attraction unless I trust you and maybe not even thenā.
Demisexuality is housed under the asexuality spectrum. Itās part of the gray area between being allosexual and asexual. Itās part of why the definition for asexuality includes ālittle to no sexual attractionā. Itās a mostly asexual experience with an asterisk.
While being demisexual may have impacts on a persons sexual activity, even demisexuals have a varied relationship to the act of participating in sex. Libido and sexual attraction are not always intertwined either, which can make telling the difference tricky.
I think of sexual attraction as libido that has a compass. Since I rarely ever experience sexual attraction, but do have libido, itās noticeable for me when that libido actually has a direction to go, rather than being a floating, nebulous, independent thing.
Remember, not everyone is demisexual. Thereās a difference between waiting to have sex and not having sexual attraction at all until a certain point. This also inherently ties demisexuality to romantic attraction and relationships, and not all demisexuals are alloromantic.
But if you read what demisexuality is and think āeveryone is like thatā or āthatās just being a womanā, you either 1) are demisexual 2) donāt understand what it is or 3) both. And itās okay to not know. Just as long as youāre willing to try to learn.
one thing that people get thrown by is when i say that i, being demisexual, do not find any famous people sexually attractive. they can be beautiful, in the same way that art is beautiful but i donāt have any interest in fucking a good painting. and even when i have a crush on someone, iām uncomfortable with the idea of being intimate with them, and i only start to feel interested in sex with that person if we actually get deep into a relationship. itās really not just ātrustā.
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Celebrate being a writer. Celebrate your stories, your characters, and the wildest concepts of your imagination. We spend too much time beating ourselves up, criticizing our writing, pointing out mistakes and weaknesses. Itās time to become proud of your writing. Even if you think it sucks, I promise, itās good enough, itās beautiful. You can always become a better writer, but you donāt do this by bringing yourself down.

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Lesbian couple in Civic Center, June 24, 1979
from the Joe Altman Photographs of the San Francisco Gay Freed Day Parades
youāre allowed to get up one day and just decide to change who you are. dress differently, speak up more, laugh out loud even though youāve never liked your laugh, say what you want to, say hey to people you wouldnāt normally, get that confidence going. we donāt have to stay the way people see us out of the fear that they wonāt like the us we want to be.
no bc the āfuck the patriarchy keychainā line is so genius bc its always the men who advertise their wokeness that end up treating the women in their lives the worst in my expirence. like they think by doing the bare minimum or going to one protest that its then okay to turn around with their superiority complex and emotional berate the woman close to them. it just proves once again that straight white men often times use womenās rights as tool to prevent getting called out for their shit and protect themselves instead of actually caring.
Just a friendly reminder that I would never have thought it was possible to go back and remake my previous work, uncovering lost art and forgotten gems along the way, if you hadnāt emboldened me. Red is about to be mine again, but it has always been ours. Tonight we begin again. Red (my version) is out now.
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harold, theyāre lesbians
people are gay, stevenĀ
iām a lesbian, carlĀ
donāt be a transphobe, chadĀ
we support the gays, davidĀ
iām not jealous, flavio. iām gay
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Being a powerful woman who also exhibits great warmth is an incredible feat because people think that to be powerful you have to be cold, and you donāt.
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