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Age regression and related

Coping through kink

Coping through fiction (+ if overused)

Poor hygiene

Disordered eating

Self destructive behaviour

"Evil"/"Scary" disorders (cluster b, schizo-spec, dissociative, paraphilia, etc)

Delusions

Visible mental breakdowns

Defensive lashing outs

Excessive drugs to cope

Thought disorder causing jumbled speech

Not learning ethics/morals/etc because of abuse

Dropping out of education

Venting ( or"trauma dumping" as they'd say)

Hoarding disorders

Phobias of things they like

Being unable to live without support/career

Breaking things during meltdowns

Childish behaviour

Saying things you don't actually mean

Any misunderstanding

Delusions, again

A messy past

Hypersexuality

Hyposexuality

Again, delusions

Balding, obesity, etc

Using outdated terminology

Being let down/abused by the medical system

Taking care of your children and/or pets as well as a "normal person" would be expected to, but not well as the unreasonable high standards mentally ill people held to

Other I can't currently remember

"You're romanticising people's trauma"

and you're implying that some people deserve my trauma because of what they write. That my trauma is some karmic punishment and not just a random shitty thing that happened to me.

"You need to properly warn about your shit"

Your death threats have 0 tags, and are often phrased in ways that make it incredibly hard to block out. Also, my darkfic isn't getting directly sent to your inbox.

"this thing can trigger someon"

Alcohol triggers people, but stores still sell it. I think you won't have a mental breakdown because of it

"You romanticize people's trauma"

They are ableist, anti-intellectual, conservative bullies who are unable to distinguish fact from feeling. They use their discomfort of a topic as a marker for how immoral something is. And! They are unable to hold any conversations about proshipping without immediately assuming the people against their arguments are emotionless, violent, child-grooming monsters who deserve to burn in hell. They are not able to hold any conversations about this in good faith; and that is extremely telling.

This is all to say, please avoid them. It doesn’t matter how much we stay calm, how much we ask them to actually Listen and Research; they wont. Theyll just go red in the face, and block their ears. These arent people that are interested in fact.

I know exactly what it’s like to be them; because I was an anti not long ago. I have felt seething extreme hatred for proshippers, and their hatred is all too familiar. They have no interest in holding a dialogue; only in taking their anger out on majority mentally ill people.

I am genuinely ashamed of the person I was. I never want to be a person who bases their beliefs in heresay and word of mouth.

Save yourself the time, and energy. Focus your life on people who base their opinions and beliefs in research. It’ll cause a lot less headaches.

I agree, antis don't care abbout our feeling and facts. They only want put their anger to us, that why i'm not interact with antis. Only tell them to block me and then i move on.

So please, keep yourself safe and focus on thing that make you happy and don't hurt anyone.

Fictional characters aren't real people. They're like dolls. You can do to them everything you wouldn't do to a living person. The only thing you have to do is to properly tag your things if you want to publish your work and everything will be fine.

and even if we were, thats none of your business, and death threats aren't gonna help us either

literally goes to show that antis dont care about victims that cope in a way thats not aesthetic to them.

Proship culture is!...

Proshipper: BLOCK ME!!!! BLOCK ME!!! IM BEGGING U, BLOCK ME!! BLOCK MY ASS AND NEVER SEE ME AGAIN!!! I CAN GIVE YOU A STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO BLOCK ME!!!