Gachiakuta men and why you broke up with them.
Characters: Enjin-Jabber-Zanka-Gris-Follo-Tamsy-Bro
Summary: The harsh reason why you broke up with them
Warning: They might sound bad only because Iโm only highlighting their flaws because itโs relevant to the writing prompt!!
Enjin- Enjin liked the benefits of being in a relationship just not the โconfinement.โ Constantly flirted or on some occasions slept with other women and you forgave him each time. When you talked about how you wanted consistency, communication, reassurance he calls you needy and it turned into an argument. The more you forgave him the more he kept making โmistakes.โ He expected full loyalty and commitment when he himself could not give those things. Whenever heโd get drunk heโll cry and tell you how heโll change and get better and go on about how he was an awful lover. Embarrassingly, that alone made you give him the benefit of the doubt. You werenโt stupid but you were just stupid enough to take him back after every mistake. Enjin simply made one too many mistakes and it had you questioning your intelligence before letting him go.
Jabber- Jabber loved pain more than he love you. He was crazy in a good way but it eventually became too overwhelming. You always had to entertained him and god forbid if you didnโt want to choke him nearly to death. You never really showed any vulnerability around him because you were scared heโd see you as weak. Being in the relationship became so exhausting and you constantly feared not being enough entertainment for him. He dismissed your fears and hesitation and dismissed you completely if you showed them. You loved him so much you couldnโt put your foot down. Keeping up with what was going to keep Jabber grounded was hard because sometimes it wasnโt enough. Eventually you had to leave when it was clear he found another person who would entertain him.
Zanka- Zanka was always trying to one up you in your own relationship. He can never really admit heโs wrong and when he does itโs always with a half ass apology. You felt closer to him when you werenโt dating. Zanka was even more closed off and hardly let you in on what he was really feeling. Complementing him always turned into him trying to outdo himself the next time. He always discredited himself too easily and relied too heavily on your reassurance. In your relationship you constantly tried not to outshine him because it would turn into him trying to be better than you and being unnecessarily rude to you in the process. His attitude would change too. It just turned into an exhausting situation and you constantly had to dull yourself to exist in the relationship.
Gris- Too stable. Gris was too stable!! When you told your friends why you were broke up they laughed at you. Literally broke up with the guy and his reply was the most mature accommodating thing ever. Heโs just didnโt challenge you. He was always quick to settle arguments by fixing the problem physically and you never had time to express or explain yourself without feeling like the problem. Gris is a good person and a better lover and supports you in everything but sometime you need someone who will make it feel like thereโs a spark in the relationship. Whether that spark is you both arguing over something stupid or ignoring each other for weeks, just anything.
Follo- Follo was soโฆ.questionable in your relationship. He took small digs at you for absolutely nothing. They werenโt really harsh but the fact that he said them at all was honestly uncomfortable. Similar to zanka you had to cater to him and his inferiority complex. You try not to be too confident or too independent with him because he needed you to constantly rely on him. Though he looked happy when your missions go successful you could see the small attitude changes and straight up bitterness in him when you bring it up too much. Follo would exhausted himself trying to do random things before you need them at all. In arguments heโd throw them all in your face and expect you to be grateful.
Tamsy- The guys a fucking weirdo thatโs why you broke up. You couldnโt even count how many times this dude straight up played in your face. He humiliated you in-front of people and not in a โhahaโ in a โIโm so embarrassed, I want to dieโ way. When you lost your temper at him you just looked crazy since everyone doesnโt see the sadistic freak he is. He instigates arguments between you two and would hide his smile and say how immature youโre being when you cried. You simply could not ignore him because it would just end in something worse. You gaslighted yourself in thinking you were just making things up in your mind but they were too real to make believe.
Bro- Bro was too focused on his kids and more less the relationship. The way he treated kids made your heart swoon. Obviously the reason you broke up isnโt simply explainable but it was because you felt like you were both on different sides of your relationship. It felt stalled. No hate to Dia or Guita. You loved kids but being in a relationship with a man who centered himself around them is tiresome. All his attention went to them even when they were around. You hardly had any time with him and when you did he always brought them up. You loved hearing about them but it was all the guy could talk about. He would constantly cancel plans and dates and make zero time for you. He plan dates and itโs basically playdates and tagging along with whatever activities the kids were doing. You felt like a mom and you just werenโt ready for that life.
(I apologize for any grammar mistakes Iโm really tired)
