Heya! I’m Beemy (pronounced Beamy), but feel free to call me Bee for short. 😊
Sideblogs:
@bumblingblog-1 (Anime/manga sideblog)
@manhuntingbonanza (Manhunt sideblog)
Twitch: BeemyBee
Don’t hesitate to DM me or send an ask! I like to be interactive!
No DNIs, but I do have my stances placed below the cut. I block freely. Nothing personal.
My booklets/masterlists:
Call Of Duty Booklet
Devil May Cry Booklet
Mortal Kombat Booklet
BYF and stances below the cut
BYF
I mostly post about my hyperfixation.
I like to be interactive.
I neither post nor reblog sexual stuff on here.
As such, I ask to keep asks and anons clean.
Critical of all media fandom I’m in.
If you need me to tag something (especially triggering stuff), please let me know.
I tag things such as “tw [insert subject]“ or “cw [insert subject]”
Stances
Mspec lesbians/gays are not real! Their labels are inherently homophobic, lesbophobic, biphobic and transmisogynistic.
Don't call me the Q slur. If you choose to reclaim the Q slur for yourself, that’s your prerogative. Just acknowledge that not everyone in the community does. As such, I do not agree with it being used as a communal term.
The saying of “sexuality is fluid” is not necessarily always true. It can be for some people and rigid for others. But that’s about it. Pushing this on gays and lesbians is just straight up homophobia.
Strictly aroace people (especially cis aroaces) and cishet aces/aros cannot be oppressed by LGBTQ non-aspecs.
Elaborating on the former, allonormativity and amatonormativity are aspects of cisheteronormativity. LGBTQ non-aspecs do NOT get lauded or accepted by society for having gay sex and being in gay relationships. Likening LGBTQ non-aspecs to cishet non-aspecs is disingenuous.
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ppl have been saying this but i really do despise how much radqueer 4chan type bullshit is being spread thru queer tumblr space currently like. what are we fucking doing man. hating lolicons and nazis used to be normal
Just for once I’d really like to have a pride month on this website that doesn’t open out with “make sure to be super nicies to cishet people!!! everyone remember we have to be super duper nice and respectable to the cishets or else we won’t have any allies!!!! be nice to cishets at pride this year!” like first maybe let’s address the fact that we’re still ostracizing members of our own COMMUNITY before worrying about people’s fair-weather allyship
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not to harp on about the q slur but another thing that bothers me is how people act like being harmed by the word is a relic of the past, and seem to sincerely believe that no one under the age of 40 could possibly have been called that word in a negative way. i've had "queer" screamed at me THIS YEAR. i grew up being called that in grade school. i'm 24. if you think queer isn't still a slur please interact with one person who is identifiably LGBT, actually goes outside, and doesn't live in the heart of a progressive city. people hurt by this word are not a tiny insignificant minority that doesn't have to be accounted for when you plan your ~ultra inclusive~ events where you've replaced the LGBT acronym with a violent slur.
and if you can see and hear all this and still feel fine replacing the LGBT acronym with the word queer, i can't stop you. but you deserve to know that there are people around you who will silently mark you as unsafe every time you use it as an umbrella term. there are people who will refuse to attend the events you organize because you label them as queer events. there are people who brace themselves around you because they don't know if they're about to hear the slur they heard when they were hate-crimed. there are people who wish they could ask you to stop calling them queer, but won't bring it up because they don't know if you're going to call them a fucking nazi for disliking that word. and if you're fine with that...then you're the kind of person who's fine with that, i guess.
a lot of my disillusionment with the trans "community" comes down to the fact that too many of you take "gender is different from sex" and go "ah ok, so instead of saying women are fragile and men are strong, I should say afabs are fragile and amabs are strong. to be Inclusive"
then you just treat gender like a surface level aesthetic draped over what someone "actually" is. really is indistinguishable from terf rhetoric
you all need to unpack your bioessentialism, but we also need a better theory of gender than "it's just dressup." I will pick my words carefully here, but the word "gender" itself refers to so many different phenomena that have been lumped together, and we need to un-lump them
in a feminist context, "gender" has historically referred to externally imposed categorization and the internalization and performance of said categories. in a paper I wrote on this subject, I called this sense of the word "extrinsic gender"
"intrinsic gender," on the other hand, is what I used to refer to the sense of the word "gender" that a lot of trans people are talking about when they discuss social gender dysphoria and euphoria. it's the internal sense of category that's resistant to external impositions
but then we also use the word "gender" to refer to subconscious sex, which is the term Julia Serano coins in Whipping Girl to name the phenomenon we're talking about when we talk about bodily dysphoria. it is the "gender" being "affirmed" by gender affirming healthcare like HRT and bottom surgery
so, "gender" is: a social classing system, a performance, and at least two internal phenomena as well. and I really don't know if it's doing us a service to conflate all of these things!
a lot of people lately seem to be going heavy on the "performance" use of the word, ignoring (intentionally or otherwise) social classing, intrinsic gender, and subconscious sex. this seems to have led to a lot of "progressive" people treating trans women like men "amabs" who wear womanhood as a costume, and nobody understands why that's wrong because they also think gender is just a performance
furthermore, some trans people experience social dysphoria but not bodily dysphoria, and vice versa. but bodily dysphoria in particular has gained some stigma in the last few years
because we use the word "gender" to discuss both "intrinsic gender" as I termed it above, and subconscious sex, there's been a certain strain of argument from some trans people that says that medical transition reaffirms societal gender norms about bodies, and that bodily dysphoria must only result from externally imposed norms about what kind of body corresponds to what gender, and thus it would just go away if the gendered associations were unlearned
I'm strongly of the opinion, though, that our bodies are not like clothes! gender dysphoria related to clothing would generally have to do with one's intrinsic gender clashing with the gendered norms of their culture surrounding clothes, but I believe "gender" dysphoria related to the body itself is really, in large part, subconscious sex dysphoria, and this component cannot be alleviated by changing norms or associations. I strongly believe I would still seek HRT and bottom surgery if I lived my whole life in a cultureless vacuum
you cannot sidestep my dysphoria by regendering parts of my body I'm trying to change, and frankly it causes me a lot of strife that fellow trans people who flirt with me think they can talk about my body however they like as long as they gender it correctly. the word "girlcock" is not a magic dysphoria repellent, because the dysphoria doesn't just come from the gendering
Gonna be honest a lot of people deep down view cheating as worse than abuse which is why so many people view downright controlling and manipulative behavior in a relationship as 100% permissible so long as that behavior is centered around either preventing or discovering cheating.
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I did not "decide to become a girl" I was actively suppressing the "girly" desires and things to talk about before realizing I'm a girl due to the expectations that society placed on me
hi! carey means needs help still - he's the voice actor for frylock in aqua teen hunger force! adult swim screwed him badly and pays no residuals and barely paid him during the show's run. he has heart failure and survives on con earnings, plushie sales, and donations while waiting for disability to get back to him. posts used to make the rounds for him, but haven't in a while, so i wanted to make a new post!
if you'd rather buy a plushie - here's the shop he and his wife run!