@sweetpyxels Good men ARE hard to find. Thatās so true. I am still not convinced that heās a good person, but then again I barely know him. I guess thatās what dating is all about. Well, that, and itās also sorta fun? :D
@drawing-way-outside-the-lines Thatās a great idea about bringing him lunch! Heaven knows heās brought me food often enough this past week, lol. Definitely going to try that. Thank you so much for the suggestion. ā„ Also, do you think he was fishing? I never considered that before... Hm, now that you mention it, I think he must have been. Oh god, I am terrible at the whole flirting thing, haha.
@gruesim *tackle hugs* I wish I was more like you! <3 I am a basket case of emotions, and all too often I let my heart control my decisions without letting my brain weigh in first. I did attempt to tell him that I liked him, but he didnāt seem to believe me. He seemed to think that I was just being nice.
@hunterthewriterworld You have no idea how much I appreciate you saying that you donāt mind my updates! Sharing with you guys has been such a huge comfort to me. Yāall make me feel like less of a fool, and your advice has truly been a godsend. <3
@owly-sims Owly! Thank you so much for your encouragement! I canāt even begin to tell you how wonderful it is to have the support of my friends. *hugs*
@simnights ROFL!Ā ā...until the wedding.ā Oh god, no. No, no, no. As Iāve said from the beginning, this man is out of my league. I am enjoying the flirting and kissing, but for all I know he has five kids, an evil ex-wife, and girlfriends in five other states. :P But for real, thank you for your support. I appreciate it so much.
@ktarsims True words of wisdom. <3 But yeah, I am trying very, very hard to have no expectations, and I think (so far) I am succeeding. The chemistry that we have together is fun, but as for a relationship that can wait. Also, thank you for the reminder about not letting him pressure me. I am going to do my best to take thing slow, and I hope he will respect that.
@iamg-knee :D LOL, thank you! I feel a tad guilty posting about a real life person like this, but not guilty enough to stop. XD So glad you donāt mind all the non sims content! ā„
@technicallyswagpizza OMG, that is an awesome Valentineās card! What a way to start a relationship, I love it! <3 I didnāt think this guy had even really seen/noticed me until he gave me that note on Valentineās Day, and even then I thought maybe he was just being nice. I never liked the holiday much before, but is it too cheesy to admit that I sorta love it now? :D
@lilidebergerac I seriously hadnāt even considered that he was fishing with his comment about never having been rejected for a kiss before, but once yāall said that it was like a lightbulb moment. I am soooo not suited for this flirting thing. XD In regards to telling him how good he smells, I felt like such a fool, but considering the events that have unfolded since it does seem like he took it okay. *blush*
@martinessimblr I donāt like having the power, rofl! But thank you again for being so supportive and giving me such excellent advice. <3 Iād be so totally lost without you guys, sad as that sounds. (I havenāt told any of my IRL friends about this, as it could get back to my family and/or my boss. Neither of whom would approve.)
Ā @simsaralove Thank you! I feel guilty about sharing so much non sims stuff on here, but itās been incredibly therapeutic, if that makes sense. I donāt feel so confused and alone after talking to you guys about this stuff. <3
@amuhav A romcom, haha! But I hope youāre right that he is a genuine guy. Itās just... Iām still not sure what he sees in me. Iāve spent so much of my life being ignored by (and ignoring) the opposite sex. His attention is just so foreign to me!
@batsheba My life has been devoid of (real life) romance for the past ten years, which is part of the reason why Iām so nervous around him. I donāt know how to act, or what to say, or anything. Iām absolutely terrified of embarrassing myself. But Iāll try to keep yāall updated, for sure. You guys are a blessing, and I canāt tell you enough how much I appreciate your support in particular. Just, thank you. ā„
@asimplekindoflifestyle Yāall are going to make me cry! ;-; Thatās so sweet of you! Thank you for caring. It honestly means the world to me. <3
@remysims Remy! *hugs* Itās so good toĀ see you here! I canāt stop laughing at āthe male species likes hearing how good they smell.ā LMAO, you called that one, bahaha. I thought Iād fucked it up, but considering what happened Friday (he kissed me again *blush*) he must have taken it the right way. :D
@mysimsloveaffair Iām so glad that you donāt mind these posts! Truly. Itās awesome to have someplace to share my experiences, but whatās even more amazing is having friends who are willing to not only put up with it but support and encourage me. Just... thank you so, so much. *hugs*
@muses-circle Scary seems like an understatement, but youāre right. I canāt allow my fears to rule my life, and even though Iām terrified of getting hurt I'll regret it if I donāt try. As usual, you have the best advice. Thank you. ā„ā„ā„