Happy Place

It followed a queer protagonist who moved to England (I think???) With his family. He feels out of place, discovers his sexuality when he finds a pamphlet on homosexuality and decides to experiment. The rest of the book is him trying to reconcile the differences between who he is, who his family wants him to be, and who he is allowed to be within queer spaces.

I collect these examples.

All trans people

Trans men who aren't out

Trans men who aren't super masculine

Trans men who don't fall into toxic masculinity

Trans men who aren't super skinny

Trans men who are a person of color

Trans men who support Trans women

Trans women who aren't feminine

Trans men who support the non binary community

Trans women who support the non binary community

Trans women who support Trans men

Trans women of any kind

Trans men of any kind

Trans women who are a person of color

Trans women who aren't skinny

Trans women who aren't the stereotypical

Trans women who aren't out

Gender non conforming people

Intersex people

Non binary people

All non binary identities

Agenders

Asexuals

Aromatics

People under the agender umbrella

People under the asexual umbrella

People under the Aromatic umbrella

People who identify as pan

People who identify as poly

People who identify as omni

People who identify as bi

People who identify as gay (mlm or wlw kinda gay)

People who are unlabeled

People who identify as something more than this list

People who aren't perceived

People who can't come out

People who don't conform to their identities stereotypes

People who are out

People who haven't quite found their lable/identity

People who respect other people

Actual allies

Allies who genuinely want to learn more about these people and understand them

Now take this logic and apply it to things like ADHD, autism, clinical depression, and other less visible/divergent disabilities. You cannot think your way out of feeling.

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