it’s that distinguishing factor that needs to be there in order to minimize misunderstandings. my experience with catfishes & impersonators has led me to understand that it is usually targeted, the person knows the other in some way, and that the person will post multiple of similar/same things just right after the other does it. and once the person is confronted, it usually comes with anonymous harassment. so when i see someone use similar things to me, although i do have a competitive/jealous streak, i have to kind of remind myself that there are over 8 billion ppl in this world and i am not the first to do something. i may be the first in my family with this style, first in my friend group, first in my neighbourhood, etc., but on the internet? surely not. i need to see more proof that it was through me that they begun this. i also have seen like 2 blogs i believe she was heavily inspired by, so it’s a wrong statement to say that she was the first with this style—3 if u count my old art from my sis and i’s 2014 tumblr.

comm for a sweet girl