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 I cut a lot of toxic people out of my life last year, including family and friends that I’ve known forever and now I’m at a point where I don’t really have any friends. I’m not gonna lie, it was very hard to do. But once I learned how to spend time with myself and actually have fun, I appreciated the process, this took me a couple of days to make, so I hope you guys really enjoy this!

Heres 100 ways to have fun without having any friends:

Treat yourself to a full body massage every month

Go ice skating or learn to ice skate at your local ice skating ring

Regularly get your nails done or do them yourself 

Go to a concert to one of your favorite artists or as many as you can

 Get dressed up and visit a museum or art gala that you’ve never been to

Treat yourself to a facial or do one yourself at home 

Binge on Netlfix while snacking on some delicious sushi and wine

Go to a bookstore, find yourself a comfortable spot, and read a book, or journal your thoughts

Take your bike for a ride around the area while blasting some of your favorite music

Pack a basket with some drinks and sandwiches and have a picnic at the park  

Learn a new language, you can teach yourself or attend clubs for people that are also trying to learn

Style your hair, do your makeup, and take a bunch of selfies for the gram

Go to a lantern festival 

Take a trip somewhere you’ve always wanted to visit

Learn to play a new instrument

Enroll in a gym class that interests you

Follow local food guides on Instagram and try out different foods at the places they recommend

Get a new piercing

Get your dream tattoo

Go to the gun range 

Purchase a DNA ancestry kit and learn more about what makes you who you are

Attend as many plays as you can

Volunteer in something that you’re passionate about

Go swimming or learn how to swim

Take yourself out to the movies

Write and publish a book

Buy yourself a new summer dress or bikini and wear it to the beach

Tackle your fear of heights and go sky diving

Visit a cat cafe or animal shelter

Go shopping 

Learn how to make a new recipe

Take aerial silk classes

Take ballet lessons

Redecorate your bedroom or apartment 

Set the mood, light up candles in your room, dim the lights, and try out new sex toys

Get your hair done or buy a cute wig that you’ve always wanted

Cosplay

Attend a convention

Attend a Paint and Sip class, you get to paint art and drink at the same time

Explore local spots in your city as if you were a tourist

Take up martial art classes

Go to the arcade

Play video games

Visit an aquarium

Watch the sunset or sunrise

Binge watch Korean dramas

Buy yourself some chocolate and flowers because why not

Create your own makeup 

Go on a hike

Go glamping/camping

Go to a music festival

Train and run a marathon

Go on a local yacht cruise

Visit pop up shops and bazaars

Go horseback riding or learn how to ride a horse

Go to the zoo

Go surfing or learn how to surf

Ride a plane around your city

Adopt a pet

Buy new toys for your pet and play with them some more

Take a pole dancing class

Attend a TED talk

Stargaze

Purchase lingerie and pose for yourself in the mirror

Go roller skating or learn how to roller skate

Have a photoshoot by yourself or hire someone to do a photoshoot for you

Attend a fashion show

Attend a circus

If you’re into spooky stuff, go to a paranormal tour and dinner adventure 

Go to a sports game

Attend a comedy show

Take part in murder mystery dinners

Crash a wedding

Go the farmers market

Tackle a puzzle

Go the drive in theatre

Create new clothes out of your old ones or transform ones from the thrift store

Go sledding or learn how to sled

Play mini golf

Make pottery

Go indoor skydiving

Try karaoke

Go snorkeling or learn how to snorkle

Try karaoke

Try Go Kart Racing

Create YouTube videos

Go to a rodeo

Place a bet at a horse racing event

Start your own blog and make extra cash from it 

DIY crafts

Go on a drive through wild safari

Play an extra in a film

Go skiing or learn how to skii

Attend a book signing event of one of your favorite authors

Go to an estate sale in a wealthy neighborhood

Learn a new skill online

Go to karaoke night at a bar

Enter a contest

Listen to a podcast

If you’re extra AF like myself, and are looking to really impress someone and show up with your absolute best face forward…take note. 

Let’s say your date is on Saturday, ok? 

On Wednesday- deep exfoliate your body. I use a sugar scrub and an exfoliating mitt. Don’t forget to scrub your feet, too! And moisturize with a thick body butter after - I recommend to do this everyday, though. Soft skin is key. 

On Thursday- self tan! I love St. Tropez for a healthy glow. I’m pretty pale with warm blonde hair, so having a tan makes me feel like a million bucks. I always put it on overnight, but I make sure I can chill for about an hour before going to bed just to let it fully drive. 

On Friday- hair and face mask. For my hair, I recently started using It’s a Ten miracle hair mask. And let me tell you, it truly is a miracle worker. The leave in conditioner is also amazing af. For my face, I first use an exfoliating skin mask and then a hydrating mask. Then moisturize afterwards with a thick moisturizer. 

Day of the date: Saturday:

This is an extremely necessary step: have a playlist. No joke, I put on my favourite playlist and blast it. Feel good before you even begin to start getting ready. And if this requires an hour dance party by yourself in your living room, then so be it. 

Next, I always start with having an outfit. Most likely I have thought about it days before so I can pick something up if I need to. But I always lay it out on a hanger and spray the perfume I’ll be wearing that night before. I don’t know if this does anything, but I just want the scent to seep into the clothing. 

I’ll do my hair before my makeup IF I’m curling my hair so by the time I leave it’ll be nice and loose and messy. IF I’m straightening my hair, I’ll do my face first. 

Makeup wise- I love a dewy, flawless face with an extremely well blended contour and peachy pink cheeks and a tiny hint of gold toned highlight at the highest point of my cheekbones. My eyes have a neutral brown shadow blend and either a dark dark brown or black eyeshadow as eyeliner (I find this makes it look more smokey and sexy)  My lips will have a patted-on nude lipstick and right before I leave will have a very thin nude gloss overtop. 

Put your outfit on and see if you can apply a tiny bit of highlight on any areas that are exposed. (ex. off the shoulder top= me putting highlight at the sides of my shoulders and collar bones. button down blouse= slightly shimmer highlight over my chest - focusing on collar bones) 

Spray perfume on your collar bones and wrists and that’s it. Since it’s on your clothes from earlier, you do not need to douse yourself in perfume. Please. 

1. Damsel in distress: put on a sweet and innocent act, you can never lose by acting naive. Shed a few tears if it helps. Say please. Most of the time when we say please we either say it rushed or grudgingly. But have you noticed how children say please? They stretch it out, pout. You can never say no to them. Clasp your hands together for a humorous affect to lighten the mood. Kneel down on the floor next to him, make your eyes big, touch his thigh, then ask and say please at the end. Experiment, see what works for you depending on your niche (whether you’re cute/ playful, bossy, mysterious.etc). 

2. Make him think the idea was him: But it’s difficult because you have to be clever and act shy and modest about it. Even if he knows he didn’t come up with the idea, act like he did. The fact that you’re giving in and letting him think he won is the best way to get things.

3. Give him something he loves: People love surprises no matter how much they say they don’t. You don’t need to buy him a LV bag, just a small inexpensive gift, send him food or a picture, text when he’s at work before you meet up that night.

4. Ask really nicely. Similar to saying please^. We hate asking for things, or at least I do. Tell him how important it is to you, promise to make it up to him afterwards.

5. Butter him up. Don’t make it look too obvious so start in the morning so that at night when you ask he can’t get mad.

6. Kiss him! A long kiss and when he’s still recovering ask.

Remember only open mouths get fed. Men can’t read minds and will only know what you expect when you TELL them (or ask)

💖 Cyndi Sofia  💖

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A Dating Application For Women Who Want To Be Paid For Keeping Him Company. 

Advantages:

 You are being paid to speak to these individuals. 

Disadvantages:

You will not find a Sugar Daddy there.

Blue Collared Clients are possible.

It’s mostly a flirting/sexual/introduction dynamic.

You have to take a live picture of yourself. 

You will have to give your personal information for deposits. 

It’s similar to Tinder. You can have a lot of men who like you doesn’t mean anything, you have to speak to them to increase the money. 

My Experience: 

I took a live GIF picture of myself and waited for approval. Unfortunately, you can’t photoshop it or fake it, it’s a timed selfie mechanism. I would not advise using a friend to falsify your pictures because, men can report you and receive for a refund due to catfishing.

As I was approved, I completed a personality quiz and wrote a headline to explain to onlookers who I was. Personally, I prefer this format because, it’s less about what you say and more about how good you look on your profile picture. It’s hard as hell because, their photo application is basic so it’s all about lighting. I have regulars, and I have shy men who like me to talk to them at odd times like 4am. Some women may not like it but I have a 24 hour availability to money. I tested the deposit by taking increments out and dividing it into separate accounts and it works! I have been on the site since June 17, 2018 and I have received $416.85. #CentsMatter

There are rules to this and if you would like me to discuss it comment or like. I don’t want to write long posts if people are not interested in it. 

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1. Know Your Limit. 

Phrendly has men who are looking for women to speak to them, be kinky with them, or give them a temporary boost to their confidence. If you are uncomfortable with how a man is speaking to you, don’t entertain him, just block him. 

2. Answer Your Messages Promptly

This will increase your visibility and establish a conversation to which will lead the man spending more than what he originally wanted to. 

3. Be Nice 

These men are the type of men who are looking for an escape or someone to listen. If he is doing something you don’t like, block him. Arguing in Phrendly is something I wouldn’t encourage. I’m sensitive and overly enthusiastic to Phrendly men, so $50-$100 per conversation is my range because I have men who just want to hear my voice or pay for a selfie. 

4. Never Pay To Promote Your Profile 

It doesn’t work. I have tried it before and nothing happened. Another method for Phrendly to receive a percentage of your money. I get attention from men when I sign off for a few days and come back in. 

5. No Vanilla Information

If you give these Phrendly men your vanilla information, you are idiotic. If you are susceptible to giving men your credit card and bank card information on other dating applications, please disregard this post. I don’t have the energy to hear someone being scammed on Phrendly. If he meets you on Phrendly…it will always stay Phrendly! 

6. Never Contact Him First

Contact Him First = You’ll Pay 

7. Read The Help Center For Details & Phrendly Jargon

Questions

Will You See My Location? 

No, but they will see your time zone. You can fake your time zone.

Should I be picky about who I star?

Depends. I accept everyone because, the demographic of men are not promising. The men on Phrendly for the most part are blue collared or awkward individuals. They all have an economic limit therefore, choose wisely.

Should I star the man who has no picture? 

My personal selfie preferences

#1 (The profile photo): I never really sexualize my profile photo I want him to like my face too if all they see is my breasts yes they’ll be more likely to click but they’ll always be focused on sex which is something I rarely wanna have w/ my SD if they’re attracted to my face it’s more likely they’ll wanna be seen in public with me on dates etc. so it does reduce my chances of having to fuck him.(if you do girl I have no say in your hustle keep on keeping on babygirl!)

#2(lighting) Lighting is your BEST FRIEND FOREVER!!! But the flash is sooo annoying and if you are gonna take a mirror selfie please make sure your mirror is CLEAN!!! ALSO YOUR BACKGROUND NEEDS TO BE SPOTLESS! You wanna come of as clean and responsible!

#3(The full body) The shot they’re eager to see! I personally just throw on leggings and a sports bra(I got a great push up one from VS) but really I just stayed at home all day and I contoured my abs and I sucking everything in and wearing like 3 layers of makeup I never use it as my profile photo usually towards the end of my album

#4(the happy photo) Don’t be afraid to show off your gorgeous smile!

#5(Natural lighting) I know not a damn thing is natural about kylie but she’s outside so I guess it’s natural light. I am the “what you see is what you get” kinda bitch so yes I use natural lighting so when we meet for coffee I don’t need you to be surprised

#6(no makeup) can easily be interchangeable w/ natural lighting! and by no make up I mean bare minimum a light foundation with a little concealer if you’re like bomb af with makeup use a very light contour and blend well wear NOTHING on your eyes or lips because that’s ALL men know about makeup and they’re like “wow she’s so naturally gorgeous!”(but damn can we just please appreciate rihanna???)

#7(All about you!) Do you like going to the beach or the gym do you like puppies? what photo describes you best?

#8(ANGLES!!!!!) We all know kylie doesn’t really have an ass she’s just good at photoshop and angles and that shit is imperative when it comes to selfies

#9(the “send me a picture” selfie) Don’t post it on your profile but that doesn’t mean it’s something you wouldn’t don’t send a selfie that you would not be extremely devastated if it got leaked you only need to take a few of these every so often just add different filters add like an emoji crop it differently every time you’re about to send it to a different guy if it gets out you will definitely know who leaked it this applies to your vanilla life so well too!!!

Hey sugars, a lovely lady here asked me if I could help her with her profile. It’s the only one I’m going to do though, I would if I could but it takes some time. I made sure to keep her points but just refine it a bit. Her’s was really well done, I just did some fixes. :) I made sure to play to her strengths and even highlight her milk-chocolate goodness (tropical, exotic..). I hope this helps some.

BEFORE: A queen who wants to be treated properly by a king.I would describe myself as a slender, curvy, ambitious, soft-hearted woman. *I emit a soft glow.* I love moonlight, good food, and things that sparkle. I love to laugh, so if you have a sense of humour we will get along well! I’ve been told my pictures don’t do me justice. You will have to let me know if that is true when we meet.My life goal is to be a positive force for change in the world. I am ambitious and I need to be, I’ve got a world to change.I can’t wait to meet my next benefactor.

DESIRED ARRANGEMENT I am seeking a gentleman. Someone honest, direct, and kind. I’d like to meet someone who is wise and generous and willing to share some of that wisdom with me. I want someone who’s company I can enjoy, who simply has the means and desire to support me, spoil me, and guide me. I’m not looking to play games. Treat me respectfully and I will do the same for you.We are both here for a reason. You want companionship and to help someone, I want financial support and great memories. This isn’t all about money for me, but please do not insult me by pretending it isn’t part of the arrangement.If you are looking for intimacy before an arrangement, you are on the wrong website. I do not get intimate with anyone until I am certain they will keep me comfortable both financially and physically.If you can exceed my expectations I will certainly exceed yours. 

AFTER: “Let me bring light, back into your life

I am a slender but curvaceous, ambitious,and soft-hearted lady with a tropical, exotic flair. Moonlight, delicious food and shiny things bring out the best in me. I am a comic, and I know laughter is the best medicine, so if you have a great sense of humor, I’m certain we’ll get along just fine–don’t sigh too loudly at my corny jokes. Something many can attest to, is the radiance and glow that often follow me, my pictures do not do me justice. I’m sure you’ll tell me the same as we white-water raft, climb Mount Everest, or have a nice bite to eat on our first date.I am a force to be reckoned with, but emit only positivity–something I’d love to see in the world. I am ambitious and I need to be- I’ve got a world to change.I can’t wait to meet my next benefactor.”

DESIRED ARRANGEMENT “I am seeking a gentleman. Someone honest, direct, and kind. I’d like to meet someone who is wise, generous and willing to share his insight. Someone who’s company I can enjoy, who simply has the means and desire to support me,dote on, and guide me.Treat me respectfully and I will do the same for you.“  

Sugar babes are now, unfortunately, a dime a dozen. It’s still not completely publicly known but it’s gotten a lot more attention over the years through word of mouth. It’s position got promoted from prostitution and gold digger to companion and gold digger! Haha! It’s become something an individual may come to accept while it’s still taboo to the mass majority. Now you got sugar cubes runnin’ around thinkin’ they know what they’re doin’, and that they got it allllll figured out. 

Well good for them! Here’s a frickn’ gold-star sticker!

These days, it’s a little harder for SD’s to find the right SB’s, just like how it’s getting more difficult for us SB’s to find the right SD’s. The amount of salt and pepper has risen. The salty are cheap in all manners. The pepper…….well let’s just agree that they just don’t belong because they don’t know what the hell they’re doing.

Something to help you along the way to bring your best to the bowl. My advice? Be gold!

And I don’t mean consider yourself to be the prize of the picking, the top of the top, best thing since sliced bread. That’s kind of just shy of being full of yourself. Be confident and classy, not entitled and trashy.

Did you know that gold, unlike other metals, are always cool to the touch. Gold is relatively un-reactive and the temperature of gold becomes unaffected by body heat when touched. 

When discovered it was considered, and probably still is considered, to be the perfect metal. Precious, rare, un-reactive, and, of course, pretty and shiny!

1. Be rare!

You want to be like a travelling show that only comes into town every three years. Of course, invest in your looks because that’s what will allow you to have the foot in the door from day 1. But looks will only get a girl so far into the game. Makeup has made it possible for almost any girl to look like a hot piece but what makes a girl rare is looks and brains. You have to keep in mind, SD’s aren’t sniveling 20-something year olds, complaining about how their manager put them on a double shift. No, SD’s are more than likely, well-educated, well-mannered and well off individuals. They know how to invest and increase their value by triple in the next two years. They know how to work the room and have an intelligent conversation with business partners and strike a deal at the end. Looks just won’t cut it. Invest in your own intelligence and know about the world and current events. Don’t just learn what you’re studying in school, know it. Intelligence will make you out to be that rare girl who has a bangin’ body but has the sexiest mind.

2. Be precious!

Just as much as you want to invest in your intellect, invest in your attitude and personality. No SD is going to want a SB that is negative with a sailor’s mouth. You want to be a babe that an SD feels the urge to want to take care of and provide for. Be sweet like the sugar babe you are! Be optimistic, because that’s what an SD will probably want to look forward to when he’s with his SB. Be that warm and inviting light that SD’s will have no choice but to flock to, like a moth to a fire. Be understanding and kind, so that your SD finds comfort in your company. Another thing I feel like I have to point out to those that are learning to be sugars, or are currently trying to find an SD, is check yourself out emotionally. Be emotionally secure with yourself, be genuinely happy for who you are as a person. Have an appreciation for the things you have in your life. Being a sugar babe is not easy. When it comes to the nitty-gritty it can be very difficult. If you can’t handle an email that has gone three days without a response back, then I suggest you work on your emotional mentality first. An SD is not going to want to deal with an SB’s emotional outbursts or issues. Be confident and radiate it like the sun! When an SD sees how precious you are, he’ll handle you with proper care and won’t ever want to damage or affect your radiant personality.

3. Be beautiful!

Looks are important and when you’re in an SB/SD you have to strive to always look your best when you’re on a date or together anywhere with your SD. Don’t bake your face and create a cake of makeup. Strive to make your appearances look effortless and natural but striking. You want your beauty to emanate from within and just enhance your outside appearance. When I say, be beautiful, I don’t mean only your looks. Of course make sure you go with a beauty routine and invest in your skin and makeup, but also invest on how you carry yourself. Nothing in this world is ever dependent on only one thing. It takes two to tango! Like I said before, any girl can look pretty and beautiful with makeup, but match your elegance with your beauty. I see lots of girls who are just beautiful, pretty face, fit body and great taste in clothes, but they walk down the street like a hunched over old grandpa. Carry yourself like you’re a million bucks. Walk the walk and talk the talk. Walk like a lady, have straight posture and know how to use a fork and knife. Stand up straight, shoulders back and head held level. Your body is the main piece, not clothes and makeup. Clothes and makeup should be considered accessories to complement your body and yourself to present the best you, you can display. 

4. Be mysterious!

When you do the job right, a sugar babe will always continue to create an air of mystery about them that seems unending. Be a mystery that no amount of education and intelligence can crack. SD’s are usually men who get what they want all the time because they have the ability and the finances to obtain it. You want to be the one thing that an SD can never obtain no matter what. You can let him look at you, feel you, and know you, but never let him have you. Golden Rule: Never break Alice’s looking glass. Don’t destroy the fantasy. Some examples of destroying the fantasy would be burping in front of your SD, slumping into a bad posture or wear sweatpants to a date and think you’ve been with one another long enough to be comfortable like this. This is not like a traditional relationship where you can get comfortable with one another and think that your flaws should be accepted by your SD because you’ve been together for a whole year. Once you break it, you can never go back and soon both you and your SD will fall back into reality and we all know reality bites. This is something that I feel every SB has to figure out on their own though because mystery can’t be explained. 

5. Be GOLD!

Be yourself! Gold is unique and special and you are too! Bring out that weird something that makes you different from the rest. Everybody has something within themselves that make them unique. Don’t think that you are better than all the rest of the sugars out there because in the sugar bowl we must support one another and we should strive to create a positive outlook for others looking in. Every babe has a little something extra that other babes can’t do. Show that little something to your SD and it’ll make you seem like one of a kind that he just can’t be without in his SB. Just like being mysterious, I can’t help you babes with this one either. Every babe should find out where their gold is within themselves and show it to the world! 

I hope this has helped out some of you girls out there! Sometimes it’s the little things that matter the most, so keep with these fundamentals of a sugar baby and you’ll be golden and hopefully on your way to meeting a great SD! 

in the sugar baby tags.

All in favor of coming up with a new tag where actual sugar babies can search and only see content from people who are actually SBs? And not fan fiction stories or people stating that they’re looking for a sugar daddy etc.

Sugaring is actual work.

So recently I've come into the situation of successfully having both an SD and a vanilla without them knowing about each other. So I’m here to tell you how I’ve done it. 

1. Have a different number and app to keep your Vanilla, POTs and SD’s separate.

I have an iPhone so popular texting apps that I use are TextNow and Line2. You’re able to call, text and send pictures with each of them. I feel as though the quality is better with TextNow

2. Rename your SD/Vanilla as girls in your phone

If you trust your SD enough to have your real number, rename them in your phone as women. That way you can constantly text your SD or notifications come through and your Vanilla/SD won’t suspect a thing. 

3. Put your phone away and turn off your notification!

Each of your men deserves your time equally if you don’t want to get caught don’t give them a chance to look at your phone.  Turn off your notifications, NOT silent, OFF. As in, go into settings and disable all message notifications from coming through. Because even if you renamed your SD, we as human beings are often suspicious of who texted no matter who it is. What if either of your SD is handling your phone then *bing* a message comes through, you’re fucked. 

4. Constantly delete all messages from SD/Vanilla not only on your phone but ALL devices. 

My Vanilla uses my iPad to watch movies when he comes over so I make sure to not sync my iPhone messages to my iPad and delete all search history regarding anything sugar baby related. I also constantly delete conversations. 

5. Know each of their schedules. 

You’re going to find that this is the hardest and most stressful thing to accomplish when you have both in your life. 

For example, my Vanilla worked 7am-4 but he and I would go to lunch every day at 1145 so I would schedule my lunch dates around one. If I had to travel for a day, I would tell vanilla I had a client lunch (because I’m in sales) and would fly to Cali for a day trip. 

Overnight trips or stays can be a little more sketchy so I used to school, family, friends, and my medical stuff as excuses. 

My Vanilla goes to bed around 10 but my SD is a night owl like myself so I usually and secretly text my SD back while my Vanilla was sound asleep next to me. 

6. Make sure they’re in different social circles. 

This is REALLY important if they live in the same state. My vanilla was 38 and my SD was in his mid-40s. Luckily my SD was either out of state or lived 3 hours north of Phoenix. But If they were in the same metropolitan area, find out where. My vanilla never went father than East Valley while my SD’s usually resided in North Scottsdale so it made it easy. If they do reside in one city, pick different cities to hang out in, different restaurants and so forth. 

7. Ask your sugar sister or friends to take fake pictures and keep them if you need proof of excuses. 

@lilithsugarbabe totally knows I have asked for this a few times. ha. But if either of them wonders what you’re doing tonight, you have photo evidence for backup.

I’ll add if I can think of any more. 

Hope this helps,

Ladies - here are some luxury bags to ask for as gifts! These are iconic bags that tend to hold their value well over time. I consider them a step above Coach, Michael Kors, or Kate Spade. Not only that, they’re stylish and worth every penny.

Louis Vuitton

Speedy - $1,450

Neverfull - $1,350

Alma - $1,530

LV is slightly customizable. You can choose the exterior print as well as an interior color. They come in 3 sizes, PM, MM, GM. These go from smallest to largest. Prices are for MM.

Chanel

Boy Bag - $4,300

2.55 Flap Bag - $5,300

Chanel comes in 5 sizes, mini, small, medium, jumbo, and maxi. Chanel has various prints and materials. You can chose between silver or gold hardware on the bags. Price is for small.

Givenchy

Antigonia - $2,300

Comes in three sizes, mini, small, and medium. Price is for medium

Saint Laurent

Sac De Jour - $3,250

Comes in four sizes, nano, baby, small, medium. Price is for medium

Celine

Luggage - $2,900

Lots of different materials and colors. Comes in three sizes, nano, micro, and mini. Price is for micro.

Drool, drool, drool.

“They see as stunningly beautiful woman and they cannot peel their eyes away from her but then ….”

I’m going to start by stating the obvious!

Men LOVE a CONFIDENT Woman! 

In one of my most popular posts ( The Three Layers of Confidence ) I talked about how the surface layer of confidence is how you portray yourself … and this all boils down to your body language.

The way you walk, the way you gesture, your facial expression, your smile and your voice are just a few of the things that encompass what the rest of the world initially sees.

I’ve been a dating for quite some time now and what I’ve found is that men (SD’s) value this a lot more than women and women tend to underestimate the importance of this. A lot of the time women are too busy thinking about the way they look, the way they dress and what type of men are around, that they forget all about their body language. If only these women knew the amount of men ( POTs and SD’s) thats I’ve spoken to who have experienced the following situation: They see as stunningly beautiful woman and they cannot peel their eyes away from her …. but then the see her move … she walks around with a slouch and all her energy points towards the ground! Suddenly that woman becomes unattractive. Her physical features have not changed but the man’s perception has done a complete U-turn, simply because the girl looks unconfident and doesn’t own her presence.

The advice I’m about to give doesn’t just apply to women, it applies to EVERYONE!

1)      Hold yourself the right way.

When you walk around, one of the most attractive things you can do is carry yourself right. Keep your shoulders pointed back and push your chest up, (as if a string was pulling your chest from above). Maintaining a strong frame communicates to other sub-concious that you are a woman to be taken seriously.

2)      Don’t be afraid to gesture when you talk. 

Standing there all rigid isn’t going to get you the attention of any interesting or affluent man! Be fluid with your hand movements. It shows power and confidence. Open palm gestures are better over ‘closed palm gestures’, simply because they’re more welcoming, and that is what you want. You want to be approachable.

3)      Stop crossing your arms. 

This is something I learned from the age of 16 when my mentor pointed out to me how defensive I look when I cross your arms. People often cross their arms when they are angry or hurt or defensive: they come off cold and closed. I understand that sometimes, when we are in a stressful or uncomfortable environments, we cross our arms,( and often we do it subconsciously) :ut I want you to become more aware of your body. Try to notice those moments when you cross your arms and stop! Practice makes perfect. Now I’m 20 and I can’t fathom the idea of crossing my arms unless I’m cold.

4)      Don’t clutch your bag around your shoulder when you are walking. 

It’s a nervous sign and you look like you are hiding something. Just Relax! … If you find yourself in a tense situation, a really great thing to do is to breathe slower. Shifting your breathing to a more controlled and slower level will immediately relax you. I often do this when I’m in a lecture theater with over 100 people and I’m about to be the first one to ask a question. I put my hand straight up in the air and in the few seconds before I am called on, I zone out, slow my breathing down and then ask my question. That way when everyone turns to stare at the ebony, Irish/American acented girl who just asked a daring question.. I can hadle my classmates eyes burning into my soul!. And because my body language is on point, everyone who turns to look at me now sees a confident girl. In one brief moment, I have shaped their perception of me to my advantage. You won’t believe how many times this has helped me stand out to a potential mentor/boss/interviewer, before I’ve even spoken directly to them.

Now that you’ve got the basics down, we are going to work on how body language changes through every interaction.

At the beginning of the interaction you want to have a fun, energetic and an exciting persona. If you are an SB and you are freestyling, what you want is for men to be approaching you. If you are a business person and you are networking at an event, again, you want people to be approaching you. So approachable body language plays a key part at the beginning of this type of social interaction.

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that this is just down to you…. No, no, no! This is down to you and your friends or team mates or whoever you keep in your company. 

For example, you’re out in the city and you’ve struck gold. You and your friend have stumbled upon the perfect 5 star bar that is just flooded with potential men/clients/mentors. 

Now if you and your acquaintances are all standing close together facing each other in a near circle-like formation, you have immediately made it very difficult for anyone to come over to you! What you want is to have your associates standing side by side, similar to a V- Formation (this is perfect for smaller groups). This way you can still have a conversation with your company, while making it open and easy for someone to join the interaction. Even better, at the  same time you can be scanning the room to find your next interest.

 Do this and you will find a lot more people will approach you. Ladies, never forget that one of the hardest things a gentleman can do is approach a beautiful woman when she is out with her friends. Not only does he have to walk all the way over , interrupt your conversation, risk being rejected or even laughed at, and then have to do the potential walk of shame back to his friends/affiliates. So it’s your job to make it as easy as possible for him to approach you.

As you move through the conversation, don’t be afraid to slow things down. Especially if you are trying to seduce a potential sugar daddy or date. You want to slow things down a bit and make the interaction a bit more sensual. Slow down your gestures, if you are drinking something, increase the time it takes for the glass to meet your soft lips. Make more eye contact. Play with your expressions and don’t be afraid to squint your eyes a in a flirty yet seductive manner (you know exactly what I’m talking about).

Do keep in mind that this isn’t about being overly sexual: there is nothing more unappealing than a woman that is trying too hard to be sexy.

Try these steps in your everyday life and you will soon notice they will become an integral part of your physical essence. The more you practice, the better you get and it won’t be long before people look at you and  immediately percieve tha you are a high value, confident person.

Xxxx

BronzedSugarUK

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Summary: 

A high-value woman knows her way around men, regardless of whether or not she’s good looking. 

High-value women repel bad men, or men who won’t bring anything to the table in a relationship.

Men are repelled by the ‘nice girl’ or ‘good girl’ because:

She’s looking for the one, and she thinks she’s found him in her new partner.

She’s led by the belief to accept less than exemplary behavior in hopes that he will one day change (not happening).

She tries to impress him, often overcompensating by being overly nice and appeasing, driven by the belief that she’s not worth enough. It should be the other way around.

Your actions define how valuable you are.

Never seek a man’s approval.

Never let a man call all the shots.

The high-value woman doesn’t play games. She considers herself to be a prize, one he needs to chase after.

High value women have more important things to do than to chase after a man, regardless of whether it’s mundane or not.

Mental fucking:

Two important rules to remember: 

Never share your body with him too soon. You will fall in love too hard, and way too soon.

Mentally fuck him as soon as you can: creating a challenge will force him to look past your looks.

First impressions are critical towards cultivating the impression of high value.

If you want him to treat you like a queen, act like a queen right out of the gate.

How to mentally fuck a guy:

Decide what you feel are just feelings, which come and go, rather than falling head over heels for him.

Want a relationship, but not just any relationship. Be happy to stay single for as long as necessary.

Neediness comes from natural instincts.

You never need a man or a relationship.

She consciously wonders, “Is this the best guy to give my time to?”

“If this guy never changed, would I really want to be with him ten or twenty years from now?”

She knows she doesn’t need her looks to get a great guy.

Setting the rules:

After the first date, she doesn’t reach out. She’s busy with her life.

She’ll see when and if she contacts her again. She isn’t willing to spend time on a guy who isn’t putting in the work she deserves.

She never behaves like a bitch. Instead, she has a take it or leave it mentality.

The first couple weeks of interaction set the stage.

Whatever is set is difficult to change later. Create the right habits as soon as you can.

For ambitious men who want success, they work for what they want:

That’s why high-value women are so attractive. Her standards are not an act. It is the only acceptable way.

Three most important traits:

She’s a queen, and she has a lot of self-respect, regardless of what anyone else thinks.

He is not the center of her life.

She never, ever pursues him. If he seems to lose interest, she withdraws. She has better things to do. 

Managing men:

Is he playing games?

When he says he’ll call and doesn’t - this places the ball in his court.

Right way to respond: don’t care. Don’t even become fazed when he steps back. 

You can find a guy who cares and does better.

Creating distance by disappearing.

Right way to respond: Put energy into your passions, interests, and other men you start dating.

Men who are not sufficiently interested will disappear.

Claiming he’s not ready for a relationship: a phrase used to create space and lead women on.

Right way to respond: Say, “Take all the time you need. I’m not sure about you either.” 

Respond with low investment by even lower investment. 

Never consider him nor the relationship as important as he does. 

Counter-intuitive way of getting him to do what you want: 

Give him the feeling it was his own decision. If he comes to the conclusion, he will stand by it.

Reinforce good behavior. Ignore him when he shows bad behavior. Consider him less important.

Ignore him when he doesn’t add value to your life to train him. 

If you want a man to do something, ask another man to help you, or tell him you’ll take care of it.

Men are governed by their own egos.

The more you need him, the less he will want you. The more you want him, the more he will need you.

Don’t show him you need him. Have extra activities, so he won’t become the center of your life.

Work on your mental strength. The more you try not to lose him because you need him, the higher the probability he will eventually leave.

Ideal praise to criticism ratio in relationships is 5 to 1.

Avoid getting played:

High-value women are in short supply. Make men earn your attention.

Your emotions are never to be trusted.

Establish a strong set of boundaries. 

Self-respect is #1. 

Men always treat you the way you allow to. They cannot respect a woman more than she respects herself. 

When his attention declines: do the same and withdraw.