Dakota ✨

Not FALSELY, but actual, real hate or rumors that could be causing harm “behind your back.” This isn’t an excuse to start more drama or hate, but to see it, catch it, and report it to staff. If it is causing you to lose your reputation, it gives you a chance to post a defense in your case. NOT TO ENGAGE in an online argument. Too often, a follower or partner sees a HORRIBLE defamation of your character posted, or witnesses someone vaguing openly about you–and you don’t find out until it’s too late. Or, they think you’d rather not know, and keep you ignorant to it. But the damage is done.

I’m not saying you should go on a 10 page manifesto quest to make everyone on your dash miserable, or present some court case telling all your followers to hate someone that hurt you. NO. I am saying, that it’s not vague-ing, you’re not being petty, manipulative or shameful to state:

“I feel like hell, because something happened ooc with a partner, and now our verses are over. I need a break. My muses are sad/angry/hurt and they need to rp through this, so excuse my content for awhile. Block certain tags if needed, thank you.”

If they create drama or pity in their circle for you DARING to express your pain, they are essentially admitting guilt. Or, they just really are jerks, and you need to stay FAR away from them, and do not engage in any drama. Do not send hate.

But in the meantime, there is NO reason on earth why YOU can’t mourn your situation and work through it. They do not get to be the only ones to speak or have an opinion.

The RPC has created such a barrier between everyone, and no one is allowed to be human with anyone anymore. By making a barrage of ridiculous rules and goose-stepping behavior, we’ve allowed people to act like total selfish assholes “that owe no one anything because it’s their rp experience so deal with it.” We’ve all forgotten that it’s important to allow for people to go through their pain and grief when they lose part of their rp community, a ship, a partner, etc. 

Is this how we say goodbye?

Should have known better when you came around

That you were gonna make me cry

It's breaking my heart to watch you run around

'Cause I know that you're living a lie

But that's okay, baby, 'cause in time you will find

What goes around, goes around, goes around

That’s right: you google yourself. Well, I googled my twitter handle (the same as this, BritneyofVos), and. . .

. . . “Britney Spears” and “the Future” both in the title. You don’t mean—

. . . This cannot be real. An article was written, about my tweet.

CORRECTION: TWO articles !!!

. . . Glad my standom of both Britney & BTTF got me noticed 😂😂

Anyways, go stream “Hold Me Closer” for clear skin and great taste!