We Have Enough Dead Friends, Come Over

tumblr is a “public diary” to you. to me its a public journal. like men have. im masc.

A GUIDE TO WINTER: invest in good socks, go on a walk everyday, drink at least one hot drink, wear compression socks when standing long periods of time, light an unscented candle (for atmosphere), invest in scarves, learn a new skill, lather yourself in oils and take one warm bath a week, add another blanket to your bed, add a blanket to just the foot of your bed, soup!, write letters (to send to someone or to no one), eat a meal with another person, read a book (or a magazine, or a journal, or a comic, or something), mend what needs mending, fix what needs fixing, throw away or replace what needs throwing away or replacing, release the tension, stretch, throw a ball (an actual ball or a party, you choose), pray?, pray!, analyze your dreams, check your horoscope, practice discipline, embrace pleasure, lose peace then find peace, you are really that hungry so eat, you are really that tired so sleep, talk to someone (even if that someone is just you), add a red light bulb to your bed side lamp, sit in a red lit room, change something about yourself (some options include bleaching your eyebrows, shaving your head, getting a tattoo, changing your legal name), make something, make anything, make meaning from nothing, make everything meaningless, hug something living (a tree counts), develop a ritual and call it sacred, balance it all, repeat this list.

got them thank you. can i get some help with food too please

there's not even anything i can drink here and my mom keeps the house at 89 degrees. i dont want to end up in the hospital for dehydration pls

i also need a fan. bc she keeps it at 89 degrees and i have severe heat intolerance and she won't let me use either of the two fans she has bc she has hot flashes

yeah she's refusing to let me use my old phone to try and activate my new one. im gonna need to get a new number. its like $80 to get a new sim kit and activate a new account. sorry. i just need access to a phone to keep in contact with my care team and rn i cant do that. its really stressing me out!

I need to stop replying to “how do you make friends in your 30s?” threads because all my answers boil down to “you have to want to know people instead of have friends” and I don’t think people wanna hear that

It’s like. People can tell if you don’t really like or connect with them. If you aren’t truly enamored with someone you will have a hard time coming up with activities to do together to deepen the friendship. Because you don’t really like that person that much.

IRL bestie is potentially being evicted, I can't afford to cover their rent, link is for venmo: @ sightseerxo.

had an asthma attack yesterday bcs of the bad air quality, goal is still soup for meds, having a really hard time <3

goal is still soup, even $1 or a kind word will help <3

grateful for any help <3

have an allergy test this week havent been able to take my meds and im covered in hives for the next couple days, even $1 will help <3

goal is still soup 🫩🫶🏽

havent got to eat yet today, grateful for any help <3

i think it’s a good idea to make a separate individual post that isn’t a bunch of paragraphs but yeah basically my situation is: ive lived under a slumlord for years, he filed to evict me and my disabled mom who I take care of after we tested for mold and every room tested positive, he was convinced by legal aid to drop the eviction and give us until the end of the month to leave and we both have apartments in different cities lined up but not nearly enough money to cover the costs of moving including: rent and down payments, rental trucks and gas. (Also just other costs of living at the same time). We’re moving on the 25th and on very limited time id really appreciate any help cashapp and venmo are @ ishaanjs &thank you to everyone who has helped me and given me advice or support these last couple months it means a lot

Im still very far from enough and time is running out i would really appreciate any help thank you so much to everyone

I just got my uterus back and ethanol suspended it I feel so pussy and sexual

every time i start to feel cringe for being too deep in the hyperfixation i remember the intense depression i have waded through and have to remind myself that enjoyment is fleeting (so grab it with both hands), and life is for loving (so hold that love close), and if anyone thinks i’m cringe they must not be having a very good time (and i hope they can find a good time soon).