ariana

i hate when people defend those horrible monoculture lawns because they don't want bugs outside. like we don't live on planet bug

Continuing to be warm and soft and open to the possibilities of life even when it seems hopeless and you’re heartbroken and soul sick does actually work btw. Like there will be love around you again and real recognizes real

the curse of summer is buying and eating an inadvisable amount of fruit in single sittings.

Thinking about the fine line between hyperindividualism and healthy individualism tn. When is it “you need to be single to work on yourself” and when is it “no two people in a relationship are ever perfect & that is okay.” When is it “you want love because you want companionship and human connection” and when is it “you’re obsessing over that person because you’re missing something from your life.” Are people valid to be so hungry for love that their whole being splits with it, or does it just mean that they’d ultimately be too codependent to commit to anyone? When is someone ready? What is ready enough? And when is the attraction healthy as opposed to symptomatic of a larger problem? Where is the line drawn???

shoutout to everyone dealing with. thhe fucking difficulty