lebenslust

“There are people who are always in love with the sky, no matter the weather. One day you will find someone who’ll love you the same way.”

“Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are toxic to our being simply because their needs and way of existing in the world force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness. They aren’t inherently bad people, but they aren’t the right people for us. And as hard as it is, we have to let them go. Life is hard enough without being around people who bring you down, and as much as you care, you can’t destroy yourself for the sake of someone else. You have to make your wellbeing a priority. Whether that means breaking up with someone you care about, loving a family member from a distance, letting go of a friend, or removing yourself from a situation that feels painful — you have every right to leave and create a safer space for yourself.”

“Maybe we’ll meet again, when we’re slightly older and our minds less hectic, and I’ll be right for you and you’ll be right for me. But right now I am chaos to your thoughts and you are poison to my heart.”

““I need you” she says with tears streaming down her cheeks, “if I don’t have you I have nothing, no one.” “And that my dear is why we must part. You should never need anyone, you have you. It’s unhealthy you can’t live like this, you need to focus on you.” He explains calmly trying to calm the girl he loves standing in front of him. “I’m sorry, I’m sorry if I’m a burden to you but you are all I have, I don’t want me I’ve never wanted me, I’m a mess.” “And there’s your problem you are a beautiful mess and until you see that, until you love yourself you won’t truely be happy. Not with me, not with anyone.””

“Growth is painful. Change is painful.But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.”

“I was looked at, but I wasn’t seen.”

“Soon you’ll realize that many people will love the idea of you but will lack the maturity to handle the reality of you.”

“Let’s go on a road trip.“ I wanted to say, “I’ll pack a toothbrush and you bring the camera. "Let’s drive to new cities where we’ve never been, and fall in love with the noise. Let’s set up camp at the bottom of a mountain; go hiking until we reach the sun. Let’s fall asleep along the beach and wake up with the ocean at our feet. "Let’s laugh at the way we get caught in the rain. Let’s kiss under a hundred trees. Let’s wake up at 5am and watch the sunrise, or wake up at 11am and let the sunrise watch us. I wanted to say, "Let’s fall in love like it’s the first time. Let’s pretend to meet again. Maybe this time we’ll be able to work things out. Maybe this time we won’t mess things up.””

“REPEAT AFTER ME: ‘My current situation is not my final destination’”