I really hate how âyour partner shouldnât be a psychicâ has evolved into âyou cannot expect your partner to be intuitive to your needs or wants at allâ because thatâs⌠quite frankly ugly and a really good way to make your relationship feel like a chore.Â
I pay attention to the things my partners like and Store That⢠in my little brainspace until it becomes useful. My bf likes tea. We were cleaning out an office full of stuff yesterday and they had some tea leftover they wouldâve thrown out, so I took it home to him. Wow! He didnât tell me he needed or wanted that, but he appreciated it because itâs something he likes.
Not everything has to be some grand gesture to show your s/o that youâre into them and youâre paying attention to them. I recall someone saying they wrote down things about their S/O and their interests so they could look back and remind themselves since their memory sucked. Things like that matter.
And I think itâs really cruel to tell people, and especially women who this type of shit is always put towards, that they arenât allowed to want romance or spontaneity because itâs an âunreasonableâ expectation. It really isnât. Healthy communication does not inherently mean constant hand-holding.Â
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