23, Germany ✨

let's make it clear: if i say 'step on me' i don't mean it in a sexualised western way, i mean it in a 'my back hurts and someone walking on it will solve it' balkan style kind of way

big fan of anything that shuts my brain off for a little while

Don’t have kids if you’re traumatized and it’s going to get in the way of raising a kid safely and healthily and not in a way that’s also gonna traumatize them in a different way. And don’t have kids if you think it’s going to “heal yourself through the purest form of love” children and their childhoods aren’t your guinea pigs to experiment with for your own healing

Wait. Um. Excuse you? 🤨

I think op was pretty clear? Don’t have kids if you’re not in a place mentally where u can give them a healthy childhood. Traumatizing ur kids won’t fix your own trauma, all it’ll do is create more traumatized people. Children are people and u can’t just use them as some sort of fun project to get over your own issues

Sometimes breaking the cycle is not having kids

my toxic trait is carelessly getting dressed in front of open windows because if someone wants to look in, that’s their problem

APRIL YES

Alex the parrot is actually one of my favorite animal intelligence stories/examples. What a smart birb.

Why am I emotional right now?