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okay due to many reasons (mostly hectic mess and a desire to purge my blog but not wanting to risk losing writing again) I am starting up a different tumblr account. 

okay due to many reasons (mostly hectic mess and a desire to purge my blog but not wanting to risk losing writing again) I am starting up a different tumblr account. 

okay due to many reasons (mostly hectic mess and a desire to purge my blog but not wanting to risk losing writing again) I am starting up a different tumblr account. 

okay due to many reasons (mostly hectic mess and a desire to purge my blog but not wanting to risk losing writing again) I am starting up a different tumblr account. 

okay due to many reasons (mostly hectic mess and a desire to purge my blog but not wanting to risk losing writing again) I am starting up a different tumblr account. 

okay due to many reasons (mostly hectic mess and a desire to purge my blog but not wanting to risk losing writing again) I am starting up a different tumblr account. 

okay due to many reasons (mostly hectic mess and a desire to purge my blog but not wanting to risk losing writing again) I am starting up a different tumblr account. 

okay due to many reasons (mostly hectic mess and a desire to purge my blog but not wanting to risk losing writing again) I am starting up a different tumblr account. 

okay due to many reasons (mostly hectic mess and a desire to purge my blog but not wanting to risk losing writing again) I am starting up a different tumblr account. 

okay due to many reasons (mostly hectic mess and a desire to purge my blog but not wanting to risk losing writing again) I am starting up a different tumblr account. 

My 5-year-old insists that Bilbo Baggins is a girl. The first time she made this claim, I protested. Part of the fun of reading to your kids, after all, is in sharing the stories you loved as a child. And in the story I knew, Bilbo was a boy. A boy hobbit. (Whatever that entails.) But my daughter was determined. She liked the story pretty well so far, but Bilbo was definitely a girl. So would I please start reading the book the right way? I hesitated. I imagined Tolkien spinning in his grave. I imagined mean letters from his testy estate. I imagined the story getting as lost in gender distinctions as dwarves in the Mirkwood. Then I thought: What the hell, it’s just a pronoun. My daughter wants Bilbo to be a girl, so a girl she will be. And you know what? The switch was easy. Bilbo, it turns out, makes a terrific heroine. She’s tough, resourceful, humble, funny, and uses her wits to make off with a spectacular piece of jewelry. Perhaps most importantly, she never makes an issue of her gender—and neither does anyone else.