she's too different to be treated the same

y’all know that you don’t have to be a top or a bottom right?? and i dont mean that in a ‘switches are valid’ way i literally mean that you dont have to reproduce power dynamics while you’re having sex!! you and your partner can just… fuck… without anyone being in charge or submissive or touched exclusively or not touched at all. im saying this especially to the young queers out there who i know follow me and read fanfiction and engage in online dialogue re: sex, tumblr/twitter/fic-based discourse tends to get muddied and i just want you all to know that it’s really okay to just have sex without worrying about fitting into any specific role!!

op none of the things you described in your post have anything to do with what the terms top and bottom mean

*opens tumblr in public* whoopss titties

*swipes up quickly* whoopss they fucking

Match my nasty or be nastier than me

Yes, please

EFFORT IS SO FUCKING ATTRACTIVE

i just want to sit in front of the ocean for a little while

i want a good, warm, soft love. a love that feels like coming home. i just want to come home.