This happens when a partner isnât ready to reciprocate. These can be signs of other problems, but when it is present youâre basically living with an immature asshole who sees you as narcissism fuel and not a partner in life. They might become demanding of their selfishness, cry and self loathe or beg for you to keep giving but a considerable portion of that misery stems from them not having an internal supportive core. It can be coaxed but itâs not the center of their dynamics with what they bring beyond their boundaries; They essentially see and believe in appeasement: they are not reciprocating love.
Personal sentiment:
I had one partner speak clearly to me about fulfilling their âmatesâ role in far more than interpretive fancies. Continuous âMy mateâ, âThe boyfriendâ and âMy manâ in degrading objectification (If you ever read this Dan fuck you lol). Heâd use them when posting socials with me in subjective praise of what Iâd do for him and us. Whatever, he needed validity and success is something to enjoy! It did send me red flags but Iâm always troubled in blaming him for years of it as I feel that we both allowed ourselves to degrade in several deviations from why we met. Perhaps some things shouldnât be asked for. I know that I could have dissuaded him from appeasement more but it was historically easier for him to distort himself than to be everything that he was. Iâm to blame for his concern of it now. I challenged his ego.
Iâd like to conclude with the thought of him being more of a person now that weâre bled and gone but I canât postulate that as heâs treated me like garbage. If pure altruism was water between that guy and my needs unmet I would have died drinking sand while telling him âDonât worry! Iâll come out fine.â with purpose in his opportunity to make something for himself. Not my brightest of ideas, so thanks for bringing this up.
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