Thats what often annoys me about sags, like Iâm all for them opening up emotionally, I want to hear their sadness and inner thoughts - I want to know the things that make them human and to remind them that they donât need to be happy all the time. But a lot of the sags(especially sag moons) Iâve met have been too stubborn. I love you guysâ happy faces but I also donât mind seeing your inner feelings. Pls donât lock yourselves away for the sake of keeping peace or light conversation ~scorpio moon
The timing of this is a little funny bc I was just writing about that in my diary LOL. I'm speaking for myself rn but I think other sagittarians feel similarly. I think one thing that keeps us from it a lot is the way people typically react when you talk about your issues, like they start to coddle you or assume you're hopeless or something along those lines and we haate that. Like even if I'm feeling shitty actually starting to self-loathe or self-pity feels so much more humiliating than just having adjacent feelings & those babying reactions make me feel like that's what I'm doing. And we really dislike having people act like they need to show us what to do or anything like we can do that on our own! We really just want to know someone's THERE & allows us to make our own experiences/mistakes without judging and even if it's well intended a lot of people make me feel very breached in my autonomy when I'm opening up to them and then they start to tell me what to do or what they think would be good or what not if it's not asked for you know? Like that's a common way for people to react & I don't blame it but I also know it makes me feel worse so I just keep to myself. Also omg I was talking to my mom about this like I often say I'm not doing too well but that's alright when she asks me how I am and I do mean that literally like. Yeah I'm not good but sometimes you aren't and that's alright. Life's like that sometimes as long as it doesn't stay for too long I'm good. But that just means I'm not cynical or being hopeless, not that I'm happy and she was like yeah people don't understand it like that tho and I didn't really know how to respond to that avsksvfakg anyway














