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When I was a kid I self identified as both "quirky" and "tomboyish" so you can imagine the kind of gender I have now

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I think a lot of abled people get confused about ableism because they fail to recognize how diverse a category disability is. There are so many kinds of disabilities - intellectual, sensory, motor, chronic illness, neurodivergence, limb differences, to name a few - and people in these categories will have different needs.

Which is why you often end up with disability advocates saying seemingly “contradictory” things. One group may be advocating for more support while another wants increased independence. People with a terminal illness will fight for a cure and more research whereas some ND/sensory disabilities want to stop having their experience medicalized, and so on. The kinds of ableism that people experience will also vary for that reason.

And having one kind of disability doesn’t make you an expert on all of them! Which is why it’s important to have diverse disability rep within organizations and groups. I’ve encountered organizations in the past that claim to be accessible/disability friendly because they have one disabled person on their board, only to find them woefully unequipped to deal with my very different disabilities.

This disability pride month I really encourage abled “allies” to examine the ways they try to flatten disability into a monolith and to make an effort to listen to and uplift diverse disabled voices.

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Lil Nas X does what people think Harry Styles does

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Playing Stardew Valley at 3:43am: Oh no it’s already 10:30! I need to get back home and get a good night’s sleep. That’s very important :)

lesbianshepard

i assure you it is absolutely essential that i own this shirt

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@frogsupmysleeve

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this is good

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I’d just like to add, see how they behave when they’re angry/frustrated/exhausted, and if you see something that concerns you, wait until they’re calm, and then talk to them about it.

My husband used to yell when he got frustrated, but after I explained to him that I found it upsetting, he stopped yelling and started consciously working on asking for help before he got to that level of frustration.

When I’m upset over something, or just in a bad mood, I tend to withdraw. My husband explained to me that it makes him feel like I’m mad at him, so now when I need some space, I’ll tell him what I’m upset about, or that I’m in a bad mood for no particular reason, and I need to be alone for a little while.

See your friends and partners at their worst, but don’t assume that their worst is immutable. If someone loves and cares about you, they’ll try to accommodate you to the best of their ability.

ladylike-foxes

^^^^ This is the best advice I’ve ever seen on this site, and it is so important. Communication is everything, and is 80% of the reason my husband and I have such a healthy, strong, and supportive relationship.

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I was very okay and even proud of the English for this right up until “crinkle crankle”

captainboringposts

I love that they saved that until the very last moment.

It’s like being hugged and then immediately punched in the face after.

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jemariel

The fuck are you talking about, crinkle crankle was the best part

w04hxo

I legit just deleted another reblog of this to reblog this one. Youre right and you should say it

bassiter

sorry but i have one (1) more bttf post

marty mcfly is trans

very short

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wears layers upon layers, like it’s literally SUCH a transmasc outfit

his mom doesn’t approve of his girlfriend for no discernible reason other than that it seems she doesn’t want him to have a girlfriend at all

he hangs out almost exclusively with a disgraced scientist with no origin story for how they met………….. maybe doc brown gives him hormones?

thequantumqueer

#nobody calls him marty the bullies just call him mcfly

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punkrorschach

love the concept that a disgraced nuclear scientist just has spare testosterone that he’ll give to a 17 year old

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Worst part about breaking up with someone I love so much is that the only person I want to talk to and help me through this is her

nettlewildfairy

Not to get political but my philosophy is fundamentally that all people should suffer less. That it’s everyone’s responsibility to try to make the world a little better for everyone else. And anyone trying to do the opposite is an asshole who needs to stop.

starlightandtears

How are the Beatles considered the greatest band when Queen has so many bangers? The Beatles don’t slap.?

imperatorkhaleesi

The Beatles also took a lot of music by black people and made it UN-slap, which I feel is 10000% worse

starlightandtears

MADE IT UN-SLAP AFKDSGKB

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i’d like to thank my favorite coping mechanism, masturbation,

1977punk

people were writing “hot or not” lists on the bathroom stalls when i was in 8th grade and the dean of students came on the morning announcements and said something i will never forget “we’ve got some bad apples at this school… and it’s applesauce season"

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