Big Papa Pampers

Something I see frequently in asks and messages is people feeling ashamed about their kinks, whether or not somebody has said something to shame them. So I wrote some affirmations to tell yourself if you ever feel this way. 💖

I can't control what I like, but I can choose to accept myself

For every kink I have, somebody else has it too

My kinks aren't hurting me or anyone else

The kind of sex in TV and movies is unrealistic (and boring)

It's liberating and powerful to know what I like

My desires are sexy and beautiful

I give no control to people who try to make me feel bad about my kinks

My kinks make me unique

Owning my sexuality is an act of self love