Ludivine,

dismantle the idea that you should love your body because "it works". bodies that don't work deserve love too. disabled and chronically ill bodies are just as deserving of love as abled bodies.

ACTUALLY it fucks me up soooo bad that like. nekomata is FROM miyagi. like. his connection to miyagi isn't just one out of nostalgia for an old friend it's because he lived there and loved there and called it home it's the fact that he knows the same miyagi ukai does the fact that he wasn't there to watch it change and grow but ukai did it all just makes my heart ACHE because, yeah, he's old now and he lives and breathes tokyo but i bet there were days he used to be so homesick it made him sleepless there were days the skyscrapers of the big city weighed him down like stone there were days when the hole in his heart where the mountains used to beat loud and proud felt so empty and wide and threatened to swallow him whole and the only connection he had left was when ukai NEVER gave up on him and they promised to find each other and defeat each other and god nekoma has always BEEN about connections it's been that way since the BEGINNING it's been that way since nekomata left the small towns shadowed by the mountains behind because he could not, even for a moment, forget the place that forged his blood and bone

i want to be inconvenienced by you. i want to wait for you, i want to hold your things while you do something else, i want to make adjustments to my plans to make space for you. someone at your side who takes up no space and has no needs of their own is not a person, but a shadow. i don’t want a shadow, i want you. i want my life to be altered by your presence in it. please, inconvenience me.

if toxic, why sound endearing?

“are you okay” no bro i constantly feel like i am too much but simultaneously not enough

“I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers” - Anne of Green Gables.

someone who likes the same media as you in a way you disagree with is more annoying than someone who hates that piece of media

i hate you private jets i hate you bitcoin i hate you cars that go 200 mph i hate you golf parks i hate you yachts i hate you huge mansions with a pool i hate you luxery resorts i hate you exessive wealth causally killing the planet and using up ressources we all need

“okay but it’s their money! They can decide how to spend it!” Yeah okay but it’s our atmosphere! and water! and no amount of wealth should give you free reign over that!

the thing about kageyama is that he was never mean. and the show works really hard to make it clear that he was never malicious or mean spirited. and so he doesn’t have to have a redemption arc, his character arc becomes centered around understanding, trust, and love. he isn’t learning how to be kind, he’s always been kind. he is learning how to see other people and learning how to know other people. he always loved volleyball but now he loves his team. and he really really loves hinata

I know that cis men are capable of being great people which is why it’s so frustrating when they suck. Your gender isn’t inherently bad at doing the dishes. You’re just a thoroughly unpleasant person.

When I started taking T I didn’t magically forget how to use a broom, which my single dad taught me how to use. There’s nothing about testosterone or having male bits that makes your brain incapable of comprehending super duper complicated concepts such as boiling water or not being sexist. You’re an adult. Put the curry in the glass container, change your son’s diaper, and don’t harass your waitress. It’s not that complicated.

It also frustrates me when I hear women say stuff like “You know how men are” no, I don’t actually. I know how your man is being right now and you don’t deserve to have to put up with that kind of behavior. If your man fakes incompetence when doing the dishes, leave his ass. There are plenty of men who don’t do that.

who called it emotional baggage and not griefcase

the weirdest thing about nonbinaryism is that people will get told they dont ‘look nonbinary’ because theyre just wearing plainclothes and dressed comfortably. instead of like. idk gothic eyeliner or fangs or a cape or flowing, long, gorgeous hair,

i got distracted. anyway why did we make nonbinary the third gender where everyones supposed to be sexier. its funny and like in theory correct but what about the normal people. what about the sweatpant wearears

sorry for adding a comment on your post but literally this. i want nonbinary to be boring. i want it to be mundane. i dont want people to look at me and go wohhh so androgynous swag. i just want people to go oh thats a person. stop elevating us higher thn others bc thats just othering us more. can we support nonbinary people who dont want to be special hot and sexy tiktok stars or whatever

actually thank you you made me realize this was because ive been on tiktok too much

Also we should perhaps let nonbinary people be fat