Bernadette

oestrogen tracker is here.

testosterone tracker is here.

if you experience any disability or neurodivergency please fill out this form. it is equally important to me to have data that says progesterone doesn't affect autism or testosterone doesn't make you hard of hearing or whatever, as it is to document changes. so if you have any health condition. please fill it out. even if it to say "no change". i am begging you all.

Allah loves you transmasc muslims

Allah loved you transnue muslims

Allah loves you genderqueer muslims

Allah loves you muslims with "confusing" genders

Allah loves you more than you love yourself

Allah loves you gay muslims

Allah loves you lesbian muslims

Allah loves you bisexual muslims

Allah loves you pansexual muslims

Allah loves you polysexual muslims

Allah loves you asexual muslims

Allah loves you aromantic muslims

Allah loves you aplatonic muslims

Allah loves you polyamorous muslims

Allah loves you nonbinary muslims

Allah loves you bigender muslims

Allah loves you muslims who are trans women

Allah loves you muslims who are trans men

I love you disabled transgender people with poor hygiene.

I love you disabled transgender people with no social skills.

I love you disabled transgender people that can’t take care of themselves.

I love you disabled transgender people that need assistance from others for basic needs.

I love you disabled transgender people who still live with their parents as adults.

Flowers have a long history of symbolism that you can incorporate into your writing to give subtext.

Symbolism varies between cultures and customs, and these particular examples come from Victorian Era Britain. You'll find examples of this symbolism in many well-known novels of the era!

Amaryllis: Pride

Black-eyed Susan: Justice

Bluebell: Humility

Calla Lily: Beauty

Pink Camellia: Longing

Carnations: Female love

Yellow Carnation: Rejection

Clematis: Mental beauty

Columbine: Foolishness

Cyclamen: Resignation

Daffodil: Unrivalled love

Daisy: Innocence, loyalty

Forget-me-not: True love

Gardenia: Secret love

Geranium: Folly, stupidity

Gladiolus: Integrity, strength

Hibiscus: Delicate beauty

Honeysuckle: Bonds of love

Blue Hyacinth: Constancy

Hydrangea: Frigid, heartless

Iris: Faith, trust, wisdom

White Jasmine: Amiability

Lavender: Distrust

Lilac: Joy of youth

White Lily: Purity

Orange Lily: Hatred

Tiger Lily: Wealth, pride

Lily-of-the-valley: Sweetness, humility

Lotus: Enlightenment, rebirth

Magnolia: Nobility

Marigold: Grief, jealousy

Morning Glory: Affection

Nasturtium: Patriotism, conquest

Pansy: Thoughtfulness

Peony: Bashfulness, shame

Poppy: Consolation

Red Rose: Love

Yellow Rose: Jealously, infidelity

Snapdragon: Deception, grace

Sunflower: Adoration

Sweet Willian: Gallantry

Red Tulip: Passion

Violet: Watchfulness, modesty

Yarrow: Everlasting love

Rhetorical dogwhistles are things that most people would not be able to identify as bigoted because they're INTENDED to have plausible deniability.

The wording changes are meant to be subtle enough that people really can mix them up accidentally when they don't have much information!

So when the gender critical movement calls trans women "transwomen", they're hoping for 2 things.

this usage will spread enough among people who don't know any better, to give transphobes the plausible deniability of not LOOKING like a frothing bigot constantly.

the usage grammatically places trans women in a different category than other women; it's changing "trans" from an adjective to part of a noun to make this distinction.

The more we can avoid this usage, the less deniability have transmisogynists have when using it, and the less rhetorical ground we cede to the degendering and misgendering of trans women.

dude.

"There is so much of me that isn’t my shame, there is so much of me that isn’t my painful mind. There is so much of me that isn’t dissapointed. There is so much of me that is miraculous ladybug. There is so much of me that is writing. There is so much of me that is laughing at a message my friend sent. There is so much of me that craves to paint even tho I’m bad with a paintbrush. There is so much of me that sings, a larger part than the one that says my voice is mediocre. And that part the one that raises its volume in the shower does not deserve to die."

-anonymous

this will kill people and they know it, because they prefer us dead and out of sight. the government, the NHS and even the opposition have made this clear again and again. a twenty-five year old can have sex, get married have children, join the military, earn a living, be halfway up the corporate ladder or highly successful in their chosen career field by that age, but they can’t transition under NHS rules. this is a death sentence for trans teenagers and they are going ahead with it. it’s trans genocide, same as across the pond.