pansexuals are so cool

There's a lot of hate on Tumblr, and I want to at least put a little bit more positivity out there. This blog is here for pan positivity, but it's also for queer positivity in general!

So welcome, and I hope you'll enjoy your stay!

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I will try and tag discourse posts with "discourse go brr" or "pansexual discourse", so you can block those tags!

Ask me to tag more specific things and I absolutely will!

Yes, my queued tag was spelled incorrectly, but I thought it was really funny, so I kept it like that. I fixed it as of the year 2022 tho lmao

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Sure, most pan posts will have assholes complaining (*cough* looking at you, rittz—you are the wettest sock I have ever had the displeasure of interacting with *cough*), but the pan tags aren’t filled with discourse anymore.

The pan positivity tag is filled with goodness and kindness and support, the general pan tag is relatively safe to traverse, and more and more people are realizing, “oh, hey, maybe being a panphobe isn’t the hill I want to die on.”

Legit about to cry, because I was scrolling through the pan tag and it just hit me: there’s no discourse.

There’s no one calling me a slur, or telling me to walk into traffic, or saying I’m the reason cisallohet people hate the community.

Instead, there’s a person coming out as pan, there’s a pan flag edit, there’s a bi/pan solidarity art piece, and I’m so happy about this. People who were like me, new to being pan, new to the community in general, can now be with people like them without the ever constant fear of panphobes.

Obviously there are still panphobic people on tumblr, but I’m beginning to see a change.

This is for anyone who doesn’t want to come out, for those who are casual about it, and to those who simply can’t due to whatever reasons.

This year, I’ve got something to say. To any pan person who is still in the closet because of unaccepting family, this is for you.

I live in a very religious household. Parents are homophobic, extended family are homophobic, church friends are homophobic, etc. etc., and I thought I would always be alone. I thought that I would always have to deal with the slurs and the jokes and the homophobic comments on my own.

But then I came out to my sibling, and it went well. He’s the best ally I could ever have, and it feels so nice.

I want you to know that there is hope. I promise you, there is a light at the end of this tunnel. Eventually you can be unapologetically queer and that day will feel amazing.

It’s hard now, I know. It’s hard waiting for a day that seems so far away, but you’ll get there.

You are not biphobic or transphobic. Your identity is not the jokes or the slurs or the hurtful comments.

Pansexuality is good. Pansexuality is helpful and useful and valid. Pansexuality is queer, it belongs with the LGBTQ+ community, and most importantly YOU belong here.

And anyone else who in any way, shape, or form identifies with the pansexual mspec identity. I appreciate you all, the community is a better place with you all in it, and I just—

*Tips hat, hugs, and sends gifts to you all*