I pack honestly everything I can shove into my bag. You never know when you might need that one specific thing, ya know? One thing I do though is bring an extra empty bag and buy things as I go if I need something. Adds some character to your wardrobe. I also am a souvenirs guy, my family always asks me to bring stuff back and I'm a sucker for cheesy tourist trap stores. Did I need this random shark in a jar? No. Am I going to buy it? For sure. And don't even get me started on snacks. I swear I need to have at least an entire section dedicated.

the anxiety i have knowing that you are just stuffing things into bags and letting it be. i might over pack but i'm also organized! mainly because if i can't find something i know i packed it's going to drive me a bit crazy. who doesn't like souvenirs, i always buy some, even if i've been to a lot of these places a bunch of times. depending on the flight the snacks go on my carry on because i must have all the food, if i don't have enough and get over hungry i get hangry. it's not a pretty sight, or so i'm told.

Babe - how the fuck long do you think that we're going to London for? Or are you planning to stay past the weekend? I'm literally so concerned for you now and I have questions. Do I need to come and quickly narrow down the selections for you? Cause I don't even think I've packed that much and I've got a whole extra person tagging along with me. Who thinks that she needs to pack every single fucking toy that she owns. Maybe you're where she gets these habits from.

i over pack for everything. i rather be over prepared than under, not that i end up using half of what i brought but still. she gets it from me and you know those toys are important gigi! she may not want to play with the three dolls tomorrow and want the toy trucks, if she doesn't bring options then you're going to have a little one on the edge of a temper tantrum and is that something you could think to see? I say let her pack the damn toys anytime she has to travel anywhere. auntie bella will buy her a special suitcase just for her toys!

Yeah, it definitely wasn't the unbuttoning of the shirt that did the trick. But I also didn't panic and rebutton my shirt once the cop knew who I was. I wish sometimes I could be slick and cool like all the other celebrities I interact with but I get so nervous sometimes and second guess my actions then end up fumbling around just like I did there with the cop. Is Taylor performing here? If you guys do find time you should come see Romeo and Juliet in London. There may be a strapping young lad performing as Romeo.

only some of us are blessed to get away with that trick. i've definitely used it and it has worked. think anytime you're pulled over you go into flight or fight mode, like not really fight but figuring out how to work the situation, especially as a celebrity. she is performing the eras tour in london, i'm really surprised you didn't know given people practically have whole towns painted by the time she gets there, which is amazing. i haven't seen romeo and juliet in forever, think the last performance live was ... in london oddly enough. they always have a gorgeous looking guy as the lead, i mean it's romeo. who's playing him?

I'm terrible at packing in a different way. I put it off until the absolute last minute. So I just throw random items of clothing into a suitcase and hope I don't forget anything, which I usually do. Luckily there's usually a Wal-Mart or Target within a five mile radius of most places, so I just hit those up and grab anything I forgot. You're much more organized and prepared than I am. I could use you in my life as my own personal suitcase packer, if you're interested.

my problem is i over pack because i have to think of ever possible situation. i mean what if something comes up and i need something fancy? what if it's hot and i need shorter clothes? what if because i'm in the uk i get a job and i need my normal things i always go with. these are always going through my head. plus on top of it when i'm traveling wherever i'm traveling i want to look good so then i need outfit options because if you plan one outfit per day what happens if i get to that day and don't like it anymore? or don't want to wear it that particular day? i don't come cheap to be someone's personal suitcase packer, i hope you know.

Now, I don't mean to play the devil's advocate in this situation, but the solution I have come to this is if I don't pack it oh no, I have to go shopping. What a gosh darn shame! I also found packing cubes do the trick if I need to keep my luggage light. What are you heading off to London for?

shopping is always an option but without a doubt i'm coming home with another new suitcase. which is kind of sad because i have so many because of shopping. i should just bring an empty one with me and check it, let them look at me weird, and know it's going to be for all the stuff i'm going to put in it later. i went to the eras tour out in london because i couldn't resist it seems like the best place to see the show.

True story, I was out driving today and I didn't realize that I had a back tail light that was out. So, I have learned from all of my knowledge of movies that if you unbutton your shirt a little you can get out of a ticket. Let's just say that tactic didn't work. But, I was given a warning if I did the spidey-hand and a picture with her so she can show her kid. Anything crazy or spontaneous happen with you? @notoriousstarters

i do believe that tactic only works on a very specific group of people! i want to say props for trying and selling it to try and getting it to get out of ticket but at least you had another tactic to use. i always say use your strongest thing, which would have definitely been being spiderman. nothing too spontaneous if i'm honest, i'm heading out to see taylor in london though which i'm super excited about.

I blame both of us being busy with different projects going on. But I'm so proud of you, Bells. Truly. Your fragrance brand is something truly special. I'm forever honored to be your big sister. That's where protection and stuff comes in. Please tell me you're not raw dogging it out there. Do I need to have the safe sex talk with you? Wrap it before you tap it, baby. Even if you know the person.

it's a good thing we're both busy, we're doing the things we love. i'll admit i've slowed down a bit with booking jobs much to moms dismay. she's practically throwing fits every time i don't even entertain an idea but i'm looking to be more picky after my time in the industry. do the runways that really matter to me. you're the best big sister i could ask for. raw dogging it? what do you think i am? i'm not trying to bring no baby home from some random one night stand with someone, no thank you. i'm not here for no random custody battles either because unlike you i have no patience for that shit.

It's strange, a little scary. I'm used to having three other people to share ideas with and this is totally down to be. But I'm enjoying the process, I've wanted to do this for a while and in k-pop it's normal to do solo work away from the group. Lisa did Rosé already have albums out. While there is pressure, I'm pretty much putting it on myself. I want the fans to enjoy it, so I'm working hard. That's okay. How are you enjoying spending your time in New York. It's an amazing city. I like to do a lot of things. Dancing, hiking, photography, cooking. Stuff like that really fuels me. If you have any suggestions, I'd love you forever.

can see where that's more intimidating when it's just you making important decisions. but it's not like you don't have a whole team around you also supporting those decisions, or hopefully evaluating them if they might not being the best. i've dated a few musicians in my life and it wasn't just them it was a whole army around them practically of people that helped them make decisions. i've no doubt your fans will enjoy it you already have a pretty massive fan base. i always love new york, as crazy as it can be, it's always been home away from home for me. there's something about it that just feels right to me. well there's a lot of amazing trails around the los angeles area with some of the most beautiful scenery though i recommend bringing a friend with you. there's always dance classes, if you're looking for something a little more risqué i took a pole dancing class and it was the best thing ever.

Being lumped together in titles is my favorite thing. The third wheel? Nah. Of course not. I want you to come with me because we need to have the best time together. I mean, I guess fair is fair. Feel free to ditch me on any night. I promise I won't complain. And who knows, maybe you'll find someone to hook up with while we're there. I'm sure that there's going to be a shit ton of hot people there.

it has been awhile since we've had some time together, like actual time that didn't involve work or some kind of commitment that we've made prior. so okay, i'll go because mainly i love fletcher and it would be a fun time anyway. tons of hot people for sure but i'm not really looking for that rando hookup vibe with just anyone babes. this girl isn't about that std life. now if it's someone hot and i know them.. then never say never.

As my best friend and sister - sorry you've always been lumped together as those two. Please come to Fletcher and friends with me this weekend. It's been forever since we've done something like that together. Having a kid free weekend happens rarely for me so you've got to embrace this time. I'll be good and won't ditch you on the first night at least. @bellashvdid

i've accepted the lump situation a long time ago, with one comes the other, but it goes the same for you. you want me to come with you? am i becoming the third wheel or something? but i'm always down for a good time out but if you ditch me on any of the nights i'm going to make plans to take you out and ditch you. fair is only fair, babe. and i'm always one to repay that favor later on!