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early-morning whiteboard doodles with friend ft. valerie ara cade yori and tomek. haven't introduced him or yaxkin yet oopsie. tomek's hair is black but i forgot to color it in

#liquidmo #doodles #academy characters tag #i don't really care to right now tbh

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snurm

#rb #shimp!

creatingblackcharacters

Y'all wanna know a trick? A trick as to how you can better understand the mentality of someone who is antiblack (particularly white, but tbh it works on anyone who really buys into antiblackness), if not make them do an Ace Attorney Blow Up? 👀

creatingblackcharacters

(Tl:Dr- have a spine and hold the line 👍🏾)

I was being facetious with the trick part lol but you know the joke "I might be racist, but you're mean and that's worse?" It's the root of that. We discussed it back when we read White Fragility. You can see it in Trump, Elon Musk, and your average Tumblr racist:

They really, REALLY want to be liked. Not just liked, no that's not the right word, but validated.

Think about it this way. Racism is the status quo; the default, right? Part of maintaining that default is through normalization, and that includes the solidarity necessary to reinforce that (DiAngelo called it white solidarity).

So, if being covertly racist is the status quo, then that means you will be socially rewarded for being so. When you get rewarded, people are nice, friendly, relatable, they keke and haha right alongside you. But when you confront someone's racism, you're not socially rewarding them anymore- the spigot of validation has been paused! Instead of taking it as a valid critique, you are seen as socially punishing a person. You're being MEAN, because the validation I got from everyone else's also-racism was NICE!

That's why when you confront racism, you HAVE to stand firm on it. You cannot feed into the desire for the validation of their behavior. That's what makes a lot of people snap. The blowup is meant to stop you, to force you back into compliance! The only one being punished really is you for bringing it up.

And hell, if not socially validating a bigot is punishment... 😐 Why would that be... A bad thing? We're not hitting you with rocks, we're just saying we don't fuck with you and your behavior. (But that's also a part of really all of the books we've read in #cbc book club so far; that antiracism is seen as violence.)

Personally, I wanna live in the world where it's normal to boo racists, not coddle them. But that starts with being willing to push back against the normal we're in.

william-s-churros

i think i saw a movie like this once

maidslime

Ok I needed to know the story and

Guy makes a really stupid decision and gets in a car accident -> no real damage from accident but insurance goes up -> starts beating himself up over his stupid decision -> gets depressed -> starts to realize he's single and had crash been worse he'd die alone -> realizes he's never had a relationship or even a crush and starts wondering what he'd want out of a relationship -> starts to realize he doesn't really like girls so he thinks he must be gay -> realizes he likes girls and boys about the same amount, so he must be bi -> later realizes that "same amount" is none at all -> he's ace

mellifexfarm

bring your ugly to work day

#rb #hello ugly baby

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funfetzi

hi does anyone have any idea how to use unity for vrchat avatars. ive finished the model entirely, made it FROM SCRATCH!!!! and it keeps giving me the same error...

"Loaded data for an avatar we do not own. Clearing blueprint ID"

i dont understand how to fix this error n ive tried everything i could that i searched up for a solution and none of it works heeellpp

anyways i think shes kinda cute so even if i cant make her upload its whatever.....

i havent 3d modelled anything in such a long time im really proud how she came out! i hope everyone who likes tptm as much as i do likes it too ^_^ even if its kinda jank oops

#rb #tptm #splitter girl #wahh.. what a cute model #she looks so good

sokojekeke

drew like i said i would. yippeee

#rb #tptm #caliber girl #nurse parallel #refraction girl #very very cool #nataana with short hair my beloved

sunbutch

if you call women “females” i automatically do not trust or like you

cryptic-crassulaceae

you really wont like the military then buddy

sunbutch

jokes on you, i already hate the military

#rb #yeah #i do think there are like. a few circumstances in which it's fine but like #in daily conversation. if you are referring to women as females it shows to me a blatant disrespect that is IMMEDIATELY going to throw me #off. right. especially if you're referring to men as men instead of males #vice versa gets me too #if you say male/female in daily conversation i'm probably. just by impulse. gonna look at you a little funny esp depending on the context #but that's more understandable than saying like. men and females or vice versa #i will boot myself right outta the conversation if you do that #like ? why are you treating women like zoo animals. they're not zoo animals. they're people just like you #men and women are not different species can we stop acting like they are #ultimately i think things would be a lot better if the society i was born into didn't socialize us into thinking men and women r inherently #different. youknow #idk if i'm making sense. or if the things i'm saying are even right #i might be missing context. take what i'm saying w a grain of salt

mintbees

steam repeatedly notifying you that a friend is booting up a game thats clearly not cooperating feels like ur sitting inside and someone outside keeps trying to rev up a lawnmower

mintbees

jayrockin

Human-socialized.

#rb #talita dospaço #runaway to the stars #this is soooo cool

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