the woman you’re becoming will cost you people, relationships, spaces, and material things. choose her over everything.

the truth is, i still have feelings for you. No matter how hard i try, a part of me just won’t let go..

whether you're here or not it all hurts the same

“are you ok” no I’m not his wife yet

i wish no one knew anything about me 

hate hate hate that anxiety translates over into physical symptoms like what the fuck you're supposed to be a MENTAL illness

If you’re waiting for me to text first we will never talk

don’t let anyone tell you that it’s a bad thing to feel things deeply. a full heart is a strong heart and being soft doesn’t make you weak. being soft and loving makes you radiant. you deserve all of the love in the world and so many good things.

Normalize taking care of men. Normalize holding and kissing them when they’re sad and just because. Normalize doing nice things for them. Normalize genuinely listening to them when they’re upset. Normalize complimenting them and telling them you love and appreciate them. Normalize taking care of your man the same way you would want him to take care of you.

creating a family that stays a family is probably my biggest goal in life

all i do is sit and think about imaginary but extremely detailed romantic scenarios