It drives me crazy how all these women and also men are like “I fell in love with someone of the same sex and left my het marriage and that means I’m gay” bitch it means you’re bi, you REALISED you’re BI, I don’t get why people act like straight and gay are the only 2 options and skip over bisexuality which is way more common than homosexuality (and also the only sexuality that can be proven definitively by your behaviour (what I mean is someone of any sexuality can be celibate and someone who only pursues the same sex could be gay or bi but if you've pursued both then the only option is bi))

And it seems like every time people want to publish an article/podcast story/radio story/or fictional story they choose a “gay” person or character that has a past with the opposite sex ie. is bisexual in actual fact, they seem to be enamoured with that narrative and find it so funny and entertaining and fascinating and frankly I believe they feel a kind of sadistic pleasure at the thought of homosexuals having het sex. For instance, in the show Friends the two “gay” characters are Chandler’s dad ie. was married to and fucked a woman and Ross’ ex-wife ie. fucked a man. Why could they not refer to these characters as bi (and Ross’ ex’s new partner could be gay)? And 90% of these human interest stories about sexuality are these “I spent my teens and twenties dating men but then I got a crush on a woman and Realised I’m Gay! Wtf is bisexuality??? 0.o” motherfuckers and not people like me who felt and still feel like an alien and couldn’t relate to the other girls/boys and avoided and turned down the opposite sex cause that’s how we naturally act? (There are plenty of us around you could’ve interviewed instead but as I said I don’t think it satisfies the audience’s morbid minds.) What fake gays don’t understand is that some of us are actually exclusively homosexual and have a totally different experience to them and are repulsed by the opposite sex and it’s evident in our behaviour and we’ve always existed and found ways to avoid being bound to the opposite sex or killed ourselves cause it’s an instinctual wrongness and aversion! It’s always telling the way they talk about their opposite sex partners and the words they use, it’s obvious they just weren’t as into their ex as the new person they met. Not enjoying/being in love with your husband doesn’t make you a lesbian, that’s a very common straight/bi woman experience and in fact a common experience for everyone, like imagine if I was unhappy with a girl and broke up with her and was happier and was like omg I realised I’m asexual!