yayyy the cycle of violence yippeee!!!

threesome but only two survive

my problem is if i enjoy something enough i will be nitpicking. i Will have things to say about where and how it failed. out of nothing but love straight from my heart. unfortunately this often makes me indistinguishable from a hater who has never experienced joy or kindness. such is the amateur critic's burden.

im gonna be honest gang i really don't care if a 16 year old sees porn. i think the circumstances & context around your first interaction with sexuality is a lot more important in whether or not it will be traumatizing in some way than the sex itself. like i think the first time i ever looked up porn i was 12? which is a very normal age as well. and i was also on tumblr where i saw a lot of people saying "hey porn isn't realistic" so when i watched porn i was like hmm interesting, maybe hot, but i's not good advice. and that was that. watching porn didn't lead me to engage with any adults, it didn't make me upset, all it did was help me visualize things and later explore my own sexuality. and im not saying there's no rules i couldn't get behind regarding minors and sexual content because we do have these concepts for good reasons. but i keep seeing people be like well OBVIOUSLY we should keep minors from watching porn! and im just like idk! do we really need to be majorly concerned with preventing teens from accessing porn as much as we need to make sure there is bountiful, educated and compassionate sex ed, workers rights for sex workers, and awareness around abuse? maybe the solution is better positive than negative

the logic of a middle american wwe fan is nonexistant. every day im baffled by the dissonance between what they deem to be scandalous and acceptable. they pearl clutch at intergender wrestling because it Hurts Women and they ~dont want to watch that~ but the reality is they have watched women being hurt and humiliated for decades. the attitude era hurt women more than anything that could have happened in a wrestling match. constantly subjecting them to Wretched Cheating Whore Succubus storylines in vince mcmahon's daytime fetish theater was the violence. the gymnastics you have to do to wring your hands over women blading while that company has not suffered a single loss in sales over the vince documents should land these people in the fucking olympics.

people are always like "girls and gays" and then include lesbians in neither