Transmeds Are Good, Actually

Thanks for proving my point! You’re internalized biphobia is shining with these tags.

Bisexuals do not have to have a preference. Some do, some don’t. They are still all bisexual. The only thing that makes a bisexual person bisexual is having both same sex attraction and opposite sex attraction. Anything else doesn’t matter. Trying to push the idea that all bisexuals have to have a preference is incredibly biphobic.

Also, the fact you can’t even come up with a different definition for omni and pan is laughable. “They are similiar” Right you are! Wanna know why? Because they are all the same. You’re just biphobic.

"Hearts not parts!" > everyone else only cares about their partner's genitals, making me more virtuous

"Pansexual means I'm attracted to trans people too!" > no one else could ever love a trans person because they're a special Other category that you need to include instead of just being men and women

"I'm more comfortable with the term pansexual." > I don't give a shit about the history of the term pansexual and I am actively trying to erase bisexual history. I spout transphobic and biphobic bigotry disguised as "wokeness" and I don't even realize it, or if I do, I simply don't care. I value the warm, fuzzy feeling I get more than the history and goals of LGBT people and what they have fought for decades to accomplish.

"I don't see gender." > I am making an effort to ignore something that is pretty integral to a person's identity.

"I need to get to know someone before I have sex with them." > I think I am Unique and Special. I am more pure than those filthy, sex crazed bisexuals who will sleep with anyone. I am incapable of comprehending that most normal people desire emotional connection to a person they're sleeping with.

"I identify as pansexual." > I am no different from someone who is bisexual, except that I'm more special because my internalized biphobia makes me think bisexuals are icky.

"Let people identify however they want!" > I have not thought critically about the impact of this because I don't care about anything beyond my immediate surroundings.

"It's not hurting anyone." > I have likely read many accounts from people who have been hurt by my label, but I am choosing to ignore that because thinking critically about it makes me uncomfortable.

Not sorry, I don’t remember asexuals dying or being killed to make asexuality legal. If there’s one group that’s in anyway more coddled than the biphobic pannies, it’s the more often then not homophobic, biphobic, transphobic, and self entitled asexual community.

This quote is very important “We invited you to pride when it was a fight and you didn’t show up. Now that it’s a party, you want to come” since this defines asexual people so well and why they think they’re oppressed when we shun them. It’s not that we (well, most of us) think you guys are ‘broken’ or ‘wrong’ - even if that’s what you think when you assume you’re not being allowed to have pride in their identity. It’s just that it’s still a fight for survival and you don’t have anything to fight for while standing with our homophobic and transphobic oppressors ready to cast stones to shame actual LGBT people for having a sexual component to our sexuality and lives.

Not having sex doesn’t “make you UwU kweer” you’re not a “victim more than actual LGBT people” as we’re actually getting hate crimed, killed, and kicked out of housing to become homeless especially now in America as the Supreme Court is working overtime to strip myself and actual LGBT people of our rights to marriage, and outlaw loving the person that we love for being the same sex or gender.

Asexuals with you’re messed up need to feel “oppressed” doesn’t entitle you to our spaces, or resources. Yeah, I know aces are going to see this and cry “aphobia”, except it’s not “aphobia” to point out how if you’re not L, G, B, T you’re NOT part of the community, grow up.

We were chased out of queer spaces and told we were just straights pretending for attention.

Y'all didn’t give a shit about gay people when news of monkey pox hit. You made your feelings clear when y'all got online saying “not your problem” because “that’s a gay disease” or “good thing I’m ace and not a gay allosexual”. Yet your assessment changed your tune when you started to realize “it’s not a gay disease” and hurried to make appointments for shots and thought we’d just forget about what aces said and acted. NOPE! We remember and will continue to remember the asexual communities actions.

So how about instead of bitching about how you’d rather eat cake than have sex, you actually do something helpful and constructive like off… the top of my head… doing local fundraising for LGBT youth homelessness for Gay, Bi, and Trans youths that have been actually kicked out by their parents for their sexuality that involve same sex attractions or gender identity. You know… actions involving something other than online whiny bullshit y'all are pulling.

Second of all, name one way aces are hurting the community. I double dog dare you.

Name one example of how are asexuals hurting the community? You mean how asexuals have appropriated the term “corrective r*pe” from lesbians. A term invented by lesbians to describe the sexual abuse and assualt they’ve suffered from men trying to “correct them” for not being sexually attracted to them. But hey f*ck lesbians and a genuine issue for their community right? Asexuals need that term for themselves and not dirty lesbians because they’re gross for having sex but not with men right?

I also find it VERY telling that you read what I wrote about asexuals publically coming of the woodwork when news to demonize gay and yet practiced some typical inclus mental gymnastics to not link the sex negativity that is a common practice in the asexual community to blantant homophobia, because that what it is, homophobia.

Also I got receipts of asexual homophobia!

This is LITERAL bigotry and homophobia on display by asexuals and their shitty community on public display. Twitter, Facebook, TikTok, asexual forums are ALL FULL OF THIS HOMOPHOBIA! This is the same homophobic and biphobic behavior a lot of asexuals displayed during the AIDS crises in the 80’s and 90’s as well. I know this because I was alive for all that too! This is proof of asexuality and their homophobic and biphobic attitude directly harming the LGBT community and people like you expect us to just let it happen at the expense of the well being of LGBT people.

Like yeah, keep on denying TERFS view us as delusional girls with nothing but internalized sexism. Keep denying that TERFs have groomed so many transmen into calling themselves “Dysphoric females.” Keep denying the fact transmen are still victimized even if transwomen are the main target.

Like yeah, keep on denying TERFS view us as delusional girls with nothing but internalized sexism. Keep denying that TERFs have groomed so many transmen into calling themselves “Dysphoric females.” Keep denying the fact transmen are still victimized even if transwomen are the main target.

If you have any kind of artistic, musical or writing skill and you’re not using those abilities to help and lift up people of color, the LGBTQ+ community, the mentally ill, spiritual minorities - you are wasting your talent and I’m not sure if I can really trust you.

I’m not saying you can’t make art for yourself, too. Art is self-expression - but I guess that’s the thing. If your self-expression doesn’t include works that aid and lift up the oppressed, what does that say about you? Even Lady Gaga had her hit “Born This Way.” (As problematic as that well-intentioned song and its lyrics may be.)

I suppose there are other ways. You can support black businesses with the money you make from your work. You can use your platform, your influence as an artist to educate your audience… but if you’re excluding oppressed communities from your art? If you’re not making art and poetry and music for those who need it the most? It honestly just rubs me the wrong way.

Art is in the eye of the beholder, and what one person finds upsetting can be empowering for another member of the same demographic. People enjoy different things, and nobody is entitled to anybody else's effort.