The Queen of Wands
Every woman should reach a point in her life when she grows into all four queens and becomes the Empress. However, we all have one Queen that is our core and for me that is the Queen of Wands (bc I'm mars ruled). Everyone has spent the past six years trying to tell me and everyone else who I am and I am a firm believer that you should never allow someone to tell you who you are or become the narrator of your life. This is who the Queen of Wands really is.
QoW is the type of woman who carries herself with warmth and confidence. She doesn't need a crowd of people to support her or even like her bc she knows who she is. A timeless woman. She knows her value and she absolutely knows what she brings to the table even if no one else does. She knows her aura brings healing to everybody around her (represented by the sunflower), she knows her prayers and manifesting brings blessings to herself and her loved ones (represented by the black cat), she knows her magnetism and authority makes everyone around her shine brighter (represented by the wand in her hand), she knows her aura is pure gold and makes everyone around her happier (represented by the color yellow), she is so confident in her sexuality and she knows that it excites every secure person she meets (represented by the color red). She is the supreme witch.
QoW is the woman people go to for advice bc they know she doesn't judge. She might ask questions and want to understand you, but she will always make you feel understood and heard. She is the type of friend who will cry and then yell at you if you start talking shit about yourself bc it hurts her. She is so generous to the people who are generous and loyal towards her. She is the person who wants the best for every person she meets bc she loves seeing people happy. She is the one who will jump up and down and scream when she gets good news or is happy and she won't care if she's in public. She is the woman who will run to the park to go on the swings and slide and she doesn't give a fuck how old she is bc she never lost her whimsy or spark. She loves to be silly and tell jokes. She doesn't give a fuck if she is the only one loudly laughing at her jokes bc she absolutely adores her own personality. She loves to dance and twerk and if she can't do something right she doesn't care bc she knows everything she does radiates authentic sexuality. She loves to cuss, yell, and she might throw something at your head and it will still be the most feminine and passionate thing you've ever seen bc she is pure fire.
She is the biggest protector of everyone. When it comes to kids she's a mama bear and she will terrorize anyone if they are mean to children she cares about. She will defend anyone especially the underdogs. She gets angry about the injustices in society. All she can think about sometimes is making a real difference in the world and helping people who need it. Nothing she does could ever be labeled performative. Dramatic yes, but she runs on her emotions so whatever she does or says is really how she feels in that moment. If you get offended by something she said she will tell you to grow thicker skin bc life is much harsher than she is. However, most people don't even have the balls to come up to her and address issues bc she intimidates everyone. She will never coddle people bc she knows how many lessons she had to go through and she expects everyone to learn what she had to. Most people will just end up finding out the hard way that they never actually knew her at all.
When it comes to lovers she always deals with a similar pattern. They want her bc of her magnetism and spark, their ego gets triggered, they cheat or abuse her, she walks away, they try to tell her (and others) who she is to paint her as the villain, she heals, she finds the home within herself again and she moves on to bigger and better things.
