intimacy in a relationship (reposted)
helping your partner undress/into the shower after a night of drinking/during sickness
being the only one capable of calming your partner down during a stressful situation
sharing clothes or showers
routine kisses
dancing to some silly music at the crack of dawn
writing each other love-letters
holding hands or interlacing fingers even when it's inconvenient
helping each other deal with loss of family members (not only in the emotional-aspect)
creating a memorial for a family member
helping each other furnish or decorate each other's house if not living together
letting your partner have their own drawer/things scattered all over the place if not living together
driving through the city at night
being ok with your partner showing up at your house at 2am, for any reason, no matter how small
texting your partner late at night asking them to come over, for intimacy, or to cuddle, for comfort or to eat
using your partner's love language to make them feel loved
being really competitive during board or video games
or starting a discussion because you clearly let me win but ''it's because you'd never win otherwise''
gossiping about things you aren't supposed to tell anyone
falling asleep while cuddling on the couch
playing pranks on each other (sometimes in public)
purposely making lame jokes to try and embarrass your partner
inside jokes/innuendos at improper times
discussing marriage/kids
from @quartermera:
slapping each other's butts casually and, depending on the situation, trying not to get caught doing it
video call when you are away from each other
ranting to each other about people you dislike
cuddling while being busy with your own things (ex. watching videos, reading, gaming)
arguing about what movie to watch together
teaching each other things about each other's hobbies or cultures
watching each other do things
getting each other snacks and sharing them
studying together if you're students. and i mean it literally
discuss "Am I the Asshole?" posts
be honest if something your partner did hurt you
joke or have a serious talk about your future together
from @purlturtle
discussing what to make for lunch/dinner/what groceries to get
divvying out who does what chores, both on a general basis (i'm usually the one doing laundry, my wife usually does dishes) and on a case-by-case basis (when one of us doesn't feel like or cannot do the chore)
decorating together (and discussing if teal is a good color to paint the bedroom in)
receiving visitors together (and cleaning the place beforehand)
hanging out together, doing something together or doing something individual (but still being together in the same room because you want to be close to each other)
"you left the bedroom window open and now it's fucking freezing in there!"
negotiating different styles and wants (or even needs) for decoration, music, lighting, workplace design if one or more of them work from home etc
have date nights at home
take care of pets or kids or family members or neighbors
cuddle in bed together (but, and this is rarely depicted, not always sleeping in each other's arms or even in the same bed - my sleep is too light; I'd wake up each time someone moves close to me. other people run hot in the night and don't need other bodies in bed with them. people snore. people have different circadian rhythms.)
"have you taken your meds today? remember you wanted to stretch before bed!" (okay, this is the middle age edition, I suppose 😅)
stumbling over something you partner did around the home that you weren't aware of, or simply discarded socks lying around randomly.
breakfast in bed
witnessing your partner's hobbies and idiosyncrasies











