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Um just a random rant but my dad found out one of my coworkers has a boyfriend. So he was like, "oh who was that lady who walked in??"
"That's a guy. He is XYZ." (Not naming names)
"Are you sure? Because I saw he was kissing a guy in his car before he left."
I honestly hope he forgets because I would love to be hanging around this person in any group event, I mean I would already kind of have to sneak out to be with any cool people I like so. Doing things I want I mean. And I don't want to stand people up.
But my dad is really religious and he subscribes to homophobia and stuff, and it hurts and bothers me just to hear how judgemental he can be in general. I just don't want to hear "oh if that person is going, Idk he is living a bad lifestyle I don't trust him" ๐
Also jokes on him with how I am. Oh well.
Idk this is just making me anxious. Ik I am on posting hiatus that isn't reblog or my mom reading but yeah.
I'm tired of men defending Bear and think that he's not the villain of the story and is just a "misunderstood little guy :("
He's not. I like villains that are morally gray, make them fully villainous too, but when the director intentionally made him a villain, yet there's still men out there defending him, we truly lost humanity.
I can't believe I have to say this, but the moment Bear knew it was wrong, yet still chose to keep her in that spell and RAPE HER he's not redeemable. I really hope it's just bots trying to engagement farm, but sadly a lot of men think like this.
"making them afraid will make them more racist" that's wild to me, because we live in a whole culture of social consequences for antiracism anyway. It is literally safer to be a racist than it is to speak up against it, socially.
Idk about you, but "I'm afraid no one will want to be my friend if I'm a white supremacist" seems like a pretty logical thought process to have, and I wish THAT were the normal and not "I'm afraid my friends will hate me if I tell them they made racist jokes".
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The recent hot VS cold polls have made me realise that a lot of people have no idea how to cool down.
As someone from a hot country that's regularly on fire, here's some tips:
WATER IS YOUR FRIEND! WATER! IS! YOUR! FRIEND! You can transfer SO much heat into this bad boy! You cannot cool down without water!
Wrists under the cold tap. Splash your face and the back of your neck. Fan yourself.
In some countries you can buy a little handeld fan with a water sprayer.
Damp tea towel around the neck. Stick an ice pack in there on hotter days.
Half fill a water bottle with water, stick in freezer. If you use a bottle with a straw, make sure it's lying on its side with the straw side up and out of the water. When frozen top up the rest of the way with tap water and off you go.
Desperate to cool off? Wet T-shirt. Sit in front of a fan. This will nuke it, just don't get hypothermia and don't fall asleep like this.
Cold showers are also your friend in summer. Some people get psyched up by these. Personally, I sleep like a baby, so I'm good to have them before bed. Just keep in mind that it takes a bit of time for the cool to circulate, so your body will tell you that you're colder than you actually are. I find that when I have cold showers I need to step out of the spray when I think I'm cold... I'll just wait, and thirty seconds later the temperature has evened out and I actually need to step under again. Rinse and repeat until you maintain coolness even after stepping out for a bit.
If you can't do cold showers, turn the cold shower on anyway and just stick your arms under. When they're cold, lift your arms up above your head. The sensation of cool blood draining into your body is fucking weird and kinda unpleasant but less unpleasant than being hot.
Feet in a tub of water with ice. Blood naturally flows to your extremities when hot, so take advantage of this. If you don't have a tub of ice water, sticking a wet rag on your feet in front of the fan works too, it's the less powerful version of the wet T-shirt.
Drinks lots of water but make sure that water has electrolytes as well. Stay in the shade.
Keep air circulating. Fans don't actually cool rooms down, they just help transfer heat from your body to the moisture on your skin or the air via evaporative cooling.
Block north facing windows early in the morning so the sun doesn't get in. If you're in the northern hemisphere, this is opposite for you. Keep in mind that if your home is brick, the bricks will still heat up and slowly release heat into your home even after the sun goes down so this will only do so much.
If it's hotter inside than outside, close all your windows but two, making sure they're on opposite sides of the house/unit you're in. Point a fan out of one window, making sure that the doors between the rooms with the open windows are all open. This will help create a mini pressure system in your home, pulling cooler air in and pushing the hotter air out via the fan. Bonus points if you can get that fan high up where the hot air rises; even within a single room the top is much hotter than the air by the floor. Adjust the amount of open windows based on how many fans you have, but generally you want more windows with fans open than windows without fans to keep the pressure correct.
Obviously, use your common sense for these. Not everything WILL work for you, just use the stuff that does and adjust what needs to be adjusted. Some of these will be impossible to use in the workplace but others you can still use. Others are best used at home. If humidity impacts your ability to use any of these, get a dehumidifier if that's an option, or use more ice instead of evaporation.
Also keep in mind that the skinnier you are, the faster these will work. More fat means more insulation, means more heat, so you may need to be more patient with some of these or use them in combination.
Or soak a baseball cap or other cloth hat that wonโt be damaged by water.
Water needs energy to evaporate. As it dries, it consumes a little heat in its immediate vicinity.
Therefore any significant amount of water โ buckets, wet towels, damp laundryโ in a small room can cool it a degree or two, although this doesnโt work as well if the air is already humid.
This principle has been used since ancient times, from wet blankets hung over doors in ancient Egypt to the โswamp coolersโ of the southern U.S. before modern AC, to modern โevaporative coolers.โ And, of course, itโs the function of sweat.
the phrase "but i didn't mean to!" in the context of causing harm is kind of redundant to me, because almost nobody means to cause harm. most of us just want to do the right thing. and i don't mean that in a wishy-washy "oh, we're all good deep down" way, i mean that even people who regularly do the most heinous shit imaginable will have a way of justifying it to themselves. the world is not populated by hollywood sadists and psychopaths.
actually i have been thinking about this some more and i want to add on to it:
abuse in caregiving professions (like teaching or nursing) is not solely a result of power dynamics. it's also because people who go into those professions often have a idea of themselves as Good People, and are consequently incapable of recognising or acknowledging when they've hurt someone else. instead, they mentally put 'people who have inconvenienced me' into the Bad People box so they can freely abuse them while maintaining their moral high ground.
i read ross greene a lot when i was working with "difficult" or "behaviourally challenged" children. his refrain is "kids do well if they can" - meaning, in short, that most kids act out only when the demands of a situation exceed their capabilities. punishing them for this is not only cruel but also completely pointless, because they also don't want to be doing what they are doing.
a teacher who believes that there are two categories of people - Good People who Mean Well, and Bad People who Cause Problems on Purpose - is not going to see it that way. they're gonna put themselves in the first category, and the misbehaving kid in the second category. and once they have effectively depersoned the child and placed themselves on a pedestal, the world becomes simple again. because abuse is something that only Bad People do.
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Mom fem! Giyuu request, if you want. It can be headcanons or a fic!
omggg my first request hehehe i tried my best!! i hope it's adequate <3 @atropinenightshade
Giyuu is the Best Mom!
Mom!Giyuu has her faults, but she's still the best <3
a/n: sooo i've never written anything quite like this? it's a little shorter than i would've liked, but i still really enjoyed it <3 hope you do too!! 1.3k words, hcs.
Mom!Giyuu definitely appears to be the stricter parent, often the one to set rules and enforce them, while you would rather be the โfun parentโ most of the time.
Mom!Giyuu who is also definitely the softer parent. She will try her best to enforce rules like bedtime and no dessert before dinner, but she ultimately folds the second your child starts to cry.
Mom!Giyuu silently panics the second the kid's lower lip wobbles, those big tears bubbling up in their eyes. She sees your face in theirs, and she can't stand when either of you cries.
Mom!Giyuu who will just stand there for a few moments, warring between instilling good habits, and just giving in to the childโs demands. She gives in every time.
Mom!Giyuu works very hard to overcome her reserved nature for your kid. She doesn't make a complete 180, but she manages to be a bit more open with her emotions, with her affection, at least toward you and your child.
Mom!Giyuu who is insanely protective. She will always be holding the kid's hand, or holding them in her arms as long as they're small enough to tolerate it. She has to be convinced to let anyone besides you or her get anywhere near them.
Mom!Giyuu who is absolutely the type to cry over every little milestone. First breath? Crying. First roll over? Crying. First steps? Crying. First day of school? Sobbing.
Mom!Giyuu simply doesn't want to accept that her baby is growing up. Even if the kid is still tiny, still can't tie their own shoes, still very much dependent on their parents, she can't help but picture the day they leave the nest. It breaks her heart every time.
Mom!Giyuu, despite her desperate wishes to keep her child small, does try her best to teach them. Sheโs the one who initiates most new skills, eating on their own, potty training, anything that she can be involved in, she will do.
Mom!Giyuu spoils your child. Relentlessly. They see a doll in the window of a shop? Itโs in their toy box the next day. They show interest in any sport or hobby? Every single thing they need is purchased within the next twenty-four hours. Itโs a problem, theyโre going to become a brat at this rate.
Mom!Giyuu handles tantrums surprisingly well. While she may be panicking internally, her calm and collected exterior is actually soothing to your child. Her face is perfectly collected, her hands slow as she pulls the kid in for a hug, letting them expel all their emotions before she asks what caused such a reaction.
Mom!Giyuu has no idea how to dress a child. She already struggles to put on matching outfits for herself, no real sense of style, youโd better believe she can't dress a kid either. God forbid youโre gone for any length of time, youโll come back to the wildest outfit youโve ever seen on your child.
Mom!Giyuu loves taking the kid to the park, out to the market, anywhere she can show off her biggest pride and joy. She revels in how people coo at your child, praise the manners she instilled in them, how they all ask how she managed to make them so even-tempered and polite.
Mom!Giyuu is somewhat jealous of your ability to be so laidback in regards to parenting. You aren't neglectful in any capacity, but youโre able to just play, have fun, go with the flow. She finds it hard not to take things too seriously.
Mom!Giyuu really tries, she does, but everything becomes a teaching moment when sheโs involved. She's so focused on making sure the child grows up well that she sometimes forgets that things can be done with no purpose,
Mom!Giyuu finally expresses this to you, her shoulders deflated in defeat as she asks how you do it, how youโre just soโฆ relaxed. Sheโs constantly worried about the kidโs environment, which toys they play with, how close to any form of danger they are, who theyโre around, protective to a fault.
Mom!Giyuu gets invited to a tea party with you and the kid the very next day, to learn by example.
Mom!Giyuu who smiles when your child asks her to make the tea, pleased that she's being included, and that it's something she can't really mess up. She does so carefully, ensuring the taste will be perfect for her wife and child.
Mom!Giyuu gets her hand shooed away when she reaches for the kidโs teacup, her eyes wide, worried about a burnt tongue with the hot tea. You merely shake your head, silently turning her attention to said kid, who is already carefully puffing little breaths over their cup to cool it down.
Mom!Giyuu is a little surprised, shocked that her child has learned to protect themselves from little things like hot tea. She feels a small stab of sadness, worry that sheโll no longer be needed. That feeling is completely squashed when your child clumsily reaches for her cup, blowing on it as well, so their mother doesn't burn her tongue either.
If you were the one to carry the baby:
Mom!Giyuu dotes on you entirely. She doesnโt let you lift a finger. Your cup is never empty. Snacks are in your lap before you can even register that youโre hungry. All your hormonal breakdowns are met with endless patience.
Mom!Giyuu literally carries you around. If your ankles are swollen, she not only rubs them for you, but she also will carry you from the bed to the couch, the couch to the kitchen, the kitchen back to the bed. It does not matter how much weight you gain, she will lift you with nothing but grace.
Mom!Giyuu does everything she can for you and your unborn child, she keeps track of everything. Every cramp, every craving, every bout of nausea or heartburn. Even if sheโs been told it's normal, she brings it up at every doctorโs appointment. Just in case.
If she were the one to carry the baby:
Mom!Giyuu tries her hardest not to inconvenience you. Sheโs always been independent, it comes as no surprise that she doesnโt tell you when something hurts, when she needs anything at all. Of course, you manage to anticipate her needs, just as she would have for you.
Mom!Giyuu really loves warm baths while pregnant. She gets all gooey and soft every time you prepare one for her, tears welling up in her eyes at the mere thoughtfulness in it. Her muscles ache all the time, her back and legs soothed by the bath salts added. She could lay there for hours, if the water didnโt get cold.
Mom!Giyuu is extra emotional. That stoic front she has with everyone else? Completely gone the second she sets foot in your shared home. All her irritation from the day, all the cute things she saw, that sad puppy she saw in the window of the shelter, it all piles up. As soon as sheโs home, she just wants to lay in your arms and sniffle as you stroke her hair gently.
Bonus!
Mom!Giyuu carries the diaper bag when itโs needed, always the one to handle things like that outside the house.
Mom!Giyuu glares at anyone who doesnโt acknowledge when your child waves or smiles at them.
Mom!Giyuu wants to cry when the kid makes their first friend, immediately planning a playdate with the other parent with a shaky voice.
Mom!Giyuu would do anything for you and your child. Or children, if she has anything to say about it.
a/n: hihihi!! i actually really enjoyed this, i like being asked for certain things :3 i struggled a little at first, but i think i did okay :)
comments, reblogs, and comments are always appreciated!!
well I tried to give you a chance but you took the coward's route. ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ I suppose you were just trying to start stupid drama.
Oh well if I have anyone's name in my mouth, for future reference it will be good things, a vent about someone from irl, or shit about shitty people. Otherwise I don't give a fuck.
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