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Can a person be indulged to superiority? Do you think disrelishing a person's self esteem and self confidence fine? Few, like to extend their fingers towards others. If a person is right in their ways they hate it whereas they love to point out other's.

Often, during my school day's I was targeted by a teacher saying I'm talkative. Later I stopped talking in her period. But what made her point out at me even during my absence? When my friend told me about this I was clueless but the only thing I could do is laugh. Till today I don't know why am I targeted. Does she hate me? But she's sweet towards me outside the classroom.

Accordingly, some criticize just to show up that they support a person but they forget about the person or his mentality they criticized. Inferiority complex, lack of self love, self confidence and self esteem are few reasons that make a person to criticize others. Criticism is not only pointing out to others but to themselves.

They breed depression, worthlessness and selfish behavior oneself, which pave their life's way to a difficult path. When one adapts these behaviors not only their life become worsen but they also makes the world see their insecurities. This negativity make the criticizers to look like a crap whenever they start to talk out their mind to the world. In relationships, men tend to criticize themselves and gets terrified to open up their mind to a girl. The reason is he don't want to show his true personality, his job, salary etc. All these make me feel that CRITICIZING IS A DISEASE.

Why should one feel low about themselves? In my point of view, a person has to have full confidence in him. Self love, dignity all that matters. Believing in one self can help a person to over come this criticism. Lack of confidence is the main virus that destroy your immune system - that is you. While a person is full of confidence the way he seeks the world is different - Only dreams, goals, ambition and passion were seen through his eyes. How to attain confidence? Don't think about others. Life is yours live for yourself and not for others. Every DISEASE has a MEDICINE. Here the only medicine is CONFIDENCE.

CODE:1

"We arrive together and leave together".

ie: You're not leaving with some random dude nor I'm not leaving you alone at the party.

CODE:2

"Both of us shouldn't get drunk together".

ie: Our life will be in danger if we weren't alert or aware about the surroundings.

CODE:3

"If you have to go to bathroom inside or outside".

We all have to go together ie: We move as a UNIT.

CODE:4

"If one of us got drunk to an extreme, we're leaving the party soon".

ie: So, that other one can help you to get into your own house

CODE:5

"If you just gone missing, I'll give you 15 mins".

If you didn't show up then I'm going to call upon police cause I can't go home without you. Coz you are my FRIEND.

CODE:6

"Inside jokes are not to be explained to the outsiders".

ie: We might talk about some sort of craps, what would people think about us if we let them know,huh?

CODE:7

"If you're friend hates a person, you're supposed to hate them too".

She was sailing in one old boat with pain and sorrows. The boat she's sailing was in a worst condition. Not even the boat knows when it's going to get swallowed by the water.

There came one huge wave, her pupils got dilated seeing the wave and she went out like a light.

The boat sailed got hit by a rock, got ruined and was about to sink.

"Oh god, where am I ??...will I be taken back by my creator?"these words echoed in her hearts.

To her Shock and surprise she witnessed a silhouette of a big ship, which was filled with only happiness.

"Hey c'mon, don't worry" were the only words resonated in her ears.

Later she understood that god sent 7 angels just to save her, and ye! They were called BTS. And this is how most of the ARMY's among us have learnt about them when they hated their life and themself. Now we were taught how to love and cherish ourself.