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Ex) the year I had 7th house Sag I met a guy who was a Sag Moon. Jupiter was conjunct Uranus that year in the 12th so it started and ended quickly. We also had some intense Lilith placements with each other and met at work, which could be demonstrated by Venus+Lilith directly opposing my MC.

Venus and Lilith were in Leo, not too far from my Leo Sun. That same guy I met was a Leo Venus.

I had Mercury conjunct Mars that year as well, and he was a Virgo Mars. I also had Mars opposite Saturn that year, which he had in his Natal Chart.

I had Mars trine Moon also (which he had in his natal chart). Jupiter, Uranus and Mars were all in my 12th house Taurus. Remember how I said I had a Jupiter ruled 7th house that year?

Well it was present there with Uranus (quick, unexpected) but also the Moon (we had a Moon-Mars opposition which made it very spicy). But also because of the 12th, we sort of kept it hidden. Not just because we worked together but also probably because it was so new.

It ended almost as soon as it started. As a Pisces Moon myself, I often tend to get along really well with Sag Moons and meet quite a few. But the ones I’ve met aren’t super empathetic? Like I have a Water Moon and Venus so I really need someone to be gentle and sweet with me— to care deeply and show it, to care about the things I’ve been through and show empathy— that has not always been the case with the Sag Moons in my life. Obviously other placements matter too but it is definitely a pattern I have noticed.

Also that guy with the Sag Moon had dated someone at work before and they had just broken up a few months prior. I said something about how she’s prettier than me and he agreed 💀

Ex) the year I had a 7th house Taurus, I briefly dated a guy with a Taurus Moon. My Venus was in my 9th house of Cancer that year (he was a Cancer Venus) and we ended up going on a trip together (9th house rules longer travel).

Ex) that same year I had a 7th house Taurus, I met another guy who had a Cancer Moon and Mercury, and was not originally from this country (9th house foreign travels also).

Ex) also the year with the 7th house Taurus was kind of wild how active my 5th house was. I think it’s because it was in Pisces and its ruler Jupiter was conjunct my Venus for the year. (I also have a Cancer Venus in my natal chart so may have made this more active). I had gone like 6 years without a relationship for example and then met 2 people that year that I dated.

Less than six months with the wrong person will have you scarred and weary and bitter and cold for the next six years.

Someone you snatch up while in a low- vibrational energy can fuck you up for a long time. Pisces Moons are like open sponges when it comes to energy but especially At its state as mutable water.

The realization that you lacked the self-esteem to allow someone, especially as significant as a romantic partner, to betray and mistreat you at all, nevertheless for as quickly and consistently as they did, will have have you feeling like a rabid dog trapped in an aggressive defensive energy aka survival mode, wasting your precious time and energy in lower vibrational states and repeatedly pushing away those who are well-intentioned, while inviting less Particularly men.

Cancer Risings with Pisces Moons are the most sensitive combo of the zodiac and let me tell you why—

Water, obviously

But double water

In a mutable modality

Mutable water, fixed earth, cardinal fire— where’s the air? Where is the beef? 🥩

The air is everywhere— maybe that’s why they get along so well with everyone

No but listen Scorpio moons have Mars ruling the emotional self so to speak so it’s like this lion guarding their heart or something>>>> a blue bird in my heart. The poem and the 🍿movie.

At least for then they’ve got something beyond the influence of the watery planet Moon.

but I feel mars in water signs might also be quite sensitive except mars in and of itself is fiery right so

Maybe stiller and more sensitive cancer moons are just if not more sensitive

My 12th house is technically empty, but it may be one of the strongest influences in my writing.

Inspired by a post from @the-bliss-seeker-astro about empty houses.

Gemini rules my 12th, making Mercury central to the entire pattern — especially opposing my Pisces Moon.

A lot of what I write about lives in emotional undercurrents, symbolism, contradiction, confession — things that are often felt long before they’re articulated.

HIDDEN MATERIAL

BECOMING LANGUAGE.

ESPECIALLY translating invisible/emotional observations into language but also analyzing them— psychological pattern recognition, contradiction exposed, emotional honesty— to the point where others are either drawn to it or put off.

I never write because I should;

I write because I HAVE to.

My writing process tends to move in cycles:

periods of absorption,

incubation/integration,

constant observing and unconscious analyzing,

compulsive output when feelings support it,

retreat for awhile when they don’t,

then return again for newer/deeper levels of processing.

I have this compulsive NEED to analyze, categorize, and articulate things most people leave unconscious.

My mind is constantly busy— observing, connecting the dots, automatically turning data into a meaningful story— tracking synchronicities, symbols, numbers.

I think part of why writing feels almost compulsive for me is because my mind doesn’t approach emotions passively — it wants to confront, name, and externalize them immediately.

There’s a recurring theme in my chart of visibility feeling both magnetic and dangerous at the same time. Especially with another Aries-Libra tension running through the Mercury-Moon opposition itself — the urge to express colliding with hyper-awareness of how it will be received.

My chart has a lot of oppositions, and I think that tension creates momentum creatively.

The same contradiction repeats itself constantly:

the urge to reveal colliding with the urge to disappear immediately after.

I’ve spent hours writing something only to fully delete it after feeling too exposed.

I’m also incredibly precise in my writing — which probably loses casual readers, but creates unusually deep recognition in the people who stay. The reactions are rarely neutral.

Writing feels healing for me because it lets me organize emotional chaos into something precise and honest.

I’m rarely trying to make my writing more digestible — only more accurate.

I do not understand the emotional material fully until I articulate it.

Writing helps me recognize patterns in myself I might not fully see otherwise. Looking back at old writing almost becomes a record of healing.

‼️‼️TW: narcissistic behavior, coercive control, gaslighting‼️‼️

Well call him N (short for narc-like behavior):

Side note that I do not have his birth time

Also side note that I’m obviously NOT a professional therapist and cannot diagnose but my actual therapist has agreed this person has narc-like tendencies and that I was absolutely valid in leaving

(something he intentionally would not offer and just a small forebodance for the dismissiveness to follow)

12th house overlay (his Saturn in Gemini, my 12th)

6th house overlay (his Jupiter in Sagg, my 6th)

Venus conjunct Venus (in Cancer) 3 degree orb

Moon square Saturn (his Saturn, my Moon) 0 degree orb/exact

Moon-Mars conjunction (his Moon, my Mars— Taurus) degree unknown since no birth time

Moon-Mars square (my Moon, his Mars) 10 degree orb

Mercury-Mars conjunction (his Sun, my Mercury) 4 degree orb

Mercury conjunct Sun (double whammy) 3,10 degree orbs

North Node conjunction (his NN and my Saturn in Capricorn) 3 degree orb

I think it’s important to note/know the “pain points” in your own individual chart because these will be activated by other people, especially romantic partners. Also being honest about where you’re currently at vibrationally without shame. I was not at my best here in a lot of ways and I believe this probably attracted the connection I experienced and had a major influence in what fed it (good and bad). None of us are perfect and never will be. Nor will we ever be fully healed. I’m sharing my experience with these aspects and being upfront about where I was at.

Ex) I have Venus conjunct Chiron opposing Saturn in my chart. This essentially has lead to feeling as if I’m not good enough my entire life, settling for much less than I deserved in romantic relationships. I thought I had healed this but then I met this guy and my world turned upside down. Also worth noting there was an immense power imbalance here with “N” but also something that does frequently occur for me. I think Saturn in the seventh is only half of it.

My whole point beingggg that I always thought Venus conjunct Venus would be amazing!! But I did not realize it would also activate that painful Venus-Saturn opposition in my chart (until now). I feel as if others that do not have compromised Venus’s (opposition and/ or squares to Saturn and Mars) will probably experience this aspect differently and much more positively!! (I’m curious if house placement could actually also play a role, as some houses are more positive than others.🧐)

So now that that’s out of the way… I think the other two things that didn’t work (for me personally, everyone else’s mileage will vary here) were that 12th and 6th house overlay. I have read 6th house overlays can be sweet and fun doing everyday things together (while also reading there’s always this sense of duty or like this constant feeling like you “owe” the other person). I absolutely experienced that here.

My sixth house is ruled by Jupiter which is also conjunct Venus and thus in connection with the Saturn opposition so I think that is why I experienced the shadow side of that 6th house overlay where I always felt as if I “owed” them. Again, this could just be the power imbalance too I mentioned above since this is sort of exactly what feeds the imbalance in the first place.

I’m pretty sure another ex of mine had Saturn falling in my 12th house too and the dynamic was similar— they were the “provider” but it came with the price of emotional starvation to me. Both of them were very financially stable and successful in their careers, and they were more than willing to provide and pay for meals, accommodations, gifts, etc. but it was never anything luxurious or over the top, almost bare minimum? I never felt emotionally understood by them either and I really don’t think either even cared or wanted to know me like that because I was more of just a convenience and/or comfort to them— a living object for them to “own” and make them feel emotionally regulated or “good”.

The physical attraction here was definitely strong, almost chemical because I really did not find him that attractive at first glance. I saw a picture and thought “ummm, he’s not very cute”. I’m really not someone who cares that much about appearances and actually actively dislike conventionally attractive men. As we met for lunch the first time, though, there was this just this sacral yearning for him in a way that does not happen that often for me. I believe this was likely that Mars-Moon conjunction as well as that Mercury-Mars action!

That side of the equation was spicy 🌶️ but not necessarily fully fulfilling but the comfort we had with each other and all the fun + laughs we shared totally made up for it. That was more important to me than anything. He was like my best friend. I was almost crying I was laughing so hard. And the quickness for how close we got with each other was kind of insane. Zero to a hundred, real quick. Like just so comfortable! Doing silly accents and joking around, laughing our arses off. We genuinely had a blast.

Until we didn’t. 💀 Until I was crying for real and it would outweigh the laughing cries. He loooooved having power over me and hiding that he knew things only so that he could use them against me later. Everything intimate and sensitive that I ever shared with him during our initial “bonding” phase (*cough, cough* trauma bond) was later used against me. I felt like I should have been read my Miranda rights prior to entering the relationship. 👮🏻‍♀️“Anything you say can and will be used against you…” 🚔

I believe this was my first Venus conjunct Venus experience and because it’s in Cancer, there was this way he had of being incredibly accommodating and nurturing, almost too much to where it didn’t even seem necessary or practical? He would always have to be touching me too, like right next to me at all times— holding my hand, his hand on my thigh— he was clingy af but I kind of liked it. It also got grating after awhile tbh like damn do we have to sit right next to each other in the booth at lunch?? When we’re already never apart?? Then when he wanted to “punish” me, he would go silent and withdraw all previous affection. He would refuse to acknowledge it too, which was absolutely maddening and pretty sure met the criteria for gaslighting. So this shadow side of overly nurturing but then coldly and intentionally withdrawing it. (Lovebombing, anyone?) 💣⛑️

I knew within the first week that he was bad news. I blocked him after we got into an argument when I stood up for myself after he tried to displace anger and mistrust onto me from a past partner’s infidelity. He got extremely angry and bitter very quickly, and it was honestly uncalled for. He also showed himself by using something I had shared about myself against me as an excuse to misplace this anger and mistrust. I do believe this was him testing what he could get away with. How well I would be an emotional punching bag for him.

I had hung up because I was angry and felt unfairly treated, then felt bad for doing so, not wanting to end the conversation that way so I called him back and he ignored it. That was when I blocked him. And you know what he did? He showed up at my place with a gift that he made sure to tell me he had to drive out of his way to get. When I told him I felt disrespected from the phone interaction, he did not apologize. I mean, right there in hindsight are two absolute RED FLAGS to cut this dude off for good. But he looked really good on paper and like I said, I was attracted to him an a cellular level.

I took him back. Then in literally less than 48 hours, we had gotten into ANOTHER argument where he completely dismissed my valid feelings and I got to experience that first silent treatment. He placed the blame entirely on me. I was literally done after this. I don’t think we talked for like ten days. He was blocked. It did not stop him from coming to my place though, which was a huge red flag and I did not answer.

There was this opportunity coming up, an invitation from him and I ended up talking to him again like 12 hours before the deadline, lol, because he sounded legit sad in the voicemail. I went away with him which ended up being a massive, massive mistake. I wanted to do this thing though, it sounded amazing. “All expenses paid vacation.” Which ended up having a massive financial and emotional price tag— because I actually have self respect and refuse to be treated the way he thought he could treat me due to the power imbalance.

I learned what “retroactive punishment” was on this vacation in that he set a rule only after I broke it. It was vacation, I was hours from home, and dependent on him. He decided that he didn’t like what I was doing so broke up with me, when he never even told me that was a “rule” I needed to follow which essentially stranded me. He refused to help me because he said it was all my fault. There’s even more but I won’t go into it. Suffice to say, he is not a nice person and he did not respect or have my best interest at heart.

I’m just going to be honest: I liked the attention, the stopping by my place after being blocked, the gifts, I wanted what he was offering materially, and yeah the sacral had a role in this too. It’s like part of me knew it was a bad decision but then another part just wanted to be reckless and “just see what happens”. I genuinely thought that maybe we just had a rough start instead of seeing it for what it actually was: him wanting complete control and offering the bare minimum to maintain it. Complete access. There was a toxic part of me that was absolutely exposed here— the ego part that liked all the toxic attention and wanted all the gifts. Luckily, the soul part and my own self respect and survival instincts kicked in quick enough to get out. Overall, there was maybe one full week of “good” days followed by mostly arguments.

I do think that, for me personally, Saturn had a majorrrr role in this massive sh*tshow while (mercifully) Mars’ influence ensured it started as quickly as it began. He was everything I thought I wanted (including the brown eyes) but then got, and realized I don’t actually want that. I had to acknowledge my own shortcomings that made me easy prey for someone like him, as well as credit for not selling out and continuing to stand up for myself (no matter what it cost). I had to trust myself and my own instincts here because even those close to me abandoned me, siding with him. (He’s incredibly charismatic and only showed that nasty side— that couldn’t actually be proven beyond “feelings”— to me.)

I know I didn’t really go into each specific aspect but I don’t believe that’s something that can be easily quantified because we all have our own unique charts and life experiences, including those we interact with but the synastry aspects I listed are how I personally experienced these with a romantic partner.

Pisces Moons would be now (with Moon in Virgo)

Aqua Moon would have been like two days ago?

Is it 2.5 days/sign with Moon? If so, that would be almost 3 signs/week so Capricorn, Aqua, Pisces Moons would have been this last week.

Libra, Scorpio, Sagg would have been the week before last week.

Cancer, Leo, Virgo would have been the week before the week before last week.

Gemini, Taurus, Aries would have been like week before last week x3.

These are approximate. The cool thing with the Moon is it moves so quickly so you can always track it.

I need a warning ‼️ — “do not overreact” when the Moon is transiting Virgo 🤡

Verdict: Aqua Moon! it’s the ears and the nose. Cap moons have more structured noses with slightly pointier tips, shorter chins and smaller/more defined ears

whereas Aqua moons have beefier ears, slightly longer chins and not so much of a “point” at the tippy tip of their nose

The main difference I noticed were the EARS— that gave it away for sure. It’s hard though bc Saturn rules both Cap and Aqua so they do look similar!

Bruce and Anthony actually have quite similar features and guess what? Their respective chart rulers are both in Pisces!!

Also Anthony was very humanitarian and genuinely enjoyed getting to know people in a very non-pretentious and authentic way which screams Aquarius

I also think he’s a Scorpio rising bc he looks super good in black. I originally said Cap rising but as a Scorpio rising, he’d have Saturn in the first which can give Cap rising vibes

Her second house of personal finance is ruled by Venus which falls in Leo and her 12th house

Her eighth house of spouse’s personal finance is ruled by mars, which falls in Leo and her 12th house

The rulers for both personal finance (2nd house) and spouses personal finance (8th house) fall in her 12th house of Leo

I wasn’t surprised she had Mars conjunct Venus bc this is a sign of being conventionally attractive and lowkey having a lot of suitors or people interested which is def true for her!

but also in her case, the signs mars/venus rules are associated with both her own personal finance and her spouse’s— leading to a blended sort of situation even though they have separate finances but turning out positively as in both support each other emotionally in regards to finance which makes sense having the moon involved!

I originally looked up her chart though to see if Mars was associated with Jupiter bc obviously she has a very wealthy spouse and 8th house is finance of spouse. Her 8th house is ruled by Aries of which the ruler is Mars. So although Mars in Leo is not technically conjunct Jupiter in Cancer by sign, it’s a mere 10 degrees away. Also since she has a day chart, Jupiter is capable of doing the most good in her chart too.

But there is a connection to her 8th house and Jupiter since her Moon falls in the 8th and then Jupiter is in Cancer— also since both are cardinal signs, there’s reception bc Jupiter is in cancer and moon rules cancer (moon is in Aries)

But more importantly the ruler of her spouses fifth house (aka her 11th) is ruled by the moon, which falls in her 8th house (spouses 2nd) which is ruled by mars and her mars trines the moon as both are fire. So basically good connections between her potential romantic partners and their finances!! Def fortunate aspect to have

I’m noticing a pattern with reception having a really positive effect on natives charts, esp with celebs since obviously they are considered a celeb in the first place

She has Mars 5 degrees Leo, (Mars rules 8th)

Venus at 22 degrees Leo, (Venus rules 2nd)

Moon 7 degrees Aries, (Moon rules 11th)

Jupiter 25 degrees Cancer (Jupiter rules 7th)

Also the obvious connection of 7th with Jupiter ruling it as well!!

Just a thought ✌🏻

💘If you’re a woman, look at your moon sign

💘Then start looking up birth charts of celebs you find attractive and/or past crushes or partners, specifically their Saturn

💘I bet— a lot of the time, these people will have Saturn in your moon sign

Ex) Moon in Pisces women likely attracted to Saturn in Pisces men subconsciously

💘I think this is because Moon represents our emotional self and Saturn is representative of what we find safe and stable but also which is likely to be long-lasting. Moon conjunct Saturn is common in marriages

💘But I feel like bc the moon is hidden in tarot, it’s our subconscious and we don’t even necessarily know that we are attracted to this in others. That’s why I love astrology bc patterns don’t lie

🪻This is probably extra true for those who have Venus-Moon aspects/Cancer Venus/Cancer Rising since the Moon is very apparent in how they approach the world and how others perceive them as well as how they want to give and receive love, what fulfills them emotionally

Especially if they are attractive and confident. I read somewhere that they be making people fall in love with them simply through eye contact and, yeah, I’ve been a victim of this effect. 💀

I think in particular, if they have a fire mars like Mr. Norton does, they are extra spicy and sexy and irresistible. 🥵

Prime example: Edward Norton in American History X

🏴‍☠️Remember that this is him acting and I am in no way backing up any of the beliefs his character held at this time in the film.

Ex) Saturn in Capricorn 20 degrees retrograde is going toward 19 degrees instead of 21 degrees. Let’s say you have Venus in Cancer opposing at 24 degrees. If Saturn were direct, it would actually be applying to Venus even though it moves much slower, while Venus (faster moving) moves away from Saturn

🌉Brooklyn also has three different counties so I just guessed.

🏇🏾I couldn’t help but notice that Jupiter is dominating Sun+Mercury; it is a looser based aspect (5, 14) but it leads me to believe she probably has a day chart.

🪞I think she is a Cancer rising. Usually the rising sign energy sticks out to me but with other Cancer risings, it is hard to tell.

🏝️Second guess would be Libra rising because I sort of get that Gemini/Libra five from her.

🌟No way; she radiates far too much warmth and light to not be a Leo rising

🐘She is a strong advocate for animals, which I would somehow expect from a Sag moon in the fifth house! 🧡

💬Quote from Edie herself that I have to share because it is an idea I feel equally passionate about:

"I believe this is at the base of everything bad in society—you can bring it back to cruelty to animals. If you don't have respect for the life of any kind, it will manifest in more obvious ways." [source]

Fifth house Gemini Sun and Venus have a superior sextile over Mars in Leo, in addition to the mutual reception between Gemini Sun/Leo Mars. This would explain his talent for acting right? Looking at it 20/20 in hindsight as to what’s already played out, lol, which is literally what I do

But it’s more practice for me to get familiar with the vocabulary and to understand what I’m even talking about and learning as I learn it.

He is very well liked in everyday life and at work with Venus in the sixth

I’ve found Venus conjunct Mercury people tend to be well-liked and well-spoken

Jupiter opposing that MC is 👌🏻 for his career

This lovely Irish gentleman is blowing up over the release of his fairly new movie

The Banshees of Inisherin

He’s already won a shit ton of awards. It was released on 10/21/22

And on 10/15/22 he had a “Loosening of the Bond” at the sign of Capricorn

For him Cardinal/tropical is not a quadruplicity that is considered “peak” periods for him but even so, it’s a big deal bc of the LB

I think this film will truly change his legacy. He has already had a very strong career and well-known roles but it seems like this will cement him in as Hollywood royalty, as if he wasn’t already

I noticed Libra rules his tenth house— I think that’s why he is so well-liked. Especially with sixth house Venus. And look: another sun signification with the copresence of the Sun with Venus, ruler of reputation/career.

Jupiter has the upper hand over Mars because it’s earlier in zodiacal order. Since he has a night chart, Jupiter is the benefic contrary to sect and Mars is of the sect in favor so these two combined would make the signification for eighth house matters good.

Jupiter is in a superior square to Mars, hence why it has the upper hand. Eighth house matters such as inheritance from death could present problems but they’re easy to clear up and ultimately would bode quite well due to the ruler of the eighth being copresent with Venus.

Because of his night chart, Venus is of the sect in favor and has capability to do the most good. Because it’s in the sixth, work and health matters will typically go well for him.

It’s worth noting that his Venus is in a good condition and is not being maltreated by any malefics. It is, however, “under the beams” of the sun.

Looking to the ruler of Gemini which is Mercury and it lies in the fifth house. For him this played out as everyday work in creative fields as a celebrity.

I think it’s worth noting that everyday people you meet who aren’t famous have prominent Leo placements. They don’t always have to equal celebrity but because I tend to look at celeb charts, I tend to come across it often.

Venus is in a superior position to Mars through sextile, which bodes even better for the Mars signification since it’s already being overcome by the other benefic Jupiter.