We're here for each other!

Your personality disorder doesn't make you less deserving of love and respect, nor does it make you any less aro.

Your f/os love and respect you! They will do everything they can to learn while supporting you.

What kind of content do you all want to see from us?

Hiya!

Self-shipping is shipping your self insert with a fictional character! So yeah, in a way it does ♡

I don't personally think you have to have a self insert in order to self ship!

Self-shippers refer to their faves as f/os (fictional others) as a play on significant other as well.

♡ Happy Pride Month everyone ♡

Here's a little collection of animal crossing pride hoodies that I whipped up for you guys. They're pirate themed because I am a fool with a pirate themed island that felt summer-ey to me.

Sorry about not posting lately. Times are pretty strange to say the least, but I just wanted to let you know that I have a small surprise for you all on Monday to kick off pride month.

It's nothing grand, but I hope y'all will like em ♡

You're valid if you never come out as aromatic.

You're valid if you're not sure if you'll come out as aromantic or not.

You're valid if you want to come out as aromantic, but can't.

You're valid if you don't want to come out as aromantic.

You're valid if you come out as aromantic rather than a more specific arospec label you fall under.

You know how there are words for romantic people in your life like girlfriend, boyfriend, datemate...things like that?

I've taken a page from one of my favorite games and have started calling my platonic sweeties my special ones.

Hey sweet anon I'm glad to hear that!

It's something I struggled with for a long long time myself, so I'm glad that post could strike a note with you too.

There's just a big difference on fantasizing about something and acting on it irl y'know? That goes for most things. Self shipping and self inserting can be a rly healthy outlet for things like that too. It doesn't make anyone any less ace. (Same goes for my lovely aros who like having a fictional romance!! Because ayy me too) You're doing great and I hope something lovely happens to you today ☆

There is nothing wrong about being uncomfy with the idea of sexual things irl and still playing them out in an ideal way with your faves. That doesn't make you a "fake ace" or make you just "pretending" to be ace. It's the good kush. It's not cringey or whatever.

You are still ace. There are ace people who are not sex repulsed. (Or, like I said, just repulsed of the idea of it irl) You are not gross, and your faves love you and want to do whatever makes you feel comfy. They don't hold you to an obligation.

It’s okay if you don’t feel romantic feelings for anyone, real or not. 

It’s okay if you only feel qp feelings for real people. It’s okay if you don’t. 

It’s okay if you only feel qp feelings for fictional characters. It’s okay if you don’t.

Anyway! Please know that love comes in many forms. Platonic, romantic, familial...the list goes on! Valentine's day is made to celebrate all of those! Not just romance.

I hope everyone had a good time with their faves ♡

Cooking for your fave!

Do you surprise them with their favorite dish? Maybe they had no idea you liked to cook so much!