#actually pd

your npd doesn’t excuse your behaviour

your aspd doesn’t excuse your behaviour

your bpd doesn’t excuse your behaviour

your hpd doesn’t excuse your behaviour

your scpd doesn’t excuse your behaviour

your ppd doesn’t excuse your behaviour

your stpd doesn’t excuse your behaviour

your dpd doesn’t excuse your behaviour

your avpd doesn’t excuse your behaviour

your ocpd doesn’t excuse your behaviour

your ospd doesn’t excuse your behaviour

"I'm just overreacting because there's something inherently wrong with the way I view the world" when someone is putting them down, abandoning them, abusing them, ignoring them, reading bad faith into everything they do for no reason, giving them the short end of the stick. When they're denying themselves support and comfort and forcing themselves into painful situations for the sake of being "healthy" and getting in trouble for daring to do things like vent abt it online. That's the reality for so many of us and I get so fucking tired of how literally everyone acts like it's not

Your personality disorder doesn't make you less deserving of love and respect, nor does it make you any less aro.

Your f/os love and respect you! They will do everything they can to learn while supporting you.

*pulls up to the drive-thru*

“hi yes can I have one order of object constancy and whole object relations with a side of healthy self esteem, please?”

“will that be all?”

“yep”