who’s yearning with me

I have dedicated big parts of the past few months towards the creation of this community zine! And oh am I delighted that it has actually become real!! The digital file is officially open for anyone to read.

I am forever grateful for the people in my tiny aromantic community who decided to take part in this encounter of mines! I will forever be grateful and will be thinking fondly of creating such a big thing! This bad boy is about 70 pages long!! Crazy!!

Ko-Fi link to download the free zine:

Having a boyfriend and dating but like

“You can’t compare sex work to other types of work because having sex you’re not enthusiastic about is really traumatizing”

I’m sure for a lot of people that’s true but for me sex and masturbation occupy a similar emotional space to brushing my teeth or doing the dishes and I certainly don’t feel traumatized about it and I know for a fact that I’m not the only person who feels this way.

Also I think that someone physically and violently forcing me to brush my teeth might end up being traumatizing.

Sex is so taboo and mythologized that people have forgotten the mechanics of it.

Yeah sex might be sacred and important to you. To me it’s a chore I’ve gotta do sometimes. Like cooking. I love cooking and put great importance on it and who I do it with. A lot of people just cook to live though.

Don't do anything romantic, don't buy chocolate or roses unless they're for yourself, don't love your friends, just fuck them. Gag at every romance scene. Make grossed out faces at the valentine's decorations.