your Arian @ariestocratcat here.Â
If youâre not a spiritual being with interest in astrology, feel free to close this tab.
But think about it - the moon has an affect on our tides, the way that we get periods and also simply how the sun affects our mood in the daily and we are all made of stardust. đ¤Â (yes, it is SOLID science! we are stars! - and we all need darkness to shine đ )Â
Next time youâre out gazing at stars twinkling in the night sky, spare a thought for the tumultuous reactions they play host to. Itâs easy to forget that stars owe their light to the energy released by nuclear fusion reactions at their cores. These are the very same reactions which created chemical elements like carbon or iron - the building blocks which make up the world around us.Â
Source:Â http://www.physics.org/article-questions.asp?id=52
I want to tell you about being me as an Aries with the moon in Libra and Scorpio rising.Â
I am a passionate emotional creative artist and singer songwriter, my style of songwriting is using alot of metaphors and imagery words usually with sexual references, i have been working professionally as a songwriter and artist since 2013 and itâs been quite a ride - emotionally with a depression that lead me to see a psychologist with focus in mindfulness and i realized that all my life iâve had been dealing with anxiety. Â The personality traits of having Libra as my moon sign makes me a people pleaser and because of my often violent and agressive relation to my dad in my childhood i developed this anxiety that is triggered when i am criticized for doing something wrong or when i am not being or doing the way people expect me to. the Libra is the complete opposite of Aries and therefore i am both strangely dependent on others or their approval whilst being independant in solving problems the way that I want to solve them and i can, because of my Aries traits ignore the feelings, opinions, and wishes of others when i get a set idea in my head (further down in another post you can read about Aries with Moon in Libra) So i am a darn confusing character and it gets even more confusing and dramatic when i am intensely passionate when dating whilst easily getting bored if the intensity in the chemistry between me and my partner fades away, it is an ongoing huge problem, a riddle that seems really hard to solve.
I can tell you about the last few guys iâve been dating. two aquarians, a gemini and a Scorpio (he was SURELY with Aries rising) which makes me intense with a volatile sexual energy, have in mind both Aries and Scorpio is ruled by the planet of passion = Mars, Mars rules our sexuality and sexual energy. Source: https://www.astrology.com/us/articles/planets-mars.aspxÂ
 In the first WEEK of dating i got along with them deeply, one of the aquarians showed me his best friends and brother already on the 2nd date and as they say ânothing good comes easyâ - suddenly he semi-ghosted me and was all of a sudden very busy - although he said he really wanted to get to know me and that he didnât want us to stop dating - I waited for a month with flirtatious and sexual encounters in the meantime - one time with a gemini and one time with another aquarian (both blasts from the past)  - until i realised i had to say to my Aquarian-ghoster that i couldnât wait any longer, that it wasnât possible to put myself on hold till my partner has the time for me, cause i get bored easily - and this ofc. only happens if you leave me there to be bored and leave me there to wait cause i am really really impatient. I have never cheated on anybody, sure i havenât had the opportunity of a longterm relationship yet, but when iâm really in love i will keep fighting for that love, but if my partners flaky and not in the same passionate frequency i will get bored or heâll just leave. My blast from the past Aquarian that i had an encounter with, well thatâs sorta the same story. When i started dating him in 2016 it was very very VERY passionate, although i kept on trying to hold myself back, so that this good relation wouldnât end quickly as it tends to, still! it escalated quickly and he told me he felt like it was too much, that our sexual chemistry was too wild, the both of us being that passionate was a âdangerous cocktailâ and i am also sure that he dumped me at that time because my emotions where affected by the depression i experienced months prior.  I do agree with him that it was all too much.Â
But! ofc. we decided to talk again after a year, with no intentions, just trying to be friends over a couple of beers, I wasnât drunk - but iâm not sure how drunk he was and he started opening up about what he had been through and that his dad was sick - he had been wanting to call me to talk about how itâs like to grieve over a parents death hence my experience by loosing my dad in Easter 2017, i ofc. told him to stay positive and that my experience surely isnât going to be the same as his (if it happens) because i didnât have a flawless and deep relationship to my forceful and violent Dad. I am still thinking about this aquarian from time to time but we couldnât remain just good friends cause ofc. that night i slept at his, i met his parents and they are so lovely, we also got along very well and had plenty things in common that we were bonding over - and he seemed a little annoyed about that the next morning when we had breakfast, or maybe just the whole scenario from the time we dated being replayed all over again (i am only guessing, i can only guess cause he wonât open up to me anymore). I wrote him a message about being grateful for the time we spent and i decided to pour out my heart and really explain to him how it felt when my dad was sick and how i felt when he âfinallyâ was able to rest in peacefully âfinallyâ with no pain, i told him to try keep being positive about anything that happens even though itâs hard to do and even though it seems absurd but itâs really all you can do to keep your head above water yourself in this situation.
He had not responded me when i checked my messenger a week after and i started to worry if i did something wrong or that maybe heâd been misunderstanding me and was perhaps angry at me. So i messaged him and i asked if he was mad about what i wrote to him or if he could just try and communicate with me or just at least write me âitâs complicatedâ but he didnât write to me at all, nothing .. and decided to unfriend him on facebook (yes i know real mature..but ffs iâm an aries woman) - but itâs just cause i donât want to conflict with his life again and i donât want to have the feeling that i say something wrong or do something wrong, clear communication is VERY VERY important for me, actually! it is or should be for all of us, so that we can continue maintaining our greatest version. good communication is crucial for any good relationship also close friendships. if you lower all your values for your partner or if your partner makes you lower your values and it creates a low self-esteem itâs a toxic relationship, if you often try to compromise and try to meet him where HE is, he wonât know where to meet you, thatâs a toxic relationship and whatâs being poisoned in this ârelationshipâ is your own self-worth  - but being in a toxic relationship or having toxic relations will by time reward you with knowing what youâre really worth in the end but only when you realized what has happened. That i learned along my journey as an Aries with moon in Libra.Â
In some of my posts below you can read out Aries with Scorpio rising and Aries with moon in Libra, and you can do the math ;)
However my best matches in all kinds of relations are fire and air signs.
Fire: Sagittarius, Leo, Aries
Air: Â Aquarius, Gemini, Libra
My 3 closest and best friends are Sagittarians. and they all showed up at my Dads funeral, which i didnât expect them to do at all, but they are the ones that knows me best and i love them so much! I can always count on them no matter what, theyâve helped me through rough times a kid throughout my life.
I have a solid pack of friends with two of my Sagittarian bestbuddy âbrothersâ included and weâve been friends for a very long time so to the funeral the rest of the pack tagged along which included an Aquarian, a Scorpion and a Taurus - and they always refer to me as their little sister - cause theyâve really been there when shit went down with my Dad, and if it wasnât for them i wouldnât have kept on pursuing my dreams. i wouldnât have believed enough in myself if it wasnât for them.
My 3rd but not least Sagittarian bestfriend, She is not part of the pack mentioned above but i went to a boarding school for a year with her where we actually wasnât friends at all, i was alternative, she was very mainstream and a cheerleader kind of girl - but that was just on the surface ofc. cause 4 years after she invited me to her home a while after i moved to Copenhagen from Jutland, and after one dinnernight at her apartment we found that we actually had plenty things in common, i found out that she also is keen on astrology and that was the highlight of our beginning friendship. i canât imagine my life without her and she has been supporting me in everything ever since, sheâs been at almost every concert and i too support her in everything she sets up to do, sheâs powerful and i love her big beautiful cheerful and bright positive smile and the way she dreams and pursues.
and i also have two best friends who are Leo females, ofc. weâve been through some conflicts big and small and we debate a lot but when we find a cause to both fight for or a shared passion or an adventure to pursue we are the perfect duo.
,,Thereâs alot of passionate debates and wounded pride, but never a boring moment. Both want to be the leader; both have inexhaustible source of positive energy; and neither gives up or even slows down, especially when the other is going strong. They argue often, but their disagreements donât last long. They are both eager to meet the next challenge, and seldom hold grudges against each other. Just the same, they should learn not to be offended if either feels he or she is not getting enough respect from the other. â
source:
http://ariesonfire.tumblr.com/post/8831066124/aries-friendship-compatibility-with-leo  @ariesonfire
i also ofc. have other very close friends that are Geminiâs, Aquarius and Scorpioâs
My Mom is a Sagittarian ( 19th of Dec. 1963 )
My mom is the strongest woman i know, i love her to pieces but she does not open up emotionally itâs always like âeverything is fine, honey donât worryâ, she always gets what she wants when she really wants it. She moved around in the philippines working very hard and then she moved from the philippines to Denmark and got married to my dad the first week she met him (they were pen pals in three years before they got married though) Â she was very adventurous but that has settled since she gave birth to me. She is still hard working at work and she gets done what sheâs demanded and what she demands she gets or else youâll get roasted..
she is very smiley, happy and outgoing always and she doesnât give a fuck about what people think of her clowning around. i love her so much for that especially, even though a clowny mom can always be a little embarrasing.
But underneath her clowny and emotional distant character there is a layer of worrying and fearfulnes
http://universal-tao-eproducts.com/mp/files/sun-moon_sagittarius-capricorn.pdf
http://astrology-numerology.com/sun-moon.html#9_10
 My Dad was a Libra with Moon in Aries. (24th of Sep. 1934)
 He was the opposite of me and our energy is opposite hence i am an Aries with moon in Libra, we are very similar but itâs a big hit or miss - In this constellation he had a huge ego and he always felt like a victim, he often told me he everyone thought he was the black sheep, he felt sorry for himself and wasnât an empath - very paranoid as well, sadly.. and i on the other hand donât have the huge egocentric traits of the Aries because i have a tendency to want to please people all the time and i Am and empath and iâm highly sensitive as well. I was the one who was always meeting him where he was cause i simply couldnât do anything else in order to have some sort of conversation with him. But i admire him hugely in his worklife and career path, cause he was crafty, skilled and he got really far in life and he has been in every corner of the world.
He was a professional shoemaker first in Sweden and then was headhunted by an American shoe service (have in mind while reading that this was a time where Shoemakers were needed and cool sneaks wasnât really a thing) He won huge prices and he was the Silver cup award winner of 1968 which is still considered one of the finest crafstman awards you can win. He was a Painter besides being a Shoemaker (like i am also besides songwriting) and he was taking classes in New York with Andy Warhol as a tutor in Croquis, he made shoes for ELVIS!! and Clint Eastwood. My dad was pretty darn succesful. And i believe i will so too, haha.. When i often borrow money fro people (Aries ofc. spending all my money)  I am ALWAYS met with this sentance ,,Just pay me back when you become a millionairâ - Huge pressure, but iâll ofc. do my best to pursue my dream of becoming a succesful and acknowledged songwriter.Â
-Â an Aries moon is constantly anticipating and fighting against threats. Many Aries moon people border on being paranoid about whether people are out to get them. There are things they perceive to be threats that other people don't even notice. source:Â http://www.southfloridaastrologer.com/the-difference-between-aries-sun--moon.htmlÂ
Thereâs a whole lot more to my life than what iâve just described but these are major signs that the planets DO affect how we are here on earth <3
i found the perfect gif for this post a ram and a cat. lol