♈ A r i e s t o c r a t c a t ♈

To find out your own ruling planet and many other things go and calculate your birth time here: http://www.alwaysastrology.com/birth-chart-calculator.html

1. look up what sign your ascendant/rising sign is, look for the “Asc” sign and look at what zodiac sign the arrow points at

2. Look up which planet rules your asc. for an example my Asc is Scorpio with the ruling planet Mars.

3. Look at which sign your ruling planet points at in your chart for an example my ruling planet mars was pointing at “Pisces” .

4. look up for example “Pisces in Mars” or whatever the sign that your ascendants ruling planet is aligned with.

This is what i found out about myself, this is another Aries rising with Mars in Pisces with similar creative and emotional spiritual traits as me, it could almost have been me writing that, gosh! :

From Angel Lopez (Astrology Realness):

"Here is what it's like for me as a Mars Pisces. It can feel like a blessing and a curse. At times, I feel very in tune with the physical rhythms of my life. Simply put, I have good timing and strike when the spirit moves me.

But at other times, I feel as if I'm moving through cobwebs. I can be detached from the moment and, in those times, fail to react in a quick, Aries-like way. Instead I stand still and observe or cower within what feels like my own fear of movement. In those moments, it's not fun.

Overall, my Mars Pisces is what makes me the strong spiritual warrior that I am. While others are more greatly compelled to action by challenging issues facing the world we live in, I am more compelled by what affects the soul. I want to affect change from the inside out. That is why I write. That is why I create. And that is definitely why I am an astrologer."

source: https://www.thoughtco.com/mars-in-pisces-your-pisces-mars-sign-206514

http://astroarena12.blogspot.dk/2015/09/leo-midheaven-vip-to-world.htmlSo this ofc. makes me really happy since i am determined to keep on moving towards my goals and dreams of being an acknowledged songwriter and artist. i am a Leo in my midheaven sign <3 

your Arian @ariestocratcat here.  If you’re not a spiritual being with interest in astrology, feel free to close this tab. But think about it - the moon has an affect on our tides, the way that we get periods and also simply how the sun affects our mood in the daily and we are all made of stardust. 🤔 (yes, it is SOLID science! we are stars! - and we all need darkness to shine 😉 ) 

Next time you’re out gazing at stars twinkling in the night sky, spare a thought for the tumultuous reactions they play host to. It’s easy to forget that stars owe their light to the energy released by nuclear fusion reactions at their cores. These are the very same reactions which created chemical elements like carbon or iron - the building blocks which make up the world around us. 

Source: http://www.physics.org/article-questions.asp?id=52

So..

I want to tell you about being me as an Aries with the moon in Libra and Scorpio rising.  I am a passionate emotional creative artist and singer songwriter, my style of songwriting is using alot of metaphors and imagery words usually with sexual references, i have been working professionally as a songwriter and artist since 2013 and it’s been quite a ride - emotionally with a depression that lead me to see a psychologist with focus in mindfulness and i realized that all my life i’ve had been dealing with anxiety.  The personality traits of having Libra as my moon sign makes me a people pleaser and because of my often violent and agressive relation to my dad in my childhood i developed this anxiety that is triggered when i am criticized for doing something wrong or when i am not being or doing the way people expect me to. the Libra is the complete opposite of Aries and therefore i am both strangely dependent on others or their approval whilst being independant in solving problems the way that I want to solve them and i can, because of my Aries traits ignore the feelings, opinions, and wishes of others when i get a set idea in my head (further down in another post you can read about Aries with Moon in Libra) So i am a darn confusing character and it gets even more confusing and dramatic when i am intensely passionate when dating whilst easily getting bored if the intensity in the chemistry between me and my partner fades away, it is an ongoing huge problem, a riddle that seems really hard to solve. I can tell you about the last few guys i’ve been dating. two aquarians, a gemini and a Scorpio (he was SURELY with Aries rising) which makes me intense with a volatile sexual energy, have in mind both Aries and Scorpio is ruled by the planet of passion = Mars, Mars rules our sexuality and sexual energy. Source: https://www.astrology.com/us/articles/planets-mars.aspx 

  In the first WEEK of dating i got along with them deeply, one of the aquarians showed me his best friends and brother already on the 2nd date and as they say “nothing good comes easy” - suddenly he semi-ghosted me and was all of a sudden very busy - although he said he really wanted to get to know me and that he didn’t want us to stop dating - I waited for a month with flirtatious and sexual encounters in the meantime - one time with a gemini and one time with another aquarian (both blasts from the past)  - until i realised i had to say to my Aquarian-ghoster that i couldn’t wait any longer, that it wasn’t possible to put myself on hold till my partner has the time for me, cause i get bored easily - and this ofc. only happens if you leave me there to be bored and leave me there to wait cause i am really really impatient. I have never cheated on anybody, sure i haven’t had the opportunity of a longterm relationship yet, but when i’m really in love i will keep fighting for that love, but if my partners flaky and not in the same passionate frequency i will get bored or he’ll just leave. My blast from the past Aquarian that i had an encounter with, well that’s sorta the same story. When i started dating him in 2016 it was very very VERY passionate, although i kept on trying to hold myself back, so that this good relation wouldn’t end quickly as it tends to, still! it escalated quickly and he told me he felt like it was too much, that our sexual chemistry was too wild, the both of us being that passionate was a “dangerous cocktail” and i am also sure that he dumped me at that time because my emotions where affected by the depression i experienced months prior.  I do agree with him that it was all too much.  But! ofc. we decided to talk again after a year, with no intentions, just trying to be friends over a couple of beers, I wasn’t drunk - but i’m not sure how drunk he was and he started opening up about what he had been through and that his dad was sick - he had been wanting to call me to talk about how it’s like to grieve over a parents death hence my experience by loosing my dad in Easter 2017, i ofc. told him to stay positive and that my experience surely isn’t going to be the same as his (if it happens) because i didn’t have a flawless and deep relationship to my forceful and violent Dad. I am still thinking about this aquarian from time to time but we couldn’t remain just good friends cause ofc. that night i slept at his, i met his parents and they are so lovely, we also got along very well and had plenty things in common that we were bonding over - and he seemed a little annoyed about that the next morning when we had breakfast, or maybe just the whole scenario from the time we dated being replayed all over again (i am only guessing, i can only guess cause he won’t open up to me anymore). I wrote him a message about being grateful for the time we spent and i decided to pour out my heart and really explain to him how it felt when my dad was sick and how i felt when he “finally” was able to rest in peacefully “finally” with no pain, i told him to try keep being positive about anything that happens even though it’s hard to do and even though it seems absurd but it’s really all you can do to keep your head above water yourself in this situation. He had not responded me when i checked my messenger a week after and i started to worry if i did something wrong or that maybe he’d been misunderstanding me and was perhaps angry at me. So i messaged him and i asked if he was mad about what i wrote to him or if he could just try and communicate with me or just at least write me “it’s complicated” but he didn’t write to me at all, nothing .. and decided to unfriend him on facebook (yes i know real mature..but ffs i’m an aries woman) - but it’s just cause i don’t want to conflict with his life again and i don’t want to have the feeling that i say something wrong or do something wrong, clear communication is VERY VERY important for me, actually! it is or should be for all of us, so that we can continue maintaining our greatest version. good communication is crucial for any good relationship also close friendships. if you lower all your values for your partner or if your partner makes you lower your values and it creates a low self-esteem it’s a toxic relationship, if you often try to compromise and try to meet him where HE is, he won’t know where to meet you, that’s a toxic relationship and what’s being poisoned in this “relationship” is your own self-worth  - but being in a toxic relationship or having toxic relations will by time reward you with knowing what you’re really worth in the end but only when you realized what has happened. That i learned along my journey as an Aries with moon in Libra.  In some of my posts below you can read out Aries with Scorpio rising and Aries with moon in Libra, and you can do the math ;)

However my best matches in all kinds of relations are fire and air signs. Fire: Sagittarius, Leo, Aries Air:  Aquarius, Gemini, Libra

My 3 closest and best friends are Sagittarians. and they all showed up at my Dads funeral, which i didn’t expect them to do at all, but they are the ones that knows me best and i love them so much! I can always count on them no matter what, they’ve helped me through rough times a kid throughout my life.

I have a solid pack of friends with two of my Sagittarian bestbuddy “brothers” included and we’ve been friends for a very long time so to the funeral the rest of the pack tagged along which included an Aquarian, a Scorpion and a Taurus - and they always refer to me as their little sister - cause they’ve really been there when shit went down with my Dad, and if it wasn’t for them i wouldn’t have kept on pursuing my dreams. i wouldn’t have believed enough in myself if it wasn’t for them.

My 3rd but not least Sagittarian bestfriend, She is not part of the pack mentioned above but i went to a boarding school for a year with her where we actually wasn’t friends at all, i was alternative, she was very mainstream and a cheerleader kind of girl - but that was just on the surface ofc. cause 4 years after she invited me to her home a while after i moved to Copenhagen from Jutland, and after one dinnernight at her apartment we found that we actually had plenty things in common, i found out that she also is keen on astrology and that was the highlight of our beginning friendship. i can’t imagine my life without her and she has been supporting me in everything ever since, she’s been at almost every concert and i too support her in everything she sets up to do, she’s powerful and i love her big beautiful cheerful and bright positive smile and the way she dreams and pursues.

and i also have two best friends who are Leo females, ofc. we’ve been through some conflicts big and small and we debate a lot but when we find a cause to both fight for or a shared passion or an adventure to pursue we are the perfect duo.

,,There’s alot of passionate debates and wounded pride, but never a boring moment. Both want to be the leader; both have inexhaustible source of positive energy; and neither gives up or even slows down, especially when the other is going strong. They argue often, but their disagreements don’t last long. They are both eager to meet the next challenge, and seldom hold grudges against each other. Just the same, they should learn not to be offended if either feels he or she is not getting enough respect from the other. “

source: http://ariesonfire.tumblr.com/post/8831066124/aries-friendship-compatibility-with-leo  @ariesonfire

i also ofc. have other very close friends that are Gemini’s, Aquarius and Scorpio’s

My Mom is a Sagittarian ( 19th of Dec. 1963 )

My mom is the strongest woman i know, i love her to pieces but she does not open up emotionally it’s always like “everything is fine, honey don’t worry”, she always gets what she wants when she really wants it. She moved around in the philippines working very hard and then she moved from the philippines to Denmark and got married to my dad the first week she met him (they were pen pals in three years before they got married though)  she was very adventurous but that has settled since she gave birth to me. She is still hard working at work and she gets done what she’s demanded and what she demands she gets or else you’ll get roasted.. she is very smiley, happy and outgoing always and she doesn’t give a fuck about what people think of her clowning around. i love her so much for that especially, even though a clowny mom can always be a little embarrasing. But underneath her clowny and emotional distant character there is a layer of worrying and fearfulnes http://universal-tao-eproducts.com/mp/files/sun-moon_sagittarius-capricorn.pdf http://astrology-numerology.com/sun-moon.html#9_10

 My Dad was a Libra with Moon in Aries. (24th of Sep. 1934)

 He was the opposite of me and our energy is opposite hence i am an Aries with moon in Libra, we are very similar but it’s a big hit or miss - In this constellation he had a huge ego and he always felt like a victim, he often told me he everyone thought he was the black sheep, he felt sorry for himself and wasn’t an empath - very paranoid as well, sadly.. and i on the other hand don’t have the huge egocentric traits of the Aries because i have a tendency to want to please people all the time and i Am and empath and i’m highly sensitive as well. I was the one who was always meeting him where he was cause i simply couldn’t do anything else in order to have some sort of conversation with him. But i admire him hugely in his worklife and career path, cause he was crafty, skilled and he got really far in life and he has been in every corner of the world. He was a professional shoemaker first in Sweden and then was headhunted by an American shoe service (have in mind while reading that this was a time where Shoemakers were needed and cool sneaks wasn’t really a thing) He won huge prices and he was the Silver cup award winner of 1968 which is still considered one of the finest crafstman awards you can win. He was a Painter besides being a Shoemaker (like i am also besides songwriting) and he was taking classes in New York with Andy Warhol as a tutor in Croquis, he made shoes for ELVIS!! and Clint Eastwood. My dad was pretty darn succesful. And i believe i will so too, haha.. When i often borrow money fro people (Aries ofc. spending all my money)  I am ALWAYS met with this sentance ,,Just pay me back when you become a millionair” - Huge pressure, but i’ll ofc. do my best to pursue my dream of becoming a succesful and acknowledged songwriter.  - an Aries moon is constantly anticipating and fighting against threats. Many Aries moon people border on being paranoid about whether people are out to get them. There are things they perceive to be threats that other people don't even notice. source: http://www.southfloridaastrologer.com/the-difference-between-aries-sun--moon.html 

There’s a whole lot more to my life than what i’ve just described but these are major signs that the planets DO affect how we are here on earth <3

- Ariestocratcat 

This is a curiously difficult position, presenting a problem between the emotional and mental natures. You are ambitious, eager to get ahead and anxious to please people, with a sort of personality that seems to reach out to others as if you are in need of support and guidance and affection from someone or from many people. Despite a nature which in many ways is highly individualized, you are strangely dependent on others – can be thrown off your balance by lack of sympathy, or by coldness, or hardness, or lack of consideration in those around you. This is odd of you because you are perfectly capable of ignoring the feelings, opinions, and wishes of others when you get a set idea in your head. You go ahead in spite of man, God, and the devil, let the chips fall where they may – and like as not they fall right back on you, to your great confusion.

You will undoubtedly be found in a professional or artistic, rather than in an executive career, but you have a hard time concentrating and a tendency to daydream is your besetting evil. You can give the appearance of concentration and of working to beat all get out, at the same time that your mind is millions of miles away.

You are likely to resort to all kinds of devices to accomplish concentration – and when you get it, be unable to do anything anyway. You have to bear in mind, in all things, that the solution to your problems is not to be found in other people or in your surroundings, but in yourself. Until such a time as you cease to look to the outer world for support, sympathy, and guidance and take yourself gently but firmly by the scruff of the neck and (to mix metaphors) look yourself squarely in the face, you are likely to waste your energies woefully. Whether you’re merely a daydreamer, or think yourself inspired, or a medium, your surest recipe for success is to plant your feet solidly on terra firma, look into your own nature with infinite detachment, and determine how you and the world in which you find yourself may be brought realistically and constructively into contact with each other. A sort of romantic belief in yourself, unaccompanied by action, makes it likely that you will not develop to the highest point, while romantic matters tending to go awry further confuse your mind by introducing a note of frustration. You’ll do best to avoid romance as much as possible. Get your love life settled early and then forget it; learn to take these matters more for granted, less dramatically – for if you don’t your life is likely to be one continuous drama in which you, as the leading character, will not be able to find time for anything of material consequence.

☀ ♈ SUN :

My true essence, my character and what motivates me.

🌙 ♎ MOON:

My emotions, my habbits, what makes me feel secure/insecure, how i react to others.

⬆️ ♏ ASC or ”Risingsign”:

it’s august the 8th and after reading into my birthchart i decided to make a tumblr about my zodiac sign Aries - but specifically about being an aries with moon in libra and scorpio rising.