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- Anti cdd sentiment was baked into the actions of the movement

- Those actions made cdd ableism a major part of early endogenic communities

- Very little active attempt to deconstruct these beliefs are done by most endogenic plurals or their supporters

I'm so fucking mad about the plural-blocklist situation and I am not going to stay quiet. I will tell my experience.

Many months ago, I made my first tumblr account ever. My first impression of this app. It was a scene-based blog where I just enjoyed doing stuff and minding my own stuff. My mistake? I wasn't really involved deep in the whole "endo term" shit and accidentally put #plural in one of the tags, around the anti-endo and other anti tags. I genuinely had no idea what was I doing and I had no evil intentions behind, as I thought it was a normal tag. I had no idea endos reclaimed that term. And plural-blocklist posted me there for 'crosstagging', and I found out after it appeared in my fyp. My whole account. And in less than a week, I began getting a lot of hate anons, reblogs and comments by (pro)endos/willos, breaking DNIs and literally making my ex-account a zoo of idiots whining and yelling in my ears.

When this happened, I was literally in a time where I was barely processing my traumatic experiences. The stress those people put me under was so overwhelming I had to delete my account and leave Tumblr for a long time, now coming back later as...this account I have now. I learned to block all the mains and all of that, but I still get scared of being attacked again.

As much as the user claims to be "anti-harassment", their entire follower base doesn't give a flying fuck about that. If you don't want to see anti endo posts, just block the tags. I literally block every pro-endo tag, radqueer tag and anything-I-don't-want-to-see tags. I blocked 150 accounts and up to avoid seeing that stuff. Why not do the same instead of posting people without their consent?

Do you guys realize there are severely traumatized and mentally struggling people behind the screens? Do you guys ever stopped and asked yourselves why posting minors is fucking weird? No? Then you should. Because putting a bold text saying "block, don't harass" is useless.

i am very much pro contradictory labels no matter what, and pretty anti blankqueer labels (like ethiqueer, radnormal, cleanqueer, and other examples), so if you dont agree uhhh block me yeah thats the post