A Quiet Sadist

One feature of gags and blindfolds that isn't often discussed but is regularly valued, is how it covers and erases the face. Your sub, in addition to the ability to speak and see, can also give up a sense of identity. A sub no longer has to worry about being a person. They can be an object, a possession, something that can't be responsible for their own ideas, but something that does not need to be someone anymore.

Seriously, I'm asking you.

I'm not here to make your life easy. I'm not here to bring you comfort. I'm not here to bring you joy.

And yet, here you are. Anticipating my next wish. Hoping for my next desire. Serving me at my pleasure.

What about my pleasure keeps your interest in me?

Are you looking for my kindness under my cruelty?

Perhaps my attention is all you crave?

Do you think you deserve this treatment? Penance for your unworthiness?

Or am I just a masturbatory tool through which you revel in debasing yourself?

You're reading this because you're looking for this.

You might think they're ugly. They aren't.

They're a sign you've survived. Even if you don't want it to be true, it is. It's a sign of life.

They're a sign you've suffered. Both from the trauma that drove you to act, and the act itself, by your own hand.

Finally, they're a sign of what you're willing to suffer. They're there because you put them there. The pain they brought up, you welcomed it.

And that means it's a sign of the suffering you're willing to take from someone you trust.

Every sub is unique, and that's a very good thing. However, it also means that you can't take a one-size-fits-all approach to making her beg to serve you. But at all times, whoever they happen to be, it's most important to respect the kind of sub they are.

There's the sub who still wants a full life, and wants her submission to be only in the form of play.

There's the sub that wants to be kept, maybe a tradwife or a little, one who doesn't want to have to face the world without you there to arrange whatever is needed.

There's the sub that doesn't want the outside world anymore, and wants you to completely remove them from it. They'll gladly serve you as a slave, gladly accept your torments, as long as it keeps them from having to face the outside.

And then there's the sub that doesn't want comfort anymore, doesn't want any freedom, doesn't believe in safety, only security. They want you to take whatever you want, and give nothing back.

And trying to turn one sub into a different kind of sub is foolishness. If it's not what you want, accept it, respect their choices, and move on.

Subs should be adults, but once we establish that they're making their own informed decisions, it's disingenuous to say there's a problem.

Today's a good day to feel wanted. Yet all too often, it's a day to feel unwanted.

Just remember that your submission is appreciated, your willingness to obey is cherished, your desire to suffer to show your devotion is craved.