Things I find soft in relationships :
Stealing clothes. The size doesn’t matter, the article of clothing doesn’t matter. Underwear, hoodies, shirts, pants, etc. That shit is sweet and soft
Sleepy morning kisses
Gentle kisses on the back of the neck during spooning
Helping to cook meals. 10/10 bonding
Mild PDA (small kisses, hand-holding, loving smiles, light flirting, etc)
Holding each other tight and close at night
Letting each other be as open as ever about anything
Going to the park and swinging on the swings
Taking a quiet walk side-by-side at sunset
Sitting close on porch steps and chatting
Cuddling on the couch with soft blankets and pillows, also a lot of snacks and a Disney movie
Bonding over similar interests
Shamelessly doing some talent or skill around the other (singing, dancing, drawing, etc)
Person a waking up early to prepare person b’s favorite breakfast
Helping with menstruation (such as buying pads/tampons and chocolate, running a hot bath, etc)
Reading books beside each other
Sharing smoothie/milkshake/froyo/etc
Helping with anxiety/depression/any mental or emotional issue really
I’ll probably add more along the way,,
