lookin gay, boys

firstly, i'm changing this blog's name to softneonnblm. this new name does not affect who this blog is for, namely mlm and nblm people. this also means i'll have to make a new profile picture and banner for this blog, as it no longer fits. i'm renaming this blog because of how my gender identity has changed since i started this blog nearly four or five years ago

secondly, speaking of my gender identity, i made this nblm/mlm blog as a somewhat cis, masc-leaning gay nb person. a lot has changed since then

i have a more nuanced and complex non-binary identity now, shifting between being masc and fem to the point that i consider myself trans (and sometimes transfem), something that i've been very hesitant on calling myself when i first realized i was not cis

this is the reason why i decided to rename this blog, because i dont feel like i can fully consider myself a man when my gender experience shifts and flows a lot nowadays

if this bothers you, please do whatever you need to do to distance yourself from this blog. i do not tolerate harassment and attacks.

finally, if you wish to keep following me (or even follow me because of this post, which is very sweet of you), then i wholeheartedly appreciate your support, whether you've been following me for three days or for three years. i know i've just been a random reblogger for most of my time here, so it's nice to see when i see captions and tags and notes in general on the things i reblog or even make original posts about. i see them in my notes all the time and it makes me happy seeing a lot of you talk about the things i like, even if they seem kinda trivial

thank you for being such a lovely community. even if i dont feel masc sometimes, i'll keep reblogging nblm/mlm posts because i know it holds a special place in your heart to see them on your dashboard. i'm still a queer person at the end of the day, and being queer means supporting each other no matter what.

love yall <3