anon-support

I have a fandom groupschat if you want to join? I think it's all about putting yourself out there. The more people you meet the higher the chance that you'll find someone with the same interests and personality like you! But if you're not actively trying to meet people (like joining clubs or working) it's going to be really difficult.

i think you should casually mention it first during dinner.. like say you you've just seen a update of the concert on social media and mention that update to them to get the convo started & then you can mention how much you've saved up so far. after that you can ask them what else you need to do to be allowed on going to the concert. also make sure you give them the impression that you know what the hell you're doing.. like make sure they know you have a solid plan (transportation.. timestamps.. food.. company..)

you are not alone. with that i mean that millions of people feel the same way you do. maybe you can take comfort in knowing that you are not an exception. and your time will eventually come. you just haven't met the right person yet but you will. if you allow yourself to think positively about yourself your confidence level will rise. that will make you feel better!

if i were you i would honestly tell the family. maybe they know more about what happened to him this time. at least they'll know how you feel. sometimes all a person needs is to share their thoughts with someone. to let it all out. i think it could help you with coping. make you feel less alone.

we all have those thoughts sometimes. it's what you do with them that counts. if you feel like you are capable of acting upon them and if they are affecting your life then maybe you should consider getting serious help.

oh honey, in some cases it’s good to rid yourself of certain people. life isn’t perfect and neither are people but this girl doesn’t sound like a keeper. i think that if you made it clear to everyone why you decide to cut her out of your life (because she’s a manipulative bitch) others would probably follow you soon afterwards. you can’t be the only one feeling this way. and if they don’t follow you then at least you know that they all deserve each other. 

the way i stopped was, i put nearly all my money into my savings account, so i was basically living of 10 euro’s a week for like a month. that made it impossible for me to even think of buying sushi. my brain was in survival mode.

and if your partner lied that they were raped just to get someone kicked out of a club then they need jesus. if that’s the case it changes the whole story. if your partner lied about something so cruel then they’re manipulative and you should probably say sorry to your ‘’friend’’

thank you!! your friends are pretty damn stupid for attacking you. i mean, i hate it when people only see one's actions but not their intentions. i’m sure you meant well and you deserve better people in your life.  

you’re not selfish as i’m sure you’ve sacrificed more than enough to make your dad happy. however, if i were you i would rant all you want to me (this blog) but not to your father as you don’t  want to hurt his feelings. at the end of the day the man is sick. he probably doesn’t want to spend his life doing shit he doesn’t like because he knows he’s going to die sooner than expected. maybe he’s realized that life is too short and is a bit selfish himself. 

I believe that people can change if they know what they did to fuck up. If you’ve figured out what you did wrong and what you should have done, then I believe you’re already a better person. The fact that you know you fucked up, and feel remorse, is a sign that you’re not an awful person. We’re far from being perfect, love. The only way to grow as a person is to make mistakes & to learn from them. 

surround yourself with people who care about you and want the best for you. surround yourself with hobbies you like, with work you like, with a study you like. cut off all the negative energies, whether that be a tv show or a person, it doesn’t matter.  you need to find your happiness as it won’t go looking for you. if you feel sad you can choose to feel happy. it sounds impossible but it’s not. you’re just not allowing yourself to think positively. especially with depression, being depressed is all about your thought process. with depression, you’ll only get better if you ask for help and allow yourself to get better. if you don’t want to get better you won’t get better. if you do want to get better then you need the help to guide you. change your habits, if something bad happens try to reflect on it a different way. you deserve to be happy, or at the very least to be content with life, to have peace with how life works. and if you need a little extra help to find that peace do not be afraid to ask for it. 

This is pretty much my life in a nutshell. I particularly get an anxious feeling. Like: life is going great now but for how long? The only thing that helps me is to literally BLOCK these thoughts out of my mind. When I catch myself thinking them I literally ‘’scroll down’’ or ‘’swipe’’ to the next thought until I find one that is positive or doesn’t make me completely miserable. It can be anything, maybe you are religious? Maybe you think everything happens for a reason or maybe you’re just thinking about kittens. It doesn’t matter as long as you block the negative thoughts. Personally, I tell myself that I will worry about it once it happens. It works for me so maybe you could try it too. Push those thoughts away for as long as you can. If you are certain everything will go to shit anyway what is there to lose? Might as well enjoy the time you have left as a semi-happy person right? 

Thank you so much! I hope the same <3

That’s understandable, love. Still, try to be there for her. I don’t need to tell you because I know you know very well but you have a limited amount of time with her. If you keep avoiding her you will regret it for the rest of your life. You can sit at home and feel miserable OR you can comfort your grandma and feel miserable. It’s up to you! 

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