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RED JASPER

When you're trying out something new, when you try to challenge yourself by doing something you've never done before. When you try to do something for them even when you feel uncomfortable or unsure of yourself when doing it. They appreciate these kinds of instances greatly. It shows your willingness to challenge yourself and also how much they mean to you, so much that you're willing to do something you don't usually do. They love how much you give in the relationship, how much effort you pour into it to make it work. They love the care you give them and the relationship itself. 

When you appear more aggressive and decisive, even showing your anger. You usually appear restrained to them so when that restraint loosen up and you let out a more passionate side, it takes them by surprise and tickles their imagination.

When you're silent but then suddenly bursts out laughing or pouring out a torrent of ideas to them. Or anytime when you're being still and quiet then suddenly change your mood and become more animated. It's endearing to them, they love seeing your childlike attitude when you discover something interesting, when your mind is swirling with ideas. They also love it when you instigate surprise outings and adventures. They like seeing you letting loose and be carefree. Your enthusiasm is contagious. 

When you share your most intimate secrets with them, when you tell them something that nobody else knows. It feels like a privilege, to be invited into your inner world. They love your mind and your voice. When you whisper sweet nothing in their ears, when you pour out your heart, when you gossip, when you discuss important matters with them, all moments of communication are precious to them. When you're silent and secretive, it drives them crazy.

When you're so effortlessly popular with other people. You obviously care about people but there's also an element of nonchalance in your demeanour. You blend into any crowd with ease, yet you still remain uniquely yourself. They love that you don't run after trends, you follow your own rhythm and somehow that captivates people all the more.

CARNELIAN 

When a polarity within you shows itself. They love to see the contrast in your character. You can be very serious and responsible, acting with caution and prudence. You have a restrained manner that doesn't allow you to go overboard on anything, not too emotional, not too angry, too excited, too carefree. Yet, sometimes, that restraint slips and lets another part of yourself peek through. At a time like that, you can be a little clueless or childish without you noticing. But they do and they love those moments. Not that they love to see you act silly but they love the surprise when someone who seems so put together, who's so mature and so sure of themselves, can have moments of "weakness". Of course they won't tell you this, lest you become self conscious or embarrassed. But they will secretly watch you, to catch a glimpse of both the wise sage and the playful child.

This person is not afraid to be the softer one, the weaker one in a relationship. Their ego doesn't get threatened by displays of individual power and independence. On the contrary, they love it. You're the most attractive in their eyes when you assert your will, when you set your path ablaze and are not afraid to pursue what you want. When you're intensely focused on something, when you're chasing your dreams, when you feel life to the fullest, when you're fighting, for yourself, for a cause, and especially for the relationship with them. They love your individuality, the way you just be yourself unapologetically. Even when you argue with them. They love a fiery attitude. 

Don't be surprised if they purposefully try to rile you up. They love to hear you talk, especially in public space, with other people. They love to see how you deal with the stress, the anxiety, how you navigate tricky social situations. Any ways you show your personal power, they love them all. When you also empower others, give them advice, inspire them, when you have others looking up to you, it makes them proud to be your partner.

Despite that, they also love your messy side, they love contrast, remember? When you're a little absent-minded and seem to forget them for a moment, when you seem to float away into your own world, distant and don't care what's happening around you. They would wait for you to come back, patiently, so don't make them wait for too long. 

RUTILATED QUARTZ 

When your every action comes from the consideration of a greater good, in relation to other people. When you're so selfless and think about others, yet remain strong and resilient, not being pushed around. You know yourself enough to take responsibility for your every choice and action. You live life not just for yourself, the world does not revolve around you, you know you're connected to everything, everyone, your actions affect your surroundings and the people you're with. So you're careful with your choice, you consider factors outside of yourself and think about the big picture. A people oriented person you are, and that is so attractive in their eyes. You don't put yourself first but you also don't put others first either, you view both in equal importance. They know that you're fair, that their opinions matter to you, that you're truly a partner in the truest sense.

When you're so detached from material attachment. To you things come and go, material possessions are just the surface, you seek deeper meanings, deeper ways of living. You can find fulfilment and happiness even when you don't have many physical possessions. When you show them the depth of your inner life, your dreams and aspirations, they're in awe. Even so you're not haughty nor judgemental. You understand people's hearts and their suffering. Your kindness is the brightest jewel in their eyes. They love the happy twinkling light in your eyes when you help other people, when you are with those you love, when you give people hopes and laughter. They probably find you so beautiful in a social setting, when you're surrounded by people. That's when you're the most charming and passionate, when your warmth can find an outlet.

They also find you very endearing when you nag them or being a little fussy. When you're so attentive to details. You can be a perfectionist sometimes and they love to see your mental gears turning busily. Like how people find peace and calm when they watch the process of making something so intricate. The attention to details mesmerises them. And they know that whatever you nag them about, you're probably right.

OBSIDIAN 

This group looks so simple yet focused, intense yet light, contradicting. They seem to be able to see your many facets and find all of them fascinating and attractive. They see your public persona, they see your private self, they see your core. They can see how you separate several aspects of your life from each other, you act differently when you're working, when you're with them, when you're at home, when you're at foreign environments. They love to see you in every scenario, love to see how your personality manifests in different situations. 

When you're so serious and risk-averse. When you try to have a plan for everything, try to make sure nothing can get you by surprise, no adversity, no enemy, no disaster can ambush you unaware. You always try to guess people's intentions, to see through the surface, the deception. Sometimes you can be paranoid, too cautious, distrustful or pessimistic. But they can see it as your superpower, your strength. Your cynicism helps you see through life's various traps. Your no-nonsense attitude means that either they behave with serious intention or they shouldn't waste your time. They want to prove themselves to you when you're like this, that they can be dependable, that you can count on them and trust them.

When you're so afraid of something yet you still march on ahead, ready to face your fear. Your strength is not the loud kind but of hidden and quiet kind. You don't go around roaring loudly to prove you're strong. Your strength shows itself when a crisis arrives. Seeing you conquer your fears and solve any problems inspires them to do the same. They might be both afraid and in awe of you at the same time. Something so dangerous yet so beautiful.